I just got out of a two year relationship. He broke up with me about a month ago. We talked a little at first but then completely stopped. I'm still getting over him and I'm still sad alot. Of course, his birthday is in a couple days...Should I wish him a happy birthday? Even though he ended it on a bad note, I still want to be nice...but I don't want him to think i'm like DIEING to talk to him or anything. If i should, how should I do it? Call? Text? Lemme know please :)
2007-11-08 03:30:44 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you two still hang out as friends, I'd say no for your own sake. Trust me, I've been in similar situations before.
You may find yourself getting really hurt if he gives you a cold or indifferent response. The worst thing that can happen is that he might think you're stalking him, no matter what your good intentions are.
In the end it will only make you more sad, especially if you're trying to get over him.
However, don't feel this will be the last relationship you'll ever have though. Always believe that you'll find someone else who will cherish everything you have to offer.
2007-11-08 03:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Tantu 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday Ex Boyfriend
2016-11-07 04:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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The true way is to analyze what happened and what ends the love. Check out the mistakes both of you committed, especially your mistakes.
Take actions and do something about the situation. Here are some suggestive tips to help you successfully get your ex to desire for you again as she did before.
It is important that you know the reason for the break up and the cause of the failure. Consider the cause of the break up and you can come up with solutions for the next move.
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2015-06-10 14:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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Should I wish my ex-boyfriend a happy birthday?
I just got out of a two year relationship. He broke up with me about a month ago. We talked a little at first but then completely stopped. I'm still getting over him and I'm still sad alot. Of course, his birthday is in a couple days...Should I wish him a happy birthday? Even though he...
2015-07-31 00:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is - no. I know exactly how you feel, but you are still getting over him. Until you can actually BE casual and not merely fake it, the greater likelihood is that you are going to be disappointed and hurt by whatever respone (or lack thereof) he has. While you may intend to merely be nice and show that your affection can still exist even if only as friends, you run the risk of him seeing it differently (i.e. thinking that you are desperate). Don't give him the chance... your kindness is worth more than that. Should you see him somewhere sometime in the vicinity of his birthday, say "Hey, I'm sorry that I missed your birthday. I hope it was awesome!" and then let it drop. Yes, it's hard to do as your intentions are good and it may seem hurtful to ignore him on his special day, but it truly is for the best.
2007-11-08 03:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by joellenkelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Good Idea. Drag it out. Then at some point wish him a happy Thursday. Seriously hon, you are just hurting yourself everytime you do that. It makes it harder everytime too. And you can say that there are no expectations but there are and you are hoping for more. Just go away and let it be a part of your past life. Learn everything you can from it, be alone for a while to get a relationship with yourself back and then carry on.
2007-11-08 03:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with wishing your ex-boyfriend happy birthday. Do it so that he will realize that you are not like him. He may want to prolong a conversation if you call him, so just send a text.
2007-11-08 03:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call. Send a really nice "To Someone special" card, not too mushy but just to let him know you are thinking of him on that day but not thinking of him so much that you use it as an excuse to call. I got out of a thirteen yr relationship and the nicest card I ever got from my ex was after we broke up. I just said, that was nice and he is a mature person to send this with such nice wishes. I guess that is what he'll probably think too. Or you could just forget it altogether, up to you. But do not call!!! Opens a can of worms!!!
2007-11-08 03:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by LenaP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't. Because then he's going to think you still want him. Why do you want to be nice especially if he ended it on a bad note? If he hasn't even spoken to you in 2 months, he's over it. If you contact him if even to say "happy birthday" and he doesn't respond in a good way, it's just going to keep that "wound" open.
2007-11-08 03:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, my advise is rea;;y simple really. i feel you should be the bgger woman and wish him a happy B-day. And let it be known that your no doing it to trap him or make him feel better or even to try getting back with him. let him know that your being nice. and to be real i'd at least do it on the phone if not in person. then you can recieve his true feelings on you wishing his a happy B-day. your know how to handle it of he has a bad attiude about you being nice. and hang in there gurl. i just got out of a rlationshi[p. and a lotta dayz i get sad. becuz i know in my heart that he was my soul mate. you know wat i mean. and it hurts like hell. but i know that i'm no good to him or my self if i run my self crazy. being his friend helps. but it don't take the pain completely away. but you know i've told him exactly how i feel and he knows that how i feel want ever change. he still loves me i know that. just like your friend still loves you and that feeling want ever go away for you. but right now you both have a lot to deal with. lol see the crazy thing is my B-day was 2 weeks ago. he sent me a letter and card wishing me a happy B-day. and letting me know how much he still loves me. and his b-day was 2dayz ago. i wrote him yersterday. and i know him so well becuz we are so much alike. that when he hits me up its gonna be exactly wat im thinking. but honey thats the best advise that i can give you. ok. hopr that i could help.
2007-11-08 03:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋