Does a spouse or significant other have the right to say no or did they give that right up when they got involved.
2007-11-08 01:15:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
every one is being to literal should not a partner who is not in the mood fake it for there spouses sake because they love them.
2007-11-08 01:34:23 · update #1
Nothing changes when you get married except the guy pays more for less sex! They always have the right to say no and if you force them it's still rape and you will go to prison!
2007-11-08 01:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by notagain49 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Faking it is the same as lying, and no one, male or female has to do anything they do not want to do. Everyone has the right to say no to sex if they do not want it. A loving husband or wife would never, ever force their partner to have sex with them, and they also would not use the threat of "getting it elsewhere". If a husband or wife loves their partner then they would understand that they are not a machine for their use and abuse.
2007-11-08 12:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has the right to say no. Sex is a beautiful part of a loving relationship, but sometimes partners aren't in the mood at the same times. If one of you is having a hard time getting excited, try stimulating one another through massage and foreplay. And always remember that being affectionate towards each other won't always lead to sex. Sometimes it's nice just to feel loved.
2007-11-08 09:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by leigh 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A spouse or significant other has the right to say no. Being in a committed relationship doesn't mean that a person has a license to be a sexual slave to anyone.
However, I don't believe that it is fair for a spouse or significant other to rarely have sex with their partner either.
2007-11-08 09:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kixx44 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex is suppose to be an act of love and sharing. It's not an act, an entitlement, a right or something that can be demanded. Your wife can't order or command you to love her, spend money on her, or bring flowers to her, nor can you order up some sex, order the house to be cleaned or anything else that might be in your mind.
2007-11-08 11:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have the right to say no. Period. End of discussion.
No, marriage or steady dating does NOT give one partner the right to force the other against their will.
That is archaic thinking. It's also one other thing...RAPE.
EMT
One last point...rape can and does occur in steady relationships or marriage. Rape is forcing someone against their will, regardless of status.
2007-11-08 09:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by emt_me911 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Married or not, you always have the right to say no. Just because legally you are connected it does not mean he/she has the right to tell you when you have to have sex with them. It is still your body and the only one who owns it is you. If sex is forced on you during marriage it is still considered rape if you say no.
2007-11-08 09:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by Marra's mommy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course they have the right to say 'No'. Sex is about love not force. If you force your spouse into sex against their will it is still rape, married or not. And you can still get in trouble for it.
2007-11-08 09:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by katyllou 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is a very childish question. Regardless of marriage you always have the right to say no. NO means NO. Your body is still your own. And shame on anyone who thinks otherwise.
2007-11-08 09:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO they shouldn't fake it!!!!!!!!!
A person's body is their own and nobody has the right to force sex on another person. That is the beauty of free will!
Are you some sort of sex predator?
2007-11-08 10:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋