My boyfriend breaks up with me saying he needs to sort out work and school stuff and tells me he feels bad he doesnt have the time to devote to a relationship right now. Okay so 2 weeks later hes hooking up with a new girl and does it in a way so I find out. It wasnt enough to break up with me but he had to lie. I'm not exactly jealous because he is 21 and shes 17 so its rediculous...But why the need to lie to me seriously?
2007-11-08 13:49:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know we are both 21 here, I guess I've always been I'd rather here the truth even if it hurts because thats how I treat others.
2007-11-08 13:53:37 · update #1
That's easy - he doesn't have time for a RELATIONSHIP, just to get laid!
Good riddance to this selfish prick - he is the IMMATURE one here. Eventually, even the 17 year old will get sick of his crap - and he will move on to the next available piece of @$$...
Pigs like that ONLY stop if they end up getting a girl pregnant - and will even cheat on them THEN. You deserve a MUCH better guy than this ;););)
2007-11-08 14:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, the age difference alone is not reason enough to denigh jealousy. Of course he could hook up with a 17 year old and get serious with her. He wanted to play the field, that's why he moved on. Be glad he's gone, he wasn't much of a catch. The 17 year old will find that out eventually.
2007-11-08 21:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys who are not really serious and sincere about relationship has countless ways to lie just to free himself out from a relationship. This is actually a simple sign of immaturity coupled with irresponsible kind of attitude. His action even if he is 21 years old is still very childless with no sign of direction.
My dear friend, that guy of yours is not worthy for you, he is very irresponsible and a big lier. What he did for you, he will also do it to others. Time will come that he will answer for all the wrong things he did, for not be man enough to say that he is not happy with your relationship or be sincere enough to say to you that he doesn't like you anymore, or if he is afraid of you he should have respected you by not showing to you that he courted another girl, to avoid hurting your feelings.
I just hope and pray that he will realized his lapses or mistakes, because if he continue doing it, it will ruin his romantic life someday.
And my words for thought to you my dear, is this, forget about him, I know God has a better one for you, who will love and care for you, and give you respect and honor to your dignity. God loves you, and I will also pray for you.
2007-11-08 22:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by EDRO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when some people break up they lie. It's there way to makeit easier.
Not to worry he was no the one, move on so you are available for the right guy.
I promise the right guy is not going to lie to you.
2007-11-08 21:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ ♥ C.J. ♥ ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guess he didnt have the guts to hurt your feelings by telling you the truth, some men and women are like that.
2007-11-08 21:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. my bestfren went through the same ****. well i know in her case that she didnt mean to fall in lve with a different guy and she really did break up with her boyfren for skool. i know it might hurt but just know that there are a LOT more gurls out thre better than her.
2007-11-08 21:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by kaycee says; 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's b/c he's not mature enough to be a man. don't worry a/b it or him. he chose a child b/c that's his maturity level. you deserve to be w/ a mature and sercure man who is on your level. be happy you found out what a jerk he is before you had a long term relationship or marriage. he will be the one regretting it not you. he did you a favor. cut your losses and move on. and remember people don't always act as you do. take care.
2007-11-08 22:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Immature.
2007-11-08 21:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
its true it rediculous and all men are pigs they just want to hit and run but dont worrie it will come back to him
2007-11-08 21:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats shallow. but make sure u hav the story straight b4 u do anything. but he really doesnt hav to lie
2007-11-08 21:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by natalie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋