2007-11-08 06:00:34 · 21 answers · asked by softkisses4707 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, I have never been dumped. I always been the dumper. Usually the girls move passed it and we remain friends so I'm sorry to say I don't have much to provide. I do know that the first girl to dump me will probably hurt me alot since I've gone so long without it happening to me.
2007-11-08 06:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes! I've been on both ends. And JoAnn is right... exersize is a great remedy.... it get's the endorphines running - and that makes you feel good. Time is the other obvious remedy. Some days will be hard - and others will just be okay. Keep yourself busy. Meet new people - as hard as it might be... and as much as you don't want to go out because all you do is think about that person. And put your cell phone away... don't write long letters begging for things to work out. It's annoying from the other end - and you only embaress yourself. Especially when I was out having a couple cocktails - I made it a point to leave my cell phone behind.
Good luck to you. Time heals all wounds.
2007-11-08 14:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There were times when I thought I couldn't get past it. That's is probably because the love I had for him didn't just go away when he decided to be with someone else. As time went by, I was able to accept that it was truly over and was then able to move on. Now I am happily married to a wonderful man and can't imagine life any other way!
2007-11-08 14:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please read this link:
http://discoveries.wordpress.com/2007/10/15/discovering-when-a-love-affair-is-over%E2%80%A6and-how-messed-up-you-are-after%E2%80%A6/
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For now, start exercising. Buy one of the new DVDs such as the line dancing, or the boxing in place. Each time you feel sad, turn it on and work along with it.
OR buy yourself a treadmill and walk while you watch TV news, but not a love story movie or TV show.
Exercise causes chemicals in your brain to rush through your body and make you feel happy.
Start drinking water instead of sodas. V8-Fusion is a good substitute for sodas. It will give you your daily veggies and fruits. You will feel so much better. Stay away from sweets.
Don't let yourself get to the point where you are "enjoying" the sadness.
Get on with your life, take a class, start a craft where you will sit with other people. Do not isolate yourself.
2007-11-08 14:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, but with time, you learn to move on. I've been very hurt in a few relationships and if and when they brokeup with me I was usually down and moping around for a bit. But, with time your heart heals. They say for however long your relationship was, double that amount, and that's how long it will take you to fully recover and forget about that person. I'm a firm believer in that; but am currently happy and over the past, moving on to bigger and better things.
2007-11-08 14:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel this has probably happened to most of us, it certainly has to me. An old wives tale says it takes as long to "get over" someone as you two were together and I believe it. I am still not over a guy whom I haven't seen in over 4 years. Keep yourself busy and involved is the best advice I could give you.
2007-11-08 14:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by kattsmeow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my ex left me and said it was over, but (intentionally, I think) gave me mixed signals about whether it really was. I acted stupidly for a couple of months, till the new girlfriend texted me and told me she was pregnant. It's amazing how fast you can get over an "obsession" when you're mad.
2007-11-08 14:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by oj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.......... My ex and I broke up after 2 1/2 years, and when he left i cut him out completely, I went on for months being cold and emotionless, I thought i was over him.,... but then he calls me out of the blue saying he missed me and blah blah blah....... its been like this for over a year now..... we'll go months without talking and then he'll call and I'm back to being in love with him.... it sucks!
2007-11-08 14:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by Bubbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah....I am going through that right now..It's hard but it seems as days go by I am forgetting about him little by little.
I think the best medicine to this is time. Its hard and takes a while but eventually you will get through it.
2007-11-08 14:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by .:Denise.: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes am I am past it, but you still at times bring it out and put it away again.
2007-11-08 16:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋