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me and this guy met on a cruise. we had sex twice, and acted like bf and gf. after the cruise he contacted me right away on myspace.
we didnt talk constantly..but after awhile he wasnt contacting me and i got nervous. i wrote him a message on myspace basically
saying that if he doesnt write back, he doesnt want any part of me..and he wrote back. i surprised visited him a few months after
the cruise, and he was really happy. he kissed me on the lips goodbye, we were only there for about 20 minutes. it was weird bc
i already decided i was going to college near where he lives in a year before the cruise. between the cruise and college we saw
eachother twice, once the surprise visit, and the other time we hung out and talked the entire time..NO SEX. we had a convo
about whether or not he was using me on the cruise or not. he said no he didnt and that he liked me. after that visit, he texted
me right after saying "thanks for coming..cant wait to see you again"..i told him i was glad that we got to talk and he said "i would
never use you" later on i said i was going to bed and i told him to have fun and he said "all my fun left at 12"...which is when i
left. two days later he texts me and were talking about him coming to ny to visit me and we could go to the city..and he said
"way rather see you then the city"..we didnt always talk constantly, but every now and then we did..so basically we were
keeping in touch. the third time we were supposed to hang out , he messed up plans...and i was down near where he lived and
staying at a hotel. he called me and got a cab and told me he was coming to see me..and it doesnt matter how much it costs
he just wanted to see me..but i told him he messed up plans in the first place, and it was too late so there was no point in coming.
5 days later, he mustered up the confidence to call me and apologize for when he messed up plans. he told me to tell him the
next time i was coming down, and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"..but we werent in an ldr. this past
august, i came to college near where he lives, a whole year since the cruise. we had kept in contact for one year..and now were 15
minutes away. weve hung out 6 times since ive been here. the first time he just stopped by with his friend and his friend said
that the guy i like wanted to see his girl..meaning me. we didnt have sex, we just talked. he texted me after the visit and said
it was nice seeing u tonight. i told him i was sorry he didnt stay longer and he said he would have loved to, but he didnt want
my suitemates to hate him for being there so late when we have classes the next day. and he said "just wanted to see you." the
second time he came to visit he came to lay with me. we layed together and talked the whole time, and then did stuff, but NO SEX.
i asked him why things happen sexually between us and he said because i like you and you like me. and i said as more than a friend?
and he was like..yeah i like you as more than a friend. and i said..so u didnt come here for sex..and he said..i didnt even bring a condom
so i didnt even have intentions..and we didnt have sex. he then left and gave me a huge hug and a kiss on the lips, and he was a little
offended because he said "why do you have to make me out to be such an asshole."..but he wasnt mad at me, just a little upset.
the next time we hung out we just layed and talked with eachother..NO SEX. i went over there, and it took me awhile to get there
and he called me 4 TIMES..to make sure i wasnt lying to him..and was really coming. he even offered to pay for my cab, and drove me home the next day
and then the 4th time we layed together and talked again..NO SEX. the 5th time we hung out..we actually did have sex..and
he asked me if i was alright..and if it felt good, and we climaxed at the same time. it was really intimate. the 6th time we hung out
he got high, drank, and popped pills. he wasnt himself..he was still sweet to me but he was avoiding me. i asked him what was going
on and he said he wasnt mad at me. and i said..well why are you avoiding me..and he said i wasnt. i said..listen do you like me
and he said..of course i do..its obvious i do. and he said..i just dont want a gf right now..and i think you ask a lot of questions.
i was like..i know i do..except when youre acting weird..i have a reason to act. so i was like well do u like me as more than a friend
and he was confused. i said well why did we have sex the other night..and he was like idk. he was so confused and so out of it.
so he leaves and i get a text from his friend pretending to be the guy i like saying..i had to leave cause i think youre friend is hott.
i called..and the friend answered and was like..we just hooked up..i want your friend. and they came back and the guy i like was
like i didnt say any of that..that wasnt me. so the guy i like was like lets talk in the kitchen..and the friend follows us? and the friend
got involved and pulled me aside and was like..listen he told me the gist..youre friends..he likes hanging out with you..but he
doesnt want a relationship..u hooked up on the cruise what did u think it was ? and i said..how dare you..you dont even know
the story..we didnt just hook up on the cruise. and he was like well idk. so they leave again and the friend calls me saying..the guy
you like is ****** up..call him when hes sober so you can talk..so i was like whatever. then later i get a text from the guy i likes
phone and his friend is texting me saying..the guy you like is passed out..but he likes your friend..can she hang right now? im awake..
and hes telling me yes the guy u like likes ur friend..send the digits over but dont tell him i was on his phone. i was thinking..if the
guy i like wants my friends number..why would he be mad that you were on his phone...wouldnt you just be doing him a favor?

ps. the guy i like was in a 5 year relationship with a girl who cheated on him and got pregnant with another guys kid.
his friends influence him a lot..and when we were hanging out this last hang out he was talking about how he knows a lot of pocketbook
brands bc he would buy them for his ex gf..and he "knows how girls are"..and i think that triggered the way he was acting weird.

and his myspace song is look after you by the fray and his title says "any reason why you would want to date me"
and we havent spoken in 3 weeks..and now his song is i dont wanna be in love. and now his title says " this way is a waterslide away from you"


1. does he like me as more than a friend?
2. is he using me?
3. what does his myspace title and songs mean?
4. did i pressure him or push him away?
5. will he ever talk to me again or want to see me?
6. do you think hes still in love with his ex gf?
7. why hasnt he been contacting me?
8. why is he hooking up with some girl right now?
9. do you think hell stop liking me, and his feelings will just randomly stop for me?

Answer 1

Let me know what his MySpace page is, I'll have a look and tell you if you have a chance. Ok??

Answer 2

You have asked this question at least 20 times. When do you find time to study, school is what you should be focusing on. If the guy hasn't contacted you by now, he is over you. Learn to move on and stop obsessing over trivial issues. If you really wanted to know how he felt you should have asked him, instead of posting this question multiple times a day week after week. You seriously need to seek some psychiatric help.

Answer 3

Look, this is not a guy you want to have a serious relationship with. If his friends are telling you that he is interested in your friend then that should be a clue right there. The guy is a pill popper, gets high and drinks too much. You have asked this question at least three times now. You need to stop obsessing over the situation and look at the facts. Do you really want to subject yourself to this torture? If you do then you have serious problems yourself. Re-evaluate what you want out of life and out of relationships. You are going to meet a lot of frogs before you meet your prince. Chalk this up to a lesson learned and get away from this guy. All he is doing so far is making you insecure. Life is too short to waste your time obsessing over people. Stop looking for relationships to fulfill your life. Only you can make you happy. This entire situation is not making you happy so remove yourself from the situation. Stop waiting for him to contact you, stop worrying about his ex girlfriend, stop worrying about whether or not he will stop liking you, stop trying to analyze his myspace song (he probably likes the song which is why it is on his myspace) You need to move on. You took a chance, you gave yourself to a guy who I am sure was more than willing to have you as most guys don't or would not turn down sex. A real relationship starts with a strong friendship...this started as a purely physical relationship. Physical relationships fizzle out very fast. Pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Get back to why you are there in the first place which are your studies. Remember why you are there? Remember those classes that are being paid for?

Get control over yourself. Wake up and get going. Life is too short to waste time worrying about a guy. Don't become another co-dependent nit wit who can't live and breathe on their own without having a guy who is supposedly supposed to fulfill their life. (Same thing goes for guys too! Don't obsess over some girl who is too high maitenence and can't find her head because it is stuck too far up her fanny to see anything else) . Figure out what you want for yourself out of life and go get it. Surround yourself with good friends and enjoy life. Stop putting yourself into situations that cause nothing but drama. You are there for an education so get one.

Answer 4

Mary, Kandy, Lori, Jessica, Vivian, Rhonda, Alex, Michelle, Ashley, Roberta, Kylie, Lisa, Morgan, Angela, Katie...whatever you name is. Yea I have run into you other accounts, didn't think anyone will notice did you?. If your lying about this you are getting pretty DAMN annoying for EVERYONE.

If this story is true. Your answers are this.
1. does he like me as more than a friend?

no, he likes you as friends with benefits or a F**K buddy

2. is he using me?

yes for sex and possibly will start for money or securirty and would want you to support his ***


3. what does his myspace title and songs mean?

Fray-he was willing to watch over you and protect you and asking why do you want him
don't love song-saying he's move on to someone else and is telling you to move on to someone new cuz he don't want you the way you want him

4. did i pressure him or push him away?

yes and yes, you probably wanted commitment he doesn't and instead of telling you that he ran away like a coward and went to another girl because he is a PLAYER

5. will he ever talk to me again or want to see me?

NO he's a player, he never did actually want you at least not permantnently, he just was looking for sex with a slight companionship he went to play another girl

6. do you think hes still in love with his ex gf?

possibly, but maybe not, maybe he's just using her for other reasons (money/things/drugs/alcohol etc.)

7. why hasnt he been contacting me?

because he has a life and doesn't want you in it anymore, you'll get in the way of his playing tactics for the next girl that and he doesn't want to take care of you

8. why is he hooking up with some girl right now?

he is a horny asshole and needs to get rid of the desire in some other girl because he knows if he comes to you, your going to depend on him (emotionally, mentally,) and he doesn't want you to

9. do you think hell stop liking me, and his feelings will just randomly stop for me?

he already has he's just not telling you because he's a asshole, bastard, coward and just lied about it to you so you'll believe him and he could play you


Now my own personal advice go to a couselor, therpist, psychtrist because you are going through an emotional breakdown and you need to know how to handle it properly to move on and find something better be4 you end up alone desperate and misersable deprresed (even though you are probably going through that now). Go to the psychology section and post your question they can help you. Good luck with you life. Oh and focus on college and your studies that'll help you more. Bye!

Answer 5

1. does he like me as more than a friend? NO
2. is he using me? YES
3. what does his myspace title and songs mean? NOTHING
4. did i pressure him or push him away? BOTH
5. will he ever talk to me again or want to see me? DOUBT IT.
6. do you think hes still in love with his ex gf? YES
7. why hasnt he been contacting me? UR PSYCHO.
8. why is he hooking up with some girl right now? SHEs HOT
9. do you think hell stop liking me, and his feelings will just randomly stop for me? YES, YES.

Answer 6

Hey spazz. He's not interested.
Get off the drugs, get a life, stop posting this on other accounts too. How many do you even have?

Answer 7

you have asked this question 5 times for christ sakes!!! Give it up!!!! this person is asking this question many many times under many different names.... if you see it anymore, report it , so we can get this nut off the network!!!

Answer 8

i feel like im having a test rite now bcause of your ton question