What shpuld you do?

Question

Hello Everyone:

I have a scenario that I would like to share and possibly get an opinion. I know reading this could be a drag but if you are interested and willing to share your insight you are more than welcome to.

Please think about this as if you were in this situation. What would you do?

Man:
-He love woman #1 but he was unhappy with the relationship for some reason.
-He was stressed financially. He was supporting his family.
-He has 2 children with woman #1 that all you want is the best for them and them to be happy and have a family.
-He has been going out, hanging out with friends – he said he’s doing this to relieve his stress at home.
-Maybe here and there he has been unfaithful to the mother of his children
-He came to the point of confusion of if he love her and thinking that he might just love her because woman #1 is the mother of his children.
-He found out that woman #1 is cheating on him with another man. He was hurt and angry.
-He found someone else that is the total opposite of woman #1. He fell in love with her and cares for Woman #2.

Woman # 1:
-He has 2 kids with this woman.
-He has been together with woman for almost 5 years.
-She has an illegal status here in the US
-She was dependent on him financially.
-He tried to send her back to school but she didn’t take it seriously and dropped out.
-She was there for him and put up with him all these time. He know she loves him and cares for him.
-He felt guilty that somehow he neglected her therefore she went and looked for the attention she needed from another man. In short she cheated on him.
-He forgave her and tried to work things out with her but she cheated again.
-Now she’s gone, has her own place, moving on with her life, got a job, receiving welfare & child support, and has a new boyfriend.
-In spite of what woman #1 has done to him yet he still feels that wanted her back into his life. He thinks she is the love of his life and wants a complete family.

Woman #2:

-He met her 1.5 years ago.
-He felt that he was happy with her. He felt the happiness that you have never felt in your life.
-He loves her and She loves and cares for him too.
-She has been there for him, understood his situation, and accepted all his flaws.
-She has a good job
-She likes his children and his children like her.
-She had let him go, the first time around and told her that he wanted to work things out with woman #1 and told her that he wanted to have a family, a family that you never had.
-He met her again after he found out that woman #1 had cheated on him again.
-She accepted him back into her life.

What woman #2 didn’t know was he was still trying to get back with woman #1. He thinks that woman #1 is still the love of his life and he is willing to put everything aside to have a complete family although he knows it’s not going to have the same trust that they had for each other. Now he is confused. He both loves these women. But woman #1 didn’t want to reconcile with him anymore. Woman #2 is there for him, waiting for him to be completely available for her.

Now here’s the tricky questions:

1. If you are woman #1, what would you do? What would you feel?
2. If you are woman #2, what would you do? What would you feel?
3. Do you think this man cheated on both of these women?
4. Do you think that this man lied to woman #2?
5. What advise would you give to each of these women?
6. What advise would you give to this man? and why?
7. Who would you choose?

Answer 1

Woman #2 is being made a fool. He is using her until he figures out wha will happen with Woman #1. Lose the loser!!! Go on and find a man that can totally commit to you, not drag you through all of his drama!! Have some respect for yourself!!!

Answer 2

1) if you spend all your time whining and longing for woman #1 then you deserve what you get.....she has nothing to offer and if she's illegal then she needs to get the hell out of my country....and once a cheater always a cheater.....just because she's the mother of your children doesn't mean anything more than she's the one you got pregnant....if she doesn't want to go to school or do anything else to better herself then you always will support her and never have a true partner, just another dependant

2) woman #2 has alot to offer and will provide a better home and family life

3) you probably have cheated on both in some way or other

4) choose woman #2 and be happy

Answer 3

i didnt even read this....get a life