What do women want from a man, money, good looks, perfect body, compassion?

Question

I always thought women want a man for the man to provide for her. I always thought women worry about money and where it will come from and women are comfortable and relaxed and happy when they have a man thats a good provider.
I have lots of money, I also have good looks and skinny, why don't women want me just for that?

I want a woman to use me, to take advantage of me, that excites me!
I just get upset when women reject a skinny, good looking man like me for a short, bald, fat and ugly man.
I mean isn't good looks and money more important than personallity?

Answer 1

You've probably been meeting shallow women. It's really kind of sad with women's lib that things have changed so much socially as well. I'm not saying that the women's rights movement wasn't good, it's just that men are so damn confused now about what we want now. All women want different things, some want the independence, some want to be taken care of. You just need to find the right one to fit you. I agree with Courtney and Ashley though.

Answer 2

Many women ... the ones with some self respect anyway ... don't like men who throw money in their faces. Women who are looking for a real relationship are looking for someone who is kind, considerate, a good communicator, and the ability to be a friend as well as a lover ... someone they can trust. Trust is the most important factor in a relationship. Often, men with money come across as being a playboy ... many of them seem to have the attitude that they can have any woman they want simply because they have money. I've never met you, so I can't say that this is the way you act, so please don't assume that I'm insinuating you are a jerk. It could also be that you're meeting women in the wrong places ... many people go to bars to meet people, and bars are simply not the places to meet quality people. Do something, even if it's volunteer work, to get out and meet new people. When you meet a woman, take some time to get to know her and build a friendship ... that's the basis of any relationship.

Also, women today are looking for partners ... most of us have jobs and can support ourselves, so we don't need someone to take care of us. We do, however, appreciate someone who can be a partner ... someone who is willing to share in responsibilities and decisions. Not someone we have to take care of ... not someone who wants to tower over us and control us ... an equal.

Answer 3

Guy, I think women want all of it, you know? People are just gready creature. Money, good looks, perfect body and compassion but there are MORE!

Of course women want a men that can provide for her but nowadays, women can provide for themselves too. Every women want different things depend on what they are lacking of in themselves. Some materialistic women might think you are a good catch but some good women need more than the basic needs. Here are the basic list that might help you:

1. To feel confident. No women want a weak men.
2. Sense of humour and know how to be fun and know how to laugh.
3. Money to feel financially secured.
4. Looks for attraction. You don't have to look like Tom Cruise but at least well groomed.
5. Respect, caring and listen to her opinion.

Well, the list can be longer but you already fulfil list no 3 & 4. Just work on the rest and good luck. Oh forgot to mention that you must take the initiative. Women want to feel they are needed but not over crowded... cheers

Answer 4

A relationship is built on much more than outward appearances and accessories.

Personality is everything to many women. If all you're looking for is a woman who wants your skinny, rich, good looks, then go to your local red light district.

Otherwise, get involved in something that interests you and meet women who are interested in the same things. My ideal man will be met on the same "road" I'm already on. He might be in a wheelchair and he might be dirt poor. But the attraction factor for me is that he likes the same types of things I do.... he believes in the same causes that I do..., etc.

**EDIT**
I should add that, while my ideal man will have to have similar interests and similar personality traits --- if such a man does not exist for me, I am perfectly happy being single. I take care of myself.

**EDIT again***
Oh brother. Either you are joking in order to ruffle feathers, or YOU are a joke. Either way, I'm sure you can find better things to do... if not, concentrate on getting a life.

Answer 5

some women are ignorant and just use men for things. i on the other hand half the time refuse to date a man with lots of money because he acts like he is better then me and his poop dont stink. i personally like men who make me laugh like to cuddle hold hands sit in and watch movies. men with lots of money are stuck up and dont see a girl for who she is on the inside anyway and they care about is if she looks good because a wealthy man cant be seen with a women who doesnt look classy and like a trophy for all his friends. why cant 400lb women find a man that likes them just for the inside? because a man never gives her time of day after he looks at her appearance. so why dont men give the ladies who arent that beautiful on the outside a chance sometimes? im not big or anything but i work with teens who are heavy set and this is usually the stuff they say to me so im using her as a good example

Answer 6

Most women want a man to be their friend and lover. Women are not some merchandise that you are going to buy with your money. How do you treat women? Money and looks are great, but there is so much more than that in a relationship.

Answer 7

Okay, first of all, we live in a society now where women don't stay at home in their aprons, have babies, cook, clean, etc. It's an equal world (for the most part), and quite honestly, I would not want a man approaching me with his first line being "I make a lot of money. I can take care of you." It's insulting to women. I don't care if my man can provide for me, because I can provide for myself.

Answer 8

funny isn't it? you just guest one of the most important things in the list of how to become the perfect man for a woman. of course we girls want men who had lots and lots of money and good looks but maybe you played your cards wrong. keep the money and try to be who you are. be an understanding guy plus, don't worry. when the time is right. you'll find the right girl. good luck buddy!

Answer 9

hmmm...because women want guys who are sensitive and caring and who would be faithful to them...to some women, these qualities are more important than money and good looks...but this depends on the woman....some women look only at the outside aspects of men and would be happy about a guy with just money and looks...

Answer 10

First i look at looks. Yes good looks and money is a definate plus. I would go with you but if your personality is screwed up then I'm out. Looks & money is good for the moment but personality and how you treat the lady is the main thing that will attract her to stay with you. and you wanting them to use you for the money, that's akward.. i think your personality is screwed up and maybe you should be a gentleman with humor and love.