She always tells me that and says you should do it too. She says it feels great...does it really... and i think its really distusting and dont want to. She one of the prettist girls and should not do that!
2007-11-08 10:12:11 · 26 answers · asked by channel4everxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There isn't anything wrong with what she does.
You can touch your own body. What is wrong with that?
Guys do that as well.
Mostly, it might be keeping your friend from hooking up with random guys. you should think that's a good thing.
Try not to think about it if it makes you uncomfortable, but i have friends who do that as well. they find it the norm and weird that i dont choose to.
2007-11-08 10:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all, it is extremely common to do. It is even not uncommon to talk about between close friends -- especially when it is an all-new and kind of crazy experience, honestly.
Secondly, it is the result of perfectly natural urges. Different people experience sexual desire to different degrees and frequencies -- and satisfying it yourself is easier and safer than feeling like you have to rush into trying sexual activities with someone else well before you're emotionally ready.
Thirdly... it really can feel great, yes. You shouldn't feel compelled to do it just because your friend says to -- but the reason people do it so commonly isn't peer pressure, it is the physical pleasure. You shouldn't feel like there is anything intrinsically bad about it. Whether you do it... and more to the point, how much you do it... isn't a matter of good and bad, right or wrong, but personal taste.
2007-11-08 18:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by M W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women and men masturbate. I don't do it alone but i do it with my boyfriend. Guys like it when a girl is sexual. There is a time and a place for it. What is done behind closed doors is not for others to decide. You may not be into it and it does not mean your friend is a lesbian. I have never been with another female but my boyfriend likes it. When you are into 4 play then i don't see any harm in it. You must be really young and that is why it bothers you so much. If you were in 20's or 30's you might feel differently.
2007-11-08 18:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by spleefarella 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you're refering to masturbation it is normal for both sexes to indulge as long as it's not to excess...and it's also a matter of individual choice so if you don't want to, don't, and she should respect that and not tell you you should but....you need to respect if she chooses and not tell her she shouldn't...and being pretty has nothing to do with it. There is nothing illegal about it as long as it's in private, and the only moral laws depend on your own particular belief system...which is yours. If it's not her's, then that's that....MYOB...and she should do the same....
2007-11-08 18:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by The Original GarnetGlitter 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Havent you heard the saying "dont knock it till you try it"? It is good and healthy. How pretty someone looks has nothing to do w/it.
2007-11-08 18:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well touching yourself..
its better than having guys do it for her..
and it would obviously feel good..
that's something tho that you shouldn't be telling the world haha
i mean its not bad if she does it.. but its sorta of normal..
guys do it. alottt. but its not big deal when they do.
so girls can have pleasure to. lol
its really just something personal that you can choose to do maybe if you get bored.
but religiously speaking i think it might be bad. I'm not sure.
2007-11-08 18:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What are you like 12? Trust me it's not a horrible thing, it's not gross.. And who are you to say she shouldn't do that. Everyone does it, just not everyone talks about it, and it's a crying shame that people could condone it or call it gross. It helps women figure out what they like in bed so they can tell, or show, thier partners. It's a good thing to know what you like. Trust me.
2007-11-08 18:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by cresentrosetat 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ahhhh i think you will find that over time most people will "touch themselves" and do not find it at all disgusting ---- after all its your body and as long as you dont hurt yourself anything goes ---- dont knock till you try it --- maybe in a few more years when you physically mature some more
2007-11-08 18:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
masturbation is a natural thing. it's way too provide yourself with release when you don't/can't get any at the time. trust me, deployed military members to iraq know this feeling. you should take your friends advice, and you'll see how happy you will become
2007-11-08 18:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
exploring one's sexuality is normal and i believe should be encouraged because it is the only way we can know about what our body is capable of. know yourself before others. one big reason women fail to discover what they can enjoy is because of inhibitions regarding their sexuality leading to their HIDDEN frustrations.
2007-11-09 17:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by dani l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋