by that I mean what makes that person so special that they chose to show them off to the world and their friends/families. And if they really love them why do they cheat on them and if they don't love them why don't they find a new one that they can be faithfull to?
2007-11-08 01:20:41 · 17 answers · asked by honey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So do they actually love their wife/girlfriend or is it just convenient to have someone there to depend on?
2007-11-08 01:57:31 · update #1
There's a lot of different excuses that people give for why they go out and cheat, but the bottom line is, the cheater has a character defect. It takes a special person to be able to go out, have unprotected sex, disregard his own safety and well as the safety of others and engage in long-term lies and deception. Self-centeredness is key, so having their cake and eating it too is just part of the package.
2007-11-08 03:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sondra 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's not MEN only. There was a question asked, "Have you ever cheated on you spouse/significant other?" More then half the people who replied yes were FEMALE. Maybe it's because you constantly accuses them of it, so if their going to get blamed for they might as well do it. I never have and never will. If my other did, that would be the end of our relationship.
2007-11-08 01:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jon A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been cheated on by a wife so the question can easily be reversed. To answer it: Beats the hell out of me. Best thing to do is let go and live a better life without them.
2007-11-08 01:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Islander 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Faithfulness has nothing to do with the OTHER person. Being faithful comes from the strength within. And very few people go into a marriage thinking, "hell yea! I'm gonna cheat!"
2007-11-08 01:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is just a symptom of deeper problems within the marriage, although I do recognize that there are people that just cheat for the fun of it, I can say that 95% of the time is because of deeper issues.
Good luck!
2007-11-08 01:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sesoid 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
casue you women are brainwashed to thinking the only way to be happy in life is to find a man and marry him.. well... you girls fool us into thinking we only need you for the next 60 years of our lives.... what happens is, we relize that after 5 years 10 years whatever... there are other women out there who actually want to be with us becuase of us... they have llust, passion, and want to be with us... where wifey just nags us to death, and let themselves go.... and the kids crying all day... non stop....
But, anyway.. women do it too all the time.. it's just that you are probably real young and don't relize that...
Oh and yes we can love our wives even though we may have messed around with another girl. no, really.
2007-11-08 01:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by Latin G 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People who cheat have no morals or self respect. Alot of people will tell you its your fault or there is something wrong with the relationship. Do not believe that. There are so many people who cheat and not just men. Woman to. I have struggled with this one because my EX husband cheated on me. To him he did nothing wrong. People with no morals never take responsibilities for their actions. That is what I have learned over time. Good luck.
2007-11-08 01:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by Babe 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Sex plain and simply sex. Two things old a marriage together Strong faith in God and loving your wife not just emotionally but sexually if you lack either you will break down and cheat.
2007-11-08 01:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys are just greedy & ignorant. Other times a guy gets a woman who is not "woman" enough for him. By that I mean that he feels that he needs more than one woman to fullfill one role.
2007-11-08 01:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by marcavelli0569 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a woman so i cant really answer your question accurately. but as far as i know, its the nature of a men not to be satisfied with one women.... but i didnt say all men are like that but sad to say most of them.... but even though they have many girls, there is still one women that is special to them and they are willing to give up everything just to have her and liive his life with her....
2007-11-08 01:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by NOEMIE08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋