Is it true that if you fight or nag constantly with your fiance or spouse they lose sexual interest in you or is this just an excuse??
2007-11-08 01:05:41 · 15 answers · asked by gracey 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think about it? Normally yes. But some people love to make up after a heated argument. To each their own. You should be able to tell if your partner is pulling away from you..
2007-11-08 01:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting and nagging is an awful state of affairs to live with, I would not live with someone who was constantly picking holes with everything I did, or always up for a fight. Life is too short for that, I'd rather be alone and happy than live with a nag.
2007-11-08 12:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are constantly arguing all the time, then they could lose sexual interest. But I think that sometimes in a relationship it can be good at times for both of you to get things off of your chest with each other, I suppose it depends on the scale of the arguments, as Sometimes it can be healthier for the relationship, as at least feelings are being said rather than bottleing things up and letting resentments set in, as believe me, it is not good for u to do this
2007-11-08 09:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, its true. AFter a row, make-up sex is good fun in a relationship but after a while unless you have a solid base of friendship trust and love then the sex in your relationship will not flourish and you had just as well call it a day. If you nag someone all the time you are endlessly criticising them - why would you want to have sex with someone who is constantly criticising you?
2007-11-08 09:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Paul M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's true. How attractive is someone who's always nagging at me or starting fights really? Come on now, do you lack sense woman?!
2007-11-08 09:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by some female 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
To me it's an excuse-obviously if u have a fight you're not gonna jump in the sack-but my hubby uses that excuse all the time meanwhile i still want to
2007-11-08 09:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by whisperer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only picking at each other you will do a lot worse you will eventually not have a marriage.
Marriage is something that builds the two of you up. If it is a load on one unequally then it will be that one pulls away instead of pulling with.
2007-11-08 09:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone is nagging and fighting with you constantly...they are saying....
I don't like you very much.
I want you to change ,to be someone else.
I don't respect you.
I don't value you.
They are saying...
I am right.
It's my way or no way.
Would you want to live with someone who viewed you like this?
Would you want to share intimate moments with them?
Don't think so.
2007-11-08 09:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by aaah h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say yes.If i was nagged at i wouldn't want to have sex with him.I mean it would ruin the mood don't you think?
2007-11-08 09:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does make sense...if you are fighting with someone, it does not lead to great foreplay...especially if the fusses have been personal attacks on each other...
2007-11-08 09:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋