ok so ever since i was little i have been sceared to death of men i always thought they were going to hurt me. its not bad now that i am older i am 14 but when i was young i hated to be with my friends dads and i am wondering in maybe something happened because i can remeber bits and pices of wen i was little and being terrifyed of men. i am wondering if this is a problem with my head or if something really happened and still to this day i have dreams about men hurting me like sexutally.and sometimes i cant stop thing about something happening to me sextully. my mom told me a story about when i was 5 and my parents friend (a guy) was sitting on the ground with me alone and she walked in and said he was acting reallt weird with me and i remeber it really clearly but i can only remeber it to a cerain point and i just remeber being tarrifyed?
if u could help that would be great?
2007-11-08 15:00:01 · 4 answers · asked by lexi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really need to speak to a psychologist about what you have said. Mental health/mental retardation listings in the phone book can help you find someone to speak to. You may have to get a referral from your family physician or you can speak to the school counselor about gettig help. It is too bad that your parents didn't take you for a check up at the pediatricians when you were 5 but the sooner you figure ou what happened the more normal your life should be.
2007-11-08 15:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never put myself in the shoes of a girl who was played with sexually or anything but try not to think of the past instead focas on the good things in your life. not sure what else I could say to you. There are bad people in this world unfortuntly but there are also good people as well. I am 30 yrs old and my right hand is crippled cause of brain damage and still to this day people make fun of me. yet I work 3 jobs.
2007-11-08 23:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the last part has me wondering if maybe something DID happen after all. This seems like the kind of issue that you should explore with a therapist. Choose your therapist carefully, though - sometimes false memories are created in therapy. You need a true expert with these kinds of things.
2007-11-08 23:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Janelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
someone could have done something i guess
if you were that scared then something could have happened
2007-11-08 23:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋