I am going on a 3rd date with a guy I am really attracted to and he hasnt tried to kiss me or hold my hand or anything. I know some of his friends and they said he is really shy. Should I just plant a kiss on him when I see him tonight & see what happens? or should I wait for him to make the move?
2007-11-08 05:51:20 · 25 answers · asked by leosun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it!! you will regret it if you dont!
2007-11-08 05:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what is felt right. I wouldn't recommend just kissing him out of the blue though. Maybe hold his hand first. See his reaction. Write a note that you really wish he would kiss you or something cute like that. You might want to make the move before nothing happens.
2007-11-08 05:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can kiss him if you want. Most guys don't understand girls, so they don't know if you are feeling that way with him or not. They are afraid of ruining things by getting too romantic or too physical and having you reject him. If he keeps going out with you, but doesn't kiss you, it is because he does not know how to get things going, or is unsure if you are feeling like that with him.
However, a girl can do things guy's can't. You can tease and hint. For example, you can tease "If we eat at ----, I might let you kiss me." thus droping a hint that you expect the two of you to be kissing. Or he tells a really bad joke, you can say "Ohh! That's terrible! I was going to kiss you until you told such a terrible joke." He will probably take the hint and kiss you right then, himself.
2007-11-08 06:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him on the cheek, give him a hug, and tell him you really like him. Time it so you are going right in your house at the end of the evening. If he's really shy, this could break into that a little and if you are going right in, it won't get awkward.
2007-11-08 06:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by misselie1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it. I know I'd be really relieved if the girl I was dating kissed (or tried to kiss) me.
Most girls I've been out with have run a mile once they've realised how I felt about them.
2007-11-08 05:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First start by holding his hand that will let him know you like him.Then if he is still to shy plant a little kiss on his lips.
2007-11-08 05:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie Ann H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter who does it. If you know this guy has feelings for you and it's the right moment, go for it.
My husband said he kissed me on the forehead first, then I kissed him on the lips. It was 5 years ago.
2007-11-08 05:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes !!! Go for it !!!
I initiated the first kiss between my current b -friend and I, and it will be a year next month !
2007-11-08 05:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey this is the 21st century..girls can do just about anything they want to..if you want to initiate the first kiss..go right on ahead..there are no rules about that stuff anymore..also guys like girls with initiative..they hate having to make the first move all the time..good luck with your date..and have fun tonight
2007-11-08 05:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU CAN HOLD OUT LET HIM MAKE THE FIRST MOVE. IF HE HASN'T MADE A MOVE BY THE FOURTH ARE FIFTH DATE MAKE YOUR MOVE. IF YOU BOTH HAVE CELLS YOU SHOULD TEXT HIM WHEN HE MAKES IT HOME ARE EVEN B4 HE GETS HOME AND SAY YOU KNOW I REALLY ENJOY MYSELF WITH YOU AND I ALWAYS DO. I REALLY WANT TO SHARE A SOFT PASSIONATE KISS WITH YOU. SEE HOW THAT WORKS.
2007-11-08 05:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by onewithoneself 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should make the first move. many guys think it's attractive and it makes them more comfortable cause guys don't always want to make the first move. sometimes we girls have to make the first move to get what we want! lol. good luck
2007-11-08 05:55:38 · answer #11 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋