When my boyfriend and I spend time toghther we have a good time, but after wards I don't hear from him for couple days.No phone call, no text, no nothing. He says he's busy working and with his friends. I don't know if this is normal or is he pushing me away?
2007-11-08 06:29:45 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, this is NOT normal. I hate to say it but if he really liked/loved you he would make the time to call you....he would want to see how you are doing. Saying he is busy or with his friends is a cop out! Maybe you should give him a taste of his own medicine to see how he reacts. If he doesn't care, then that might be red flag showing you he may not really care for you that much...Good luck!
2007-11-08 06:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Here and There 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people enjoy distance in a relationship. However, it should be mutual. If you want to see him more and he doesn't understand or care...then maybe it wasn't meant to be. My guy is busy doing things on Monday, Tuesday and Thursday, but he still calls me a few times a day.
2007-11-08 06:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes to both?
From the sounds of it, he is a boy friend, not a boyfriend.
If you're sleeping with him, that is a mistake, he'll keep coming back for the sex alone...on his terms, and when he's feeling the need.
Dump him and find someone interested in what's under your hat than 3 inches in front of your hind-end.
2007-11-08 06:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you just waiting his phone call or text messages? or Have you ever tried to call him or text him ? If he didn't answer your phone call or text message, I'm sorry but It's possible that he is busy with his another girlfriend(s).
If he really likes you, at least he gonna call you back.
2007-11-08 06:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be that he has another girlfriend not pushing u away cause if he was he wouldnt even try to spend time with u so he is using excuses (friends&work) so he can have the other girlfriend the same way. or maybe its normal to him
2007-11-08 06:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by KeePs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that your boyfriend has another girlfriend? Not to upset you or anything, but the fact that he can't even be bothered to text you is a little fishy. You may be his girlfriend on the side.
2007-11-08 06:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by ♬♥YouBetcha♥♬ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I think you are making a big deal.. keeping your own identity is important in a relationship.. Smothering is bad
2007-11-08 06:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by NENAMALA1008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you he would at least send you a text everyonce in a while, if not, then dump him.
2007-11-08 06:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by animegirl10000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must be trying pretty hard to be cooooooool. find someone that is going to pay more attention to you and that wants to be with you
2007-11-08 06:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by livelaughlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? Maybe he is busy but it really doesnt seem like it. . . i think he s just a jerk
2007-11-08 06:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by *ME* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋