2007-11-08 15:03:25 · 17 answers · asked by Jigs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to come to an agreement on what your responsibilities are and what the other person's is. If they can't follow that & or contribute to the expenses, they need to find another place to stay.
2007-11-08 15:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely if he's not contributing financially, get rid of him. He's just along for the free ride. And if you ever plan on getting married and having a family someday, do you really want to support him the rest of your lives? Get rid of him. He sounds very selfish. That's not a "partner" of "live-in" at all.
2007-11-08 15:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by trapeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him if he were not living with you, where could he live for free?????NOWHERE in this world can one live for free!!!!!! Explain to him/her that bills are not free and two people living in one house is double the expense of one person living in a household. If he/she still won't help with the expenses, give him/her a cardboard box and let him experience FREE living!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-08 15:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by nurse charlie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is their name on the lease? If they have no legal claim on the property and it is yours alone, you can serve them notice that they must move by a certain date , or have them evicted if they don't leave. You will have to have them legally served and a sheriff will help you to remove them. Then change the locks.
2007-11-08 15:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of that person bcause they dont care and they r using u in some way,its not fair 4 u u r both responsible 4 ur home not u alone,if they lived on thier own they would have 2 pay thier own way dont let them use u
2007-11-08 19:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by kim27 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him/her and let him/ her live alone....you're not his/her parent or nanny to take care of him/her and find ways to let him/her be alive....he/she might not love you and uses you (maybe)...he/she might not know how to do household chores or work to share with household expenses with you...
2007-11-08 15:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by Heiress Rhodes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick them out, if you don't have previous arrangements about how you will live together. Get married then they will fill that they have to contribute,
if they want to now, then they could just pick up and leave without any care!
good luck!
2007-11-08 15:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your partner to take his things and move out. You would not be on here with this question if it didn't bother you this much.
2007-11-10 15:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by stonehands 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to contribute or move out and support them self. That is ridiculous.
2007-11-08 15:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess if you like being used, nothing.
Otherwise unless you reeeaallllly like this person you might as well be by yourself, it would be cheaper and less work.
2007-11-08 15:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋