How can i find a serious boyfriend.?

Question

I have had a few boyfriends in the past, and they all just wanted a bit of fun. Now I'm ready for a serious relationship, and I can't find anyone interested. were should I go?

Answer 1

Hi.

There is a L&G forum just so you know.

And if you happen to find a good boyfriend. Make sure he has a straight friend for me.

We are all looking!!

Answer 2

You are looking at this the wrong way around you don't decide you want a serious relationship then go out and look for one, you just take it as it comes and if you end up with someone for whom you feel more and they feel the same then it naturally becomes 'serious'. If you go out and look for serious you will try and make something out of a relationship that is wrong, you'll end up in a relationship you didn't want because you wanted the relationship more than the person!

Chill out a bit and just enjoy yourself, it will happen naturally if you just forget about whether it's 'serious' or not, nothing more offputting than a person desperate to get 'serious'.......

Answer 3

Back in my day, if you wanted a serious boyfriend you went out and found one - and it was fun! None of this fun first, serious later garbage. It's all part of the same thing!

You young people need to get out and go find a boyfriend (even some of you boys if that's what you are into on this interweb thingie) if you want one, instead of sitting in your tower, combing your hair, and wishing on a goddamn star!

Answer 4

im in the same situation, but a lot of my friends have serious boyfriends and all they do is fight. i learned that to be happy doesnt always mean to be in a relationship. im 16 and im having a great highschool career and love being single at parties and when i go out with guys. it sucks being tied down to one guy, so if you dont find the right gut dont worry about it have fun your young live it up!

Answer 5

The harder you look, the less you will find. I have known many people in search of a life partner that found nothing when they tried. About the time they stopped looking, poof! there was the person. It is better to wait and what you're looking for will come to you. I wish you luck. It's a drag to be alone all the time.

Answer 6

well heres my story,
i met mine on a teen chat line, i found out he lived in my area i was very found ov him and he was very found ov me, so we met up (i new his mates, cos they hung out with me so i wasn't meetin a random person off the internet) anyways,
we got to no each other a little bit more (i found out that he had a gf witch i was gutted.) we hung out for 3 days and he kissed me, i was shocked then a day after he asked me out and i said yes, so he broke up with his other gf just to get with me, we clicked on 1st site, i really did liked him, 3 months from now we are still together and going strong we've had some raws but we are back together, look i'm 16 and if i can find some fun so can u all u need to do it wait for the right man and ull be fine, ye u might get the odd man thats playes u but as they say PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA init!!!?i hope i helped

Answer 7

Check out the schools if u go 2 1 or check out some parties.

Answer 8

well i been there before. well i do is gave that person one week until saturday ,and see how well he is ya'll need something in commet,(like basketball).ask some qustion.like do u have any sister or brother .i'm not in a relationship right now,but i'm in 2 more days because we may me a deal of a girl and boyfriend.and we talk about everything about relationship but i'm not worry about it because we write each other a love note .You should try it .

Answer 9

You can only find a good boyfriend when you are serious about it.

Answer 10

Im sorry, I dont know how to find them. But when you find them, tell me! :) Keep your chin up! Often when you stop looking, they some running. Just a funny fact of life.