how can i tell my parents?

Question

im 16yrs young.
and lately i have screwed
everything up.
i missed more than half the
school year and i have all
f's. they just found out.
i tried running away but
i came back the
same night
and i have just been
getting in so much trouble.
my parents think
i dont love them.
but i do i love them with all my
heart.
how can i tell them
that???

they are really strict.
and i feel like mom likes my sisters more than me.
i dont do these things on
purpose
it just
happens.

Answer 1

Through your actions, they always speak louder than words ever will. Right now your actions speak of a girl who is lost and searching for answers.

Answer 2

First of all how is it possible that your parents are just NOW finding out that you've missed so much school and are failing every class? Seems like they need to take a lot more interest in your academic life and you need to tell them this. There is no excuse for their ignorance.

But, this is still your fault. You know that what you were doing and you knew that they would find out and that it would hurt them. More importantly, what you are doing is demolishing your future as we speak. Education is the most important thing for someone your age. Start getting one!

Your parents know you love them. What you need to show them is that you respect them. Take the punishment they give you. You deserve it. Stop skipping school and start putting forth effort. Everyone else does it. Why shouldn't you have to?

I also get the feeling you are probably hanging out with a bunch of losers who skip school and fail their classes too. Do everyone a favor and find some new respectable friends.

Answer 3

That kind of sounds like me, there was a point in time where my mom and I would fight all the time about nothing and I heard her tell her friend one time "I really don't like my daughter"..and that really hurt me when she said that, So I talked to her and told her that I was really sorry for how I had been acting and that I did appreciate her and the things that she does for me...I told her that I really loved her alot and I didn't mean to hurt her or make her upset. Then after that, things slowly started to go back to normal. Just tell your parents how you really feel and that your sorry for the things you've done to dissapoint them and they will forgive you..all they really want to know is that you have some respect for them..because no matter what they will love you, they are your parents.

Answer 4

You should start by writing a letter to them and tell them that you're sorry and you will do better in school. But that is only saying it. You have to do what you say. So start doing good in school, and take charge of your academic activities. Show them that you can do it, and also get a bi-weekly report to show them that you can and did improve.

Answer 5

First of all LOVE means everything. So if you want that your parents believe you. You just don't have to say it, You actually have to prove it to them by going to school and keep your grades up. I mean I'm pretty sure that you are in High School and High school is not that hard OK. And stop screwed around.

Answer 6

you can't tell them it and have them believe you. You have to show it, actions speak louder and truer then words. You show it by showing respect for their house and their rules. You get your act straight and start going to school and working at your grades. Change your group of friends, because any friends who let you screw up this bad are NOT friends.

Answer 7

You can show them by starting skool and bringing up your grades. Also you can start by not getting in so much trouble. Hope I helped!!!!

Answer 8

show them by going to school and bringing up your grades

Answer 9

Don't tell them with words, SHOW them with actions.

Answer 10

Say "How can you think that I don't love you?" "It's not like I try to screw my life up, but sometimes it just happens."
Then leave! Good luck!!!