Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

I am divorced, 30, and wear glasses full time. Looking through the relationship sections, many woman say that eyes are the #1 physical feature they look for in men. If the eyes are coveed by glasses, is that a turn off?

2007-11-08 06:14:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you sleep with somethat you didn't fancy? or do you think that you have to fancy someone to have s.e.x with them??

2007-11-08 06:13:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son's biological father was never around to help out in any way, my son is in his teens and I don't know how to tell or help him out whenit comes to his personal issues! and all of a sudden his father wants to be in his life. Is it right of him to just come into our life again after all these years, and now that I'm Happy where I'm at with my Husband. my husband even named my son after him?

2007-11-08 06:13:02 · 3 answers · asked by shibuddy 2 in Family

id like your answers for my use for my guys b-day

2007-11-08 06:12:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A really attractive girl asked me out the other day and I was so flattered. We talked for a while later on the phone and I told her I would call her in a couple of days when I made sure my schedule was good I wasn't going to call her until tonight when I got off but she came into my store a little while ago. We talked for a while but I didn't bring up any plans for the weekend. I wanted to wait for another customer to leave the store in the interest of being professional. I still plan on calling her tonight but did I drop the ball and screw up badly ?

2007-11-08 06:12:44 · 6 answers · asked by Mattymc323 3 in Singles & Dating

1999 my gf and i got married because she's pregnant(lthough i will still marry her even if she isnt pregnant in the near future).i was only 22 and she 19.it was a very very hard life for the both of us--baby's needs, rents, bills, food.after a year she got pregnant again.2003 my sister gave me an opportunity to work outside the country.then in 2005 my wife then just said that she felt out of love already -- even before i went out abroad.i tried to work things out silently but she filed an annulment which is really hard to accpet.then i met a single mom in our country via chat.things worked out just fine with us -- suddenly i am smiling again and feel loved.the problem is , deep inside me, i still love my ex wife and i know she does too (but she filed an annulment?which is really puzzling me)and another part of me wanted to make things work with this new love i've found.cant help but compare the 2 and the ex always win.i still love my ex but i dont want to lose my new love either

2007-11-08 06:09:54 · 42 answers · asked by d3nnis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating the man of my dreams for almost a year now. He has asked me to move in with him the begining of next year, when my apartment lease is up. ( he has a new house )

I love this guy with all my heart and I want it to work out.

Any advice what to do, or not to do when getting used to co habitation ? Anything you would have done differently ?

A little background info:
Im 23 hes 32
I am a single mom to a 3yr old boy that he loves
we are both divorced and scared to make the same mistakes

2007-11-08 06:09:48 · 12 answers · asked by Jamie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I had an affair on my wife about 8 years ago. I am not trying to justify it or say it is right, it is not. But the other spouse in their own way or ways is very much a contributing factor. So the blame lies with both, one chose to express it in an unfaithful manner. Yes, my wife and I are still together and things are great. The other spouse needs to sit down and seriously look at their own lives what they are doing that led the spouse to cheat. Again, it is not justification, but it is reality, it takes two to marry and three to cheat. I know some of you will blast me for having an affair, but once a cheater always a cheater is not true.

2007-11-08 06:08:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This morning on my way to work, I was caughht in a traffic jam. It was about 6:30 am. I looked over, and this guy was playing with himself. I could see everything. I drive an Jeep, so I was alot higher than him and could look straight down. There was a wreck ahead of us that had taken the drive to a dead stop. It was soft at first, but I think he seen me watching him. Then it started getting erect. He was pretty good size, I couldn't take my eyes off of it. I watched the whole time, even as he finished. I feel kinda guilty, but it was exiting to say the least. I'm afraid if I tell my husband he'll get upset, because I didn't do anything, but watch. I didn't even think to call the police. Should I have called, or just watched like I did? Has any of you experianced the same thing, and what did you do? I found myself getting very exited, if you know what I mean. I hope to see it again someday. I think?

2007-11-08 06:07:57 · 9 answers · asked by Heather M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 06:05:06 · 13 answers · asked by shibuddy 2 in Family

my boy friend and i have been to gather over a year and its been great. but now hes working alot and has very little time for!

2007-11-08 06:04:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 06:00:34 · 21 answers · asked by softkisses4707 5 in Singles & Dating

I didn't find out her age until our 2nd date. Now I think I am really starting to like her! We are talking about a serious case of "oneitus"!

2007-11-08 05:59:27 · 60 answers · asked by BirdsFanBaby 2 in Singles & Dating

What should i get him for xmas?

By the time xmas comes we would of been seeing each other for 7 months. I have not got a clue what to get him.

He is into rugby and not aftershave

2007-11-08 05:59:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 05:58:12 · 5 answers · asked by ellie 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok... I'm looking for some serious advise..Please.
For the last couple months (6) I started working out and eating very well, and I lost 15lbs and toned my mid section somewhat. I even bought smaller Jeans, size six, I was an eight before. This week it feels I have gained so much weight and my thighs and stomach feel heavy. I went to put on my six jeans and couldn't!. I am wearing my eight jeans and they are very snug (tight)...What happened????? My dress is tight...I can't take much out of it...I hardly ate anything yesterday...just trying to see if something would change...
Ahhh..I am so upset...I have been crying almost all morning...What can I do.....fast one week toning, body wraps...cleanse...anything...Please...Please...

2007-11-08 05:56:20 · 21 answers · asked by ricky74 1 in Weddings

Okay, I live in a very,very small town and there is only one place that i can have my reception. It is very nice with a dance floor and many tables that include table cloths,silverware,etc.
We have already gone and looked at the site and decided how we will decorate it. It's the perfect place for a reception, the only problem is.....

They only book events 30 days in advance!!!!!!!

What should i do?? I don't want to put this place on my invitations, then figure out its already booked!!! I'm so stressed about the situation, any advice!?!?!

2007-11-08 05:56:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am in the following situation and would appreciate a male opinion. A guy that I have been friends with lost my number, he wanted to see me so he turned up where I work to try and find me cos he wanted to see me. If you liked someone would you do this so that you could see that person??? thanks

2007-11-08 05:56:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going on a 3rd date with a guy I am really attracted to and he hasnt tried to kiss me or hold my hand or anything. I know some of his friends and they said he is really shy. Should I just plant a kiss on him when I see him tonight & see what happens? or should I wait for him to make the move?

2007-11-08 05:51:20 · 25 answers · asked by leosun 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are seperated and we have a two year old. We live in the state of NM and he doesn't want tpo end up with back child support. He only makes $1,800 a month and I bring in only $700, but I will be going back to work full time in December because my rent alone is almost $700 a month. How much should he pay every month till we do get divorced and so there will be no back child support owed?

2007-11-08 05:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by rm3alford 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i am planning a wedding reception for my youth minster and i need some lists of good reception songs.....now plz dont say "ask them" cause my friend and i are supposed to do all the planning.......they want us to do this stuff....PLZ even one song will help! thanks!

2007-11-08 05:48:42 · 7 answers · asked by basketball.babe2011 1 in Weddings

What is a good excuse to go visit my female neighbor? She typically takes a day off work evry couple of weeks and sits in her basement watching TV. I want to go over and keep her company but I need an excuse to ring the doorbell.

2007-11-08 05:48:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am marrying in April 08 and purchased my wedding dress earlier this year. Looking at things now I am having second thoughts about my dress and think that maybe it's too plain and not what I really want?

Do all brides do this when they've supposedly found THE DRESS? should I maybe think about changing it now whille I still have time? or do you think that your first choice is always the best?

2007-11-08 05:48:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Why is it that most women assume that all men cheat on their girl. This amazes me to no end. At any moment you can look in here and see questions from women about men cheating. Why is this? I'm married and have been for ten years and believe it or not, I haven't cheated on her. I know this is going to come as a shock to you women, but all men don't cheat. Maybe you should start asking what did I do to cause him to cheat on me? Or, if I hadn't been such a ***** would he have still cheated? Get over yourselves.

2007-11-08 05:47:32 · 7 answers · asked by Jim C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if you really had to say who comes first or have the greatest love for.

2007-11-08 05:47:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do parents think they have the right to make you feel small? Why do parents think they know everything? Why do parents think they can answer your phone and put their nose in your business? Why are they so annoying?

2007-11-08 05:47:12 · 8 answers · asked by no name 3 in Family

My Husband and I have been married for 2 yrs and we are always arguing and we both love each other but we don't get along and were at the point of going our seperate ways! We don't want to break up but don't know how to go forward were considering marriage conseling, but what are something we can do to work at things now waht should we try to do!

2007-11-08 05:46:45 · 10 answers · asked by shasha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've heard that
1.Sex
2.money
3.children
are the most difficult to talk about. What are you top three and why?

2007-11-08 05:43:39 · 29 answers · asked by smiles 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey guys ok first off thanks to everyone who answered my other questions I wish I could pick everyone ask best answer! But heres another one! For my six brides maids I am having jade color dresses 3 in each one of the syles in the links below. If you go to the links on the side you can select the colors from tabs on the side of the dress to see the Jade color. The other color for the ribbons on each dress will be a pink. However I can not pick which of their pinks look best with the jade! The maid of honor will be wearing the opposite with a pink dress and jade bow. How do you think that will look and which color of pink do you think will look best with jade? Thanks in advance!

Oh ps... By fiancee is in the army and wants to wear his dress blues uniform. Do you think that will look ok with the Jade and pink color scheme?

Links will be edited in in about a minute. Not enough space. THanks!

2007-11-08 05:41:48 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6 in Weddings

I have recently had a family upset, not with my immediate family but an extension. I have grown up with these family member. Especially thier child, whom I have been close with since she was born. They recently have just stopped all communication with my immediate family
( mom, dad, and myself) I had nothing to do with it. They have never called me to see how I was doing since I just gave birth to my daughter. I think about them all the time. But they never call me. What should I do. All I want to do is keep in contact the their little girl, since they really don't care about me. I just miss them so much. I just don't know what to do.... HELP!!! I am so sad about this situation. I have actually called in the past. And I have never received a call back from them.

2007-11-08 05:40:23 · 5 answers · asked by zengarden 2 in Family