Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

There's this dude who's always snatching glances at me in class and turns away when I look. 3 yrs ago I used to like him alot & he knew about it --he used to look directly at me in a teasing way to aggravate me.....but then it got bad -we haven't talked after for 3 yrs when i found out he lead me on for fun.....now in my 4th yr ..he's in my class for the first time again....and now he's snatching glances at me every once in while ......i didn't respond when he tried to tease me at the start..he stopped....however unlike 3 yrs ago he can't even look at me in the eye (totally opposite change).....TOTAL ignorance at times.. why the secret glances though? is still he trying to get my attention for his ego? or he thinks i probably still like him?

2007-11-08 08:32:37 · 11 answers · asked by hmm 3 in Singles & Dating

I live in US and my Girlfreind live in UK.We both are Indian citizens.We want to get married in UK or US under the Special Marriage Act.How exactly should i go about it?

2007-11-08 08:32:11 · 3 answers · asked by postmedirect 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 08:31:45 · 14 answers · asked by irishgirl15 1 in Singles & Dating

Last week, my exboyfriend(who broke up with me two months ago) came up to me during school once and asked if we could talk for a minute. We're both in seventh grade, by the way. HE asked ME who I liked in our school?!? And what I mean by like is by having a crush on or liking more than just a friend. Since I'm not the type of person who usually lies or makes stuff up, I said I had a crush on two people (one of him, since I'm working on getting over him and moving on with life and the other person is this eighth grader I now have a crush on). I told him I liked two people. He wanted to know who, so I said an eighth grader and someone else. After that, there was a moment of silence and he asked who the eighth grader was and i said his name (which is Grant) and he said, "I think I know who he is. But who's the other person?" I just said, "I don't really feel like saying anything." and he said, "Ok, that's all I wanted to know." Why would he ask something like this?

2007-11-08 08:31:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if husband or boy friend always ask you so many question where are you ? where are going? why you didn't pick up the phone even you are busy and he get mad on you so what should do leave him?

2007-11-08 08:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by Jagpreet K 1 in Singles & Dating

ok sorry this is only sorta about that but I HAD to find a way to get people to answer me....

Ok well I mentioned something about this in previous questions but ok... One day I was bored on the computer and I took this quiz that was supposed to show you the first initial of your soulmate... I took it and got "j" the funny thing was I didn't know any guys with a name that started with "j"... a few nights later I had this dream... and it consisted of me looking deeply into these beautiful icy blue eyes and in the eyes I saw myself... and my life... as if whoever's eyes the were would always be in my life... ok well the next day I went back to my old town to see a friend at a football game... and she introduced me to this guy... and the second I saw him I KNEW that they were his eyes. I mean it was unmistakeable the feeling of deja vu that swept over me... and then I found out his name.... Julian......do you think this means anything or am I just crazy??

2007-11-08 08:31:03 · 3 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to work for this person and after four years not seeing each other, I suddenly want to see him again. He was a great boss, very friendly with a nice sense of humor. We keep in contact by e-mail lately and I just had the urge to see him again as a FRIEND now. So does anyone ever had had that experience with a former boss?

2007-11-08 08:30:48 · 21 answers · asked by LesBellaSera 1 in Friends

I really enjoy dancing and do a lot of it, but not because I'm looking for love, I have a boyfriend. Because many guys that dance are interested in hooking up, I'm always careful to keep my distance. Then one night I was talking with a guy (age approx 22-23), we talked about my boyfriend, then he still asked me if I was interested in taking a dance class with him. So I said yes. Comfortable that he knew about my boyfriend, I assumed he just wanted to be friends, so I have been very open with him, and allowed myself to be close to him. That was about 6 months ago. Very recently, we started emailing back and forth, and I thought it prudent to make sure he still remembered our original conversation, so I made a casual reference to my boyfriend in an email. Since then--nothing. No email, though I've emailed him a couple of times. I like this guy, and I want to be friends, but maybe he doesn't. What do you think? Any advice??

2007-11-08 08:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by BECCA 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so i came out to the school allready,, and some people noe that i have a boyfriend,, he wants to hug in the hallway, but im not sure if i want to yet, i dont care what people think, but idk i have 2nd thoughts bout some1 seein me hug him,, what should i do???

2007-11-08 08:30:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been with a guy 4 almost 3 months and he wants to have sex but im scared?!!!

2007-11-08 08:27:42 · 9 answers · asked by bibi 1 in Singles & Dating

I want a color that represents who i am ...i was thinking of pink and orange bcuz i am fun and creative and i love those colors. but is it to much? My first option was maroon and white with roses as centerpieces and on my cake and bouquets. Any suggestions?

2007-11-08 08:27:03 · 18 answers · asked by bettysr2002 1 in Weddings

2007-11-08 08:24:03 · 4 answers · asked by laila i raandaan 1 in Weddings

Is sleeping together technically having sex???

2007-11-08 08:23:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did you husband or wife have a wild past? Partied a lot, slept with a lot of people, cheating, did drugs...etc?

Yes....did it make you more comfortable knowing they got it out of their systems and were able to learned from their mistakes?

No....did it make you feel more comfortable because you know that they would never go back to those wild days or even have it on their minds?

2007-11-08 08:19:28 · 23 answers · asked by TroubleRose 6 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy and my best friend had a thing for eachother for a couple of weeks and my friend realized that the guy totally was not her type..now a month later i am friends with this guy (as is my friend) and the guy and i have lots in common, does the fling between my friend and him make him off limits for me? (my friend has even mentioned that she thinks him and i would be really great together) Its feels somewhat awkward going after someone that once had feelings for a good friend...

2007-11-08 08:18:25 · 7 answers · asked by Tia Marie 1 in Singles & Dating

Continued: DO they look at you alot? DO they act embarrased when they talk to you? Help me PLEASE!

2007-11-08 08:16:01 · 5 answers · asked by Maddieeliz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 08:15:14 · 8 answers · asked by zack g 1 in Singles & Dating

should I be worried hes going to some strip clubs what goes on there with the bachlore???

2007-11-08 08:15:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey, there have been a lot of things happening this year and now im in this huge thing that i cant see a way out.. my best friend is in love with my best guy friend but neither of them can go out till 16 so now they are best buds... i am the third wheel except for this other girl that has just made matters worse... we formed sort of a clique.. and im trying to break out of it but the only way to do so... is to stop hanging out with my friend... because she JUST hangs out with them and if i want to hang out with her i have to hang out with them too and there is also a bunch of complicated things involved... urg. so anyway, my question is actually, do you think my parents (especially my mother who expects me to tell everything to her and go to her if i have a problem at school [btw i already told her about it but she says wait it out]) do you think she would get mad if i consulted a teacher who apparently gives great advice? would she mind? and would the teacher be annoyed if i ask?

2007-11-08 08:14:47 · 3 answers · asked by MysteryGirl 2 in Friends

My husband and my anniversary is coming up on the 15th. We have a son who is three years old. We don't have family or anyone else to watch our son, so it will have to be a family celabration. What is a good gift for my husband and what are some suggestions on what we can do that can involve my son? Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

2007-11-08 08:13:21 · 4 answers · asked by lady_bella 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I give him snack money and cool pecils so he could be using me but he sometimes asks me to sit with him at lunch and he cares when Im mad....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-08 08:13:02 · 25 answers · asked by JP 1 in Friends

I haven't looked into the cost yet, so if anyone is willing to share what they spent, I'd appreciate knowing.
That being said, I was just wondering if anyone is considering learning to do calligraphy themselves (or maybe has already learned) so they could do their invitations themselves.
I did a quick online search and there are a number of sites that show you how (for free!) it seems like if I got a light box that I could really do a great job by "copying" from the letter templates.

2007-11-08 08:08:55 · 8 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7 in Weddings

he is studying in a university outside the country. im studying in a university too bt not the same as his. we have been going out for six months is it good that he asked me if we will have sex? the communication is just ok we always talk to each other. now im asking myself if i should take a step futher with sleepihg with him. or he just wants to ****! help plis

2007-11-08 08:08:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's almost as bad as 'significant other'.

What are better alternatives that don't sound so goofy?

2007-11-08 08:07:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

power then after our first kid sex went bit downhill not havin it regular but occasional then we had second kid and again sex got less and less and now my performance is affected to the point where i *** even b4 i enter my girl foreplay is not a problem i make sure my girl gets plenty but can see her dissapointment when i ejaculate even b4 entering her why is this but when i masturbate on my own i can last longer what can i do to correct this and if theres techniques can they be explained in detail

2007-11-08 08:06:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When he was to turn 15 he made mistakes, lied. He used to be a good boy, very close to me, but I got hurtm said he had lost my trust and it'd be hard to get it back. He got devastated, cried, pleaded, but I was hard on him. It took me 6 months to trust him again, though he never messed up again. It was a hard time to him, he got emotionally disturbed, suffered, got depressed. But he got over, he found people who gave him trust among teachers and in a church where he voluntered. When I finaly trusted him again it was a hard surprise to learn my trust wasn't so important to him anymore. He told me he still liked me but was hurt, I hadn't acted as a mom, should never have told him he had lost my trust, never belived I thought about his best. He could understand a punishment, but never what I did.Actually, he made us proud but a starnger, never shared his life w/ us agai. Today he's doing great, a dr in Math, married, will be a father in 3 months and I got to know because a friend told m

2007-11-08 08:05:18 · 28 answers · asked by Helen 1 in Family

My partner on purpose waited years played harmless games tested me before he said he was in love & proposed marriage to me later when he wanted to do it earlier.He says he knew all along he was in love & wanted to make me his wife.We just made out not consumated our relationship.He played games tested me.Should i wait till marriage hold out he wants to make love have kids now.Since waited years to hear he loves & proposal of marriage.Hes single in 30s powerful successful professional im in 20s professional.

Not played games tested in return here i want kids he knew it.He truly deeply loves me wants to make me his wife why wait years to say & propose marriage on purpose.He says hes late should have done it earlier not later.He wants to make love have kids now we are committed.He said he knew all along he loved me wanted to make me his wife.This doesnt involve any girl or other guy we love each other committed to marriage.Serious answers.Breaking up or therapy not options.

2007-11-08 08:04:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 08:03:30 · 80 answers · asked by Ms Tracey Lyn 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 08:02:33 · 22 answers · asked by roughruggedraw 2 in Singles & Dating

im 16yrs young.
and lately i have screwed
everything up.
i missed more than half the
school year and i have all
f's. they just found out.
i tried running away but
i came back the
same night
and i have just been
getting in so much trouble.
my parents think
i dont love them.
but i do i love them with all my
heart.
how can i tell them
that???

2007-11-08 07:59:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family