I didn't find out her age until our 2nd date. Now I think I am really starting to like her! We are talking about a serious case of "oneitus"!
2007-11-08 05:59:27 · 60 answers · asked by BirdsFanBaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you both come together and talk about whats right thats how you'll find your answer. Talk with her if you both think you should be together and you make a promise to each there then stick to it. If i was in your position that is what i would do. Make sure you dont force her to be your girlfriend though..it'll end up bad
2007-11-08 06:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't wrong, but be careful because you are setting yourself up for quite a ride. No matter how "mature" she may seem or how much older she acts, she is still 18 years old. I'm sure you remember how much you changed as a person between ages 18 - 23! The changes that occur during those years are more profound than the ones during high school!
Be aware that she still has a lot of growing to do and allow her to do so. She still has many mistakes to make and learn from. It can work, but keep in mind that when you're 30 she'll only be 21 and just able to join the bar scene, and her priorities and interests will likely be different than yours. Do not lecture her about this.
2007-11-08 06:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here are the problems you will face:
1. You are old enough to go to a bar, she isn't. That will cause tension when you want to go out.
2. She has never lived on her own. She may want to move in with you when Mommy and Daddy are pissing her off.
3. She has never had to be responsible for any bills or anything.
And you hopefully are. This will create some tension.
4. She hasn't even begun her further education or career path yet. Do you want her relying on you all the time?
5. She has never had a real serious relationship before, where she has lived with anyone or anything, how to you expect her to handle life with you?
6. She is probably not very experienced sexually yet and even though she has herself an 18 year old body, if she doesn't have the moves to back it up, you will get bored.
If you can handle all that, then go for it. But, it seems to be a guy your age is blinded by the perky boobs and naivety.
2007-11-08 06:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Well...you wanted an answer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, I'm 25 dating a 20 year old. We have our problems with age but it's not that big of a deal. If your the 27 yr old, then just realize that your mate is a lot younger and has different ideas and you have to respect that.
2007-11-08 06:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by adsklfjadlgj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 and my boyfriend at the time was 27 although he acted like a 15 year old. We are not together anymore but as long as you are both comfortable with the age thing then so what. My grandpa is 8 years older than my grandma.
2007-11-08 06:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can be. But as most people will say...As long as you are both Mature enough to handle the relationship you should be fine. You will find out that it can take a lot of work though...B/c somewhere down the line her immaturity will reveal itself and it can threaten your relationship. I know this b/c it has happened to me. I'm 24 and my b/f is 35. I'm VERY mature but there are still some things in life that I am learning, and the mistakes that I have made have put major pressure on our relationship. So...Just make sure you understand one another. And be patient with one another, Good Luck!
2007-11-08 06:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as the maturity levels match, it's totally fine! But keep in mind that 27-year-olds are generally in a different place in life than 18-yaer-olds. Do you both want the same things out of life, right now?
2007-11-08 06:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to date with a huge age difference. But think about it first. What would an 18 year want someone half their age?
2007-11-08 06:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not wrong, but less likely for a successful relationship than if she were a couple of years old. There tends to be a pretty big difference in maturity, interests, etc. at those ages.
2007-11-08 06:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by treetoplover1960 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's obviously legal. There can be hardships though. Do you hang out with friends at the bars?? Cause including her in that is a long way away. Is she in college?? Her friends?? That's a tough way to relate to her and them.
She's going to be very inexperienced in the relationship world. She's way behind you in the life experience category.
To answer your question, no it's definitely not wrong......but be prepared for a lot of differences in your lives.
2007-11-08 06:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by jtbrick1208 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋