Well I told him that I am not ready to be in a relationship but we are good friends. He usually expresses his feeling though but now he told me that maybe we are not meant to be. I like him a lot but I don't want to be in a relationship due to school (college) and I never had a boyfriend. I used to being single I don't express my feeling as much as he does. He been pursuing me 5 months. Do you think he is right? Do you sense when you are meant to be and are you usually right?
He doesn't want to be friends anymore but he says it will be tough to not call me. He says I don't give him enough attention. However, I told him beforehand hat I am busy with classes and I can be his friend for now and I like him.
Now today he called me like three times today but I did not call him back.
2007-11-08 15:47:59 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with your heart, not out of feelings of obligation! Your education is the most important thing right now!
2007-11-08 16:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already told him that you wanna be friends and it's up to him to now, if he wants more and you don't well he needs to respect that. I don't feel that your in the wrong you explained why you don't want a BF and you have the right to not want one. Don't let him sway your decision and then you regret it. You were honset with him from the beginin.
Tell him he is free to see whom he pleases but you would like him as a friend, if he says no i wants more then thats up to you as to what to do, he can either take the friendship from you or leave. The reason maybe he called was cos he was missing you and it doesn't seem like he wants to give up on you but that also indicates he stil wants more than friendship. Good luck with your situation.
2007-11-08 15:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are you wrong? You don't want to be his girlfriend. That's legitimate. Are you supposed to get into a relationship simply because he wants it? No, this is about what YOU want. And you don't want it.
I think it's good that you aren't answering your phone. It's no good for him to say he won't talk to you, then talk to you the next day, then on and on. If he can't be simple friends, if he likes you too much to stick to that, then he needs to stop talking to you until he can get over his feelings, and you need to help him stick to that.
I think you're handling this just fine.
2007-11-08 15:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by Janelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you definitely do not want a relationship w/him. Since he know your stand on what you want, he should not be pushing you or saying cannot be friends with u. If you want to be just friends. Try telling him once more just that. If he cannot accept it, then you may have to let him go.
2007-11-08 15:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't wrong. If he was a TRUE friend he would respect you and your wishes and would still want to be your friend regardless of you not wanting to be in a relationship with him.
2007-11-08 15:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by ~BuBbLy~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NO RIGHT OR WRONG in these things.
You are not wrong and he is not wrong. It's only right when both people have the same desire.
2007-11-08 15:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't feel for him, it's better off the way u r doing, don't give him false hope , u don't want to hurt him, if he is the one, u 'll feel it
2007-11-08 16:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by oli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋