how do I get more confident with guys?

Question

I know I look ok, and guys flirt with me alot. but still I'm very shy and I never talk to guys I always wait for them to talk to me...can somebody give me some advice on how I get more confidence with guys?

Answer 1

Dear woxex:

Do the following, EVERY DAY~
to assist yourself in this department!

In your normal day's activities~
Kindly talk to others~ every chance
you get. NOT just guys, or young
people, talk to other girls. Get in
the habit of Increasing your Comfort
Level for Social Style Interaction~
with others. AS you mature & do this~
it will all of the sudden seem Natural
& EASY to talk to guys you wish to
establish a rapport with! It will become
2nd Nature for you! You will have hardly
NO Fear~ of talking with hot guys.

If you see a guy at the Mall with an
A & F shopping back? Approach him
& ask: "Wow! You went to A&F HERE?
Where is the store located?"

If you see a girl walking around town~
& you like her hair or make-up or shoes~
simply say: "You have nice hair!
What kind of make-up do you use." etc.

Then when you see a hot guy, looking
good, you have confidence to approach
him too! Let's say you like his shoes!

You can simply say: "Where did you get
those shoes! My brother (my cousin)
has been looking to buy a pair like that."

Then you can have a smooth transition
into ~where a great Italian Restaurant is.
Ask a guy if he has seen that new movie
that just came out~ too! Would he
recommend it to you?

As your confidence SOARS to New
Heights~ you will walk up to total HOT
guys who are Strangers, standing in line
at a theatre. Ask them what movie they
are gonna see & state that you are
uncertain which one you want to see.

Try to be really honest & Genuine in your
interactions though! (Don't FAKE IT!)

If you do NOT like a hot guys Hair~
Don't say you like his haircut & ask for
the location of his stylist! Select your
topics accordingly!

Does this make sense?

After awhile~
Hell~ you can just jam up to a hot guy
& say: "Do you go to the "ABC" University
on Main Street? You look like a guy I
met last semester!" What is your name?
I'm Mary & am doing a class project.
Can you assist me on the subject of
Building Inner-Personal Confidence?"

Now the whole world is at your finger-tips~
woxex girl !

Go for it woxex!
Have FUN!
Meet ONE New person every day!
Then 2!
Then 3!
Then 6 HOT Guys *EVERY DAY!
YOU CAN DO IT! Take "baby"
steps every day! Soon you will RUNNING!

You could even walk around with a steno pad & "interview" hot guys!

Have your questions written down!

How could it be, *ANY Easier for you?

Good Luck woxex!
Go get um~ Tigress!

My "FEE" for this Valuable Info
I impart is:
You have to HELP Others~
Over-Come THEIR FEARS Too! OK?
:-)

Answer 2

It's okay to be shy. The best way to overcome it though is to have your Friends with you for back-up support when you talk to a guy. Just ask him how's his day or something and go from there. If you need help or go blank, your Friends can bail you out by saying oh we have to go, or they can throw something into the conversation as well. After you do this a few times, you should gain some confidence and not need your Friends there to back you up. Just be yourself.

Answer 3

Oh, just say play sports with them. Guy like to be competitive and rough with each other, so go out and start playing soccer with them. Once they see a girl they'll start being very careful not to hit into you. Then you be competitive, and the will be confused as to whether or not to be competitive back. This will bring you out of your shell. Trust me.

Answer 4

Just laugh at them. That seems to work. They'll be more comfortable around you and open up to you and then it will be easier for you to do the same.

Answer 5

I used to be just like you. What I did I just told myself "F*ck this sh*t, if I don't talk to him now, I'll never know what could of been or will be and it won't kill me to try so I might as well talk to him". Try it, it worked for me.

Answer 6

Just be open and talk.