2007-11-08 08:31:45 · 14 answers · asked by irishgirl15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same here; it is useless try to not hurt her, your best way of action is to tell her your feelings and offer her your sincere friendship.
2007-11-08 08:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Isaac L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will most likely hurt the person even if you are very kind. But being kind and gentle is the best way. In life we all get little crushes and it is much better for you to do this soon. The longer the person thinks otherwise the harder it will be to take. Good luck!
2007-11-08 08:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Lily S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the hardest thing of all.. I mean because it shows how big of a heart you have and you don't want to do anything to make them hurt or yourself feel guilty for them hurting..
you could tell them that you are not into a relationship thing right now and you would just like to be friends
i mean it's tough but it's hard to do, so you just gotta find a soft easy way of breaking it to them
2007-11-08 08:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Stop the world I want to get off 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, you just have to do what you need to do. You can't control other people's feelings, but you can control the way to approach the situation. Hopefully, this person is mature enough to understand that your wanting to be friends only is not a reflection on his/her character. If you didn't like the person, you wouldn't even want to be friends. Friends are all the wonderful people in your life that you love but are not in love with.
2007-11-08 08:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by AK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what, their feelings will get hurt. but just tell them that you just need a ittle space from them for a while (probably a month or two) always keep in touch and when you want, go past the friend stage again.
2007-11-08 08:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please let her know, just let her know that i want to get to know you but as a freind maybe i will change my mind in the future i want to be freinds, i really dont want illusinate you and because it is not right, i am sorry if i hurt your feeling i rather tell you now that is early and not 6moth later.. whenever you want to just hang up and talk for any advices you need i be there if you let me...
if she no or course you out you did the right thing , is better early then late..
2007-11-08 09:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by rosemary _it_here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to hurt their feelings regardless. Just be nice and gentle as you can be. It would be more cruel not to tell them and to string them along.
2007-11-08 08:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them because its probably the best way! the only thing that they would not like is for you to say you do like them when you really dont. it would just be better to just tell them how you really feel! it has always worked for me! hope it help.
2007-11-08 08:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Club Penguin Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him like it is!! I mean no one likes to be told that but you have to tell them the truth...it would actually hurt them more if you dont tell them! That would be lying.
2007-11-08 08:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with ther ppl bellow me. u will hurt them regardless. just say it in a nice way :)
2007-11-08 08:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Dragonfly :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋