Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

I am almost 50 and my wife is 40. My wife of 5 1/2 years is a very beautiful woman, I'm not a good-looking man right now, I've gained a lot of weight over the last 4 years and it is very concerning to both of us.

During the past 5 years, I've had to defend myself against 3 malicious lawsuits and have been constantly dealing with a custody battle with my ex over my daughter. To say I've been under a lot of stress would be an understatement.

When I'm stressed, I eat and I've been battling this for decades. During this time I've been working my butt off making enough money to support my family (wife, daughter, step-daughter) in a comfortable fashion. My wife during this time attended cosmotelogy school and we've set her up in business though we've received no income from her business. I'm a good, honest, hard-working husband with integrity.

My wife's co-workers said to her that she is "Much too pretty for your husband".

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2007-11-08 06:43:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am one and i want to hear them all??? good or bad

2007-11-08 06:42:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 06:40:57 · 18 answers · asked by lovebug2052 5 in Weddings

I have a 4 yr old lil girl,and my mother is always telling me I'm doing it all wrong!! How can I tell my mother,without hurting her feelings,I don't need her advice?!?

2007-11-08 06:40:32 · 8 answers · asked by ali 3 in Friends

Any ideas how i can calm down and Relax on the way there? much love 3zzle bum ♥

2007-11-08 06:36:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was getting a pass from one of my favorite teachers and then my friend wanted to go see her as well so we put her name on the pass....the study hall teacher was being so bitchy about it and made a fuss blaming my favorite teacher saying she let me put my friends name on there...how should i take this?

2007-11-08 06:36:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The desire has been with him for many years. However, at 64 yrs of age, the need is stronger and more important than ever. Our research tells us this is not an uncommon need. The problem is this,,,,,,how do we find a lactating gal to accommodate. While we could read much about the fantasy, we found nothing regarding the resolution of our problem.

2007-11-08 06:35:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my gran had to go to my uncles house for diwali. she didnt want to stay so then she made up stupid excuses and came back. now becoz of her ma mum n dad hve split up n ma dad wants 2 throw ma gran out of da house. im stressed alredy coz of ma gcses and now dis is another problem. wat should i do???????plz answer!!!!!

2007-11-08 06:34:37 · 9 answers · asked by >o_OStarry Eyed>VandazZ 3 in Family

Hi! Im on a roll today asking questions...dang...!

Anyways...I've got shoulderlength brown hair...
for my engagement shots should I leave it down or do an updo?

If you think i should do an updo, give me some suggestions on what it should look like (links with photos..or websites would help too!)

2007-11-08 06:33:50 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

Why does my gf's Vagina smell?
There was a wierd odor in the room and as I tracked it down it was coming out of my girlfriend's vagina and she could also smell it. Really bad smell, I almost fainted when took a deep sniff, what could be the cause for this?

Thanks to all

2007-11-08 06:33:31 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 06:32:46 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think it is so sweet to get a promise ring it shows that the relationship has a future to it. . . What do you think?

2007-11-08 06:31:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my boyfriend and I spend time toghther we have a good time, but after wards I don't hear from him for couple days.No phone call, no text, no nothing. He says he's busy working and with his friends. I don't know if this is normal or is he pushing me away?

2007-11-08 06:29:45 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in the basement doing laundry when a large storm drain broke open behind the house sending water into the basement i have been divorced for the ex for 17 yrs and am remaried we have been trying to sell the house for 2 years with no luck

2007-11-08 06:29:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend recently broke up with me. We had been dating for 17 months and she said that she wasnt "in love" with me. She said that she still loves me but that's not enough for her. What the hell does that mean? She's Brazilian and I'm American. Is this a cultural difference or do American girls feel the same way? I would prefer females to answer this question please.

2007-11-08 06:26:59 · 36 answers · asked by Jeremy A 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who wants to get married to her boyfriend, but he has bad credit and told her that he is going to file for Chapter 7. If she gets married to him will it effect her? What are the pros and cons? She is very young and wants to purchase things in the future like a house, car, etc.

2007-11-08 06:26:29 · 14 answers · asked by Luxurious_red 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 06:25:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My older brother Kale is 21. I have 18 and 19 year old brothers also, but they are not like this. I got pregnant with my boyfriend and I am 16. Kale has always been the "don't hurt my baby sister" one. He went to Adam's house a few days ago and was like "Did you rape Taylor?" "answer my bast*rd" Wtf is wrong with you?" He was like getting physical too. How do i get him to stop? i have to watch him constantly now so he dosent kill him. I have a huge family (3 older bros + 4 step siblings) My mom and step dad (my mom is pregnant) My step dad and kale like are going to kill Adam? I don't want the pressure on the baby either.

2007-11-08 06:24:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband is facing some financial porblems. And he has asked me to support him and stay by him and told me he loves me and will get back etc. I am a lawyer. The problems my husband is facing are with legal matters. I KNOW how to solve it. He could be on the streets soon enough if he doesn't get help.

My husband knows I am lawyer, right? Then why is it that he has not yet asked me to HELP HIM!!! I easily could! But he wouldn't even ask me if I know a solution. He just said that xyz is happening.

Does he disregard my quality or did he think I woulf tell him naturally? Is it his ego? Or am I being silly?

2007-11-08 06:24:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do they want a wife or a family and a play thing on the side? Why would they want it, especially if the 3 are always in battle with one another?

2007-11-08 06:22:49 · 22 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm planning on doing magnets. http://www.balloons-n-more.cceasy.com/CasPage1B.cfm?sEnsembleCode=CasEns03397&page=1&strcontinue=yes&strsearch=no&format=DS1CasEnsDT26&vid=4A03638212I'm ordering them tomorrow should get them in by the 19th. I'll be sending them 5 mo's early...that's good right? I have a lot of family that lives 4+ hrs away...

2007-11-08 06:22:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A friend of mine has been with his girlfriend for 3 months. While tracking his geneolgy he found out that his girlfriend was his 5th cousin. Is there anything wrong with this? Would it be illegal if they got married?

2007-11-08 06:22:06 · 28 answers · asked by Old School 5 in Marriage & Divorce

im sick of the relationship im in with my girlfriend, weve been together for nearly 4 years now. At the beginning she was very insecure, i got her through all of that helped her in everyway i possibly could re-assured her, didnt go out without her. after 2 years she got through it. the trust was there. however she always flips out when she feels like it, shes a gemini (split personality) again i accommadated for this and helped her through it calmed her down etc. Anyway just recently shes going crazy flying off the wall over everything, i havent got the patcience anymore to hold her hand through it. I hate the way she talks to me when shes upset. What do i do, i moved down to her hometown to be with her, i have no family here but a good support network of friends that i work with. Do i dump her, quit my job and move home where my family are, work at the relationship or dump her and carry on living here????

2007-11-08 06:21:37 · 6 answers · asked by deadhead 1 in Family

Am I crazy? My husband cheated on me and now I feel hurt and miserable, he said he loves me, he never change his ways with me, he is always at home, takes me out for dinner,buys me presents and even during his affair he never changed but now I feel that I cannot trust him, but at the same time I love him, I will feel so sad if our marriage ends but sometimes I feel is the only way to end my misery....sometimes I even feel the need to hurt him,and I feel hate sometimes....what can I do?

2007-11-08 06:20:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Before I even begin to detail the conundrum I find myself in with my younger brother, may I just quickly state what a positive bundle of energy this young Miley Cyrus truly is? I can see her as being the one person that can save and unify the American music scene!

Getting back to the question at hand. My brother is upset that I spent $5000 for 4 tickets and a limousine to the Hannah Montana concert in our city. It was my niece’s birthday and I wanted her to enjoy this landmark event in her life! My brother Robert states that he is trying to instill in his daughter a sense that you do not have to follow trends in order to be happy, and would prefer his daughter find interest in other activities.

As I stated to him, how absolutely silly he is being. He is absolutely leaving his daughter in peril of being left behind if she is not cognizant of what trends are around her.

My goodness, what is wrong with having a little fun?

Americans have such a difficult time appreciating the arts.

She absolutely enjoyed herself, and it was an absolute honor to help her celebrate her 5th birthday in such a wonderful fashion.

2007-11-08 06:20:49 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay so say you are married and you have a truck but the truck has your name on the title and not your husbands. If there is a break up or separation of the relationship can the person who's name is not on the title legally come and take possestion of it? Does anyone know if there is a law on this???? Please help ASAP!!!!!

2007-11-08 06:20:43 · 15 answers · asked by Ethan 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my cousin is married and has daughter.she recently got separated because her husband notice how close my cousin is to my brother.one afternoon i found them sleeping together in bed,they were covered in blanket,i was shocked.day after i confronted them and denied it.this has been going on for four years now and they kept denying it.but we always see signs that there is something strange going on between them. i love my brother dearly and i care for my cousin specially her daughter.how do we stop this?

2007-11-08 06:18:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you dont know him , but you have seen him in the athletic track coz he runs there everyday , so he dont know you but thinks that you are atractive

2007-11-08 06:16:55 · 35 answers · asked by infjust 1 in Singles & Dating

I have made plenty of mistakes in my childhood and do now but I am trying to rectify those. As a result of my actions, my mom and I are no longer close. She loves me and I love her, but we no longer have a relationship. I miss my mom sorely. What should I do?

2007-11-08 06:14:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i do my contacts

2007-11-08 06:14:24 · 20 answers · asked by candy 1 in Singles & Dating