Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

I mean he went away for one week and did not call me once like he said he would...does this mean he doesn't care or he did not miss me...cause if he cared and missed me wouldn't he have at least made the effort to call me once to say hi

2007-11-08 07:59:23 · 10 answers · asked by MissLady 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 07:58:50 · 61 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Weddings

for the new year thats coming soon!

2007-11-08 07:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by Guess Who 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Most men that I have met, confuse the hell out of me, maybe it's just the type of guys that I go for, but it seems that men don't really know what the hell they want these days. You want a woman who isn't confusing and knows what she wants, but if she comes across too aggressive and is too straight forward with you, you shy away and get turned off. Yet if she's shy and too passive, then she's considered an airhead or stuck up.

I've also discovered that my straight forward approach, usually results in a guy becoming a jerk or big-headed, because when a woman hits on a guy, he figures that she must be this way with all men and that's not cool. Either that, or he may start thinking "Yeah, I'm the sh!t, let's see how long I can string her along. You guys don't seem to want to date women who like you, but would rather keep us around as your ego boosts, while telling all your friends you have a girl wrapped around your finger, while falling for stuck up airheads. What do you guys want???

2007-11-08 07:51:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you have odd/taboo fantasies? Which have you acted out? When? With whom? Who's idea was it? How did you enjoy it?

2007-11-08 07:50:36 · 10 answers · asked by momtosaraandscott 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf is 24, I'm 27. He doesn't have much experience...I do. He can't even handle talking about sex, let alone HAVING it. It's like a once or twice a month occurance (way too infrequent in my opinion). We've talked about it and he says he's just shy and also doesn't want to be the "typical" guy. I get rejected every time I try to initiate anything sexual with him, so I've finally given up. But the problem is, he rarely initiates it himself. Other than this our relationship is awesome. He's my best friend and we get along incredibly well. So what gives? What is his deal and what do I do about it? While I know sex isn't everything, it does mean a lot to me to share that experience with the one I love. So what do I do???

2007-11-08 07:48:57 · 8 answers · asked by medgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter has a horrible tongue when it comes to her father, she yells at him, gets mad when we dont have extra money for her and says it is his fault he needs a better job, she isnt this way towards me and it is upsetting to me that these two are always arguing. I love them both very much and want a way to get her to respect him as she does me.......

2007-11-08 07:48:28 · 11 answers · asked by Shaunna C 1 in Family

2007-11-08 07:47:35 · 14 answers · asked by Yep Yep 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i'll start from the beginning i know its long but please someone give me advice? My cousin lives in wv and i live in ga. we have known each other since we were 6. Her baby died 3 months ago and she is going through a hard time and doesn't have any money so I bought the baby's headstone and told her she could come and stay with me I even sent her 100 dollars to come down to ga. As soon as she came down here she was snorting pills left and right I had oral surary the same day and she stole all of my pills and did something with my antibiotics since we locked all my meds up well just the ones she would take. I have a brain dicease so i have alot. well she was asked about then lied of course but I believed her and just though i forgot what I had done with them. Then I caught her stealing my keys to break into my parents house to look for pills and this time my neighbor caught her and so did I. her fianc"e never did anything like that so I felt bad for him.

2007-11-08 07:46:20 · 3 answers · asked by babydoll12383 2 in Family

My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years this month. We have only been married for about 9 months of the total ten years, and our first year of marriage has been rather rocky. Before we got married we could count on one hand the number of times we fought. Now it seems as though that is all we do, lately we argue at least once a week and it's driving me crazy. Most of the time we are arguing about something he doing or has done. Serveral of the reasons are that he has co-workers over at least two or three times a week to play madden, another reason is he's not a compassionate, or affectionate person, he's very critical, and our relationship is all about him and I am so busy trying to make him happy all the time so we won't fight I bottle things up and never tell him whats bothering me because he as though I need to deal with it. He gets mad when I talk to my best friend about things and not him but why would I talk to him when he is so critical.

2007-11-08 07:45:19 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This was the love of my life. We where having problems and seperated. I thought we were working things out, but he decided he wanted to move on.

2007-11-08 07:44:27 · 9 answers · asked by cindi34442 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother-in-law is a very old, sickly, pious, annoying woman who loves to guilt trip us into visiting her frequently with our toddler daughter (even though she lives 4 hours away) by saying we don't love her. I want to find a nice Christmas gift for her that will make her happy and maybe get her to lay off with the whining for more visits! I thought of giving her a quilt I'm making out of my daughter's old baby clothes--but I was making it for ME and I selfishly want to keep it! I'm torn! Part of me wants to give it to her and say, "See? If we didn't care about you I wouldn't give this to you! Now leave us alone!" but the other part of me wants the quilt. :( What should I give her?

2007-11-08 07:41:09 · 11 answers · asked by Jacqueline D 4 in Family

Someone used to liked you you didn't like them back.......a few years from now you start liking them......Now you feel like you regret it because you didn't like them...

2007-11-08 07:38:43 · 16 answers · asked by Live Love & laugh 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23, he is 26, and we have been married for almost 3 years. I like to be social, and around friends a lot, clubbing, social drinking, dancing.... He perfers to go to a movie, dinner, or something simple. He does not drink, or dance at all. Although I love to see a movie from time to time, but if that's all we do as a couple, that can get boring. Does anyone have a marriage like this and does it work in the long run???

2007-11-08 07:38:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I told him that I am not ready to be in a relationship but we are good friends. He usually expresses his feeling though but now he told me that maybe we are not meant to be. I like him a lot but I don't want to be in a relationship due to school (college) and I never had a boyfriend. I used to being single I don't express my feeling as much as he does. Do you think he is right? Do you sense when you are meant to be and are you usually right?


He doesn't want to be friends anymore but he says it will be tough.

2007-11-08 07:37:10 · 4 answers · asked by Sandy G 1 in Friends

I understand all the responses I received while ago when I posted that question. I accept full responsibility for my actions and no one made me do anything I did not decide to do. I am not trying to blame my wife or say she drove me to do it. I am not looking for justification, sympathy, or condemnation. All I am trying to say is: the other spouse, whether they realize it or not, in most cases, is responsible, to a degree, for the affair. My wife and I had many long discussions about the affair, she was open minded enough to sit down and listen to the what I had to say. I did not blame her, I told her how I felt. Agreed, it should have happened before the affair. There are two sides to every coin. One thing I learned for sure, the grass may look greener on the other side of the fence, but it still has to be mowed.

2007-11-08 07:36:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 26 , my dad and his new wife have 8 kids , my dad asked me to come stay and help w/ getting the kids up in the morning , feeding clothing , laundry and bossing kids into doing chores (wich often means threatening) , while he and his wife work , but when they get home i continue to be on call , it was originally to be in lieu of rent to do these things for a basement aprtment for me and my son , but then they changed their mind and put me in a small room upstairs , i was orginally supposed to come and go as i please after 6 , no i need permission , and my dad has started saying that i must ask every night my boyfriend stays over , which i humilateingly enough do , which i dealt with then he started saying that my bf couldnt stay over unless he was (my dad at home) my bf is a school teacher , dresses acts professional is out of the house by 5 every morning , he helps with chores , the kids and helps clean the house w/ me. Does this sound a bit unfair ?

2007-11-08 07:34:48 · 37 answers · asked by Dissonance 2 in Family

keep her ex-husbands last name even though she is remarried?? She has 2 children from 2 different men and both these kids have different last names, on eof which is her maiden name. Don't you think it would be ladylike to change her name to her husbands name instead of her ex's???

2007-11-08 07:32:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He said she was just a friend. what do you think?

2007-11-08 07:31:32 · 27 answers · asked by Tracy Jane 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 07:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by ★Greed★ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and his family do not celebrate Christmas whereas my family and I do (we're of different religious backgrounds)
We have an almost two-year-old little boy.
Here's the dilema: His parents want to keep our son for two weeks right during the Christmas holidays, as that's when everyone in their family is off, and although they don't celebrate Christmas, they still get together (like a reunion type thing ) They have a big family and this is when people are able to get together.
My family, though, is really looking forward to spending the holidays with our son, as am I.... we've already bought gifts for him and a stocking and everything. Everyone's excited....
My husband is telling me that it's selfish of me to want to keep our son with us for the holidays when we see him all the time and his family hardly ever gets to see him (they live across the state) and I think it's selfish of him and them to not keep him the couple of weeks before Christmas. Who is right?

2007-11-08 07:29:10 · 8 answers · asked by shellj_foxy 3 in Family

My boyfriend of 8 mos broke up w/ me because there are rumors going around amongst his friends that I said certain things about him and his family. These girls obviously don't like me. He's seems to be taking their side because he says he's known them longer. And I say, I'm his girlfriend and I'm telling the truth on the matter. Is he being fair?? Him taking their side makes him as low as they are....righ???

2007-11-08 07:28:16 · 14 answers · asked by ~JUST ME~ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like him but when i am with him he is like my boy friend. he will say hey cuite and you have a hot butt and he is not my boy friend. he will look at my butt,and say things like. i am going to get some now.he will smile at me all the time.what do i do

2007-11-08 07:27:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I look ok, and guys flirt with me alot. but still I'm very shy and I never talk to guys I always wait for them to talk to me...can somebody give me some advice on how I get more confidence with guys?

2007-11-08 07:27:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 07:25:54 · 49 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 07:25:04 · 6 answers · asked by gingertootie44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm obsessed with weird places to have sex. I've done it in a corn field, in my parents bedroom, on a rocking chair, in an attic, in the front yard, under a bridge, and a number of other strange places.

how about you? :D

2007-11-08 07:24:55 · 50 answers · asked by BeckyN 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 6 years. We have a wonderful child together. Unfortunately, these 6 years have been very rough to say the least. My husband has been very unsupportive of me, hiding money from me, and make me feel very isolated from his family (he is an extreme mama's boy) on the other hand i have been in arguments with him and been very quick to say mean things to him that were very hurtful. We briefly tried counseling and i don't know if it would be worth it to try it again. I know that I do not love my husband anymore but I also do not want to hurt him anymore either. My husband wants to try counseling again but I would think that after 6 years of someone promising to change that the chances of them changing are slim to none and i do not know of any counselor that can change the way my heart feels. I am very depressed and i am sick of seeing all parties involved unhappy over this - especially my child.

2007-11-08 07:24:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

tell me anything:)))

2007-11-08 07:23:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 2 friends named ______ and _____. One of my friends named _____ has a friend who tould her bad stuff about me so know my friend went up 2 me and my other friend and tould my other friend i dont wanna hang out with u cause u hang out with this ______. What do i do should i be her friend

2007-11-08 07:23:16 · 15 answers · asked by yessi4ever 1 in Friends