Family & Relationships - 27 October 2007

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We are both 25 and we are currently in a long distance relationship until I finish school. We have talked about our fututre together many times and we have made plans for it. We know that we are going to be together for a long time....everything in the relationship has been great and we have adjusted to the long distance aspect of it all. I feel ready to take things to the next level. How can I sort of feel him out to see where he stands on the marriage issue. He's mentioned it before and always says things that include both of us when he speaks of the future like "oneday WE will..........." or the other day he said "all I want to do is get through this long distance so we can be together again and buy some land back home so we can build a house." This is part of what we have planned....to buy land in his hometown and build on it. Anyways....I kind of want to know what everyone thinks of this. Is marriage/engagement on his mind?

2007-10-27 05:32:06 · 4 answers · asked by rockerchic821 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together for 10 years, and been married for 2 years. He says he wants to see something different. He feels he did something out of order when he married me. There is this other girl he loves and wants to be with her to see how things work out between them. At the same time, he does not want to leave me because he also feels what he wants differently may just simply about him and not about us. He insisted we should try counseling to help him find out what he really is looking for. I told him that if he wants to make our marriage work, at least he has to cut that other woman out of his life or I am walking straight out the door. I'm hurt and frustrated. Any of you been through this sort of thing or at least help me with some advice?

2007-10-27 05:31:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband with our 10 week old daughter in arms almost plowed me over as he rushed down the stairs. Should I take that personally? lol

2007-10-27 05:29:35 · 9 answers · asked by ~~∞§arah T∞©~~ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please be nice....I really dont know what I am going to do. I have one child, and my husband and me. after paying the bills, and other necessities, and a couple of weeks later...Nothing is left, I just put in the last 15 dollars in my car for gas. I have nothing left.

2007-10-27 05:27:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-27 05:27:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is that normal?

2007-10-27 05:22:09 · 16 answers · asked by iamME 1 in Singles & Dating

I fine it hard to understand, and he actually asked for the same thing from his ex girlfriends who broke up with him... I said how about you introduce your male friend to me? he said NO, he said if I broke up with you, then I surely will introduce someone to you. but since its you broke up with me and Im possessive, I wont do that.
I told him thats impossible, he said to me, "thats mean"
I wonder anybody does this like him does? is he weird?

2007-10-27 05:21:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been back from Iraq for about 5 months and I am getting ready to return to the states, after living in germany for 6 years with my german wife. Our relationship has been rocky and I feel it is getting worse. We have 2 kids that I want to have in my life, so I dont want to leave her but at the same time I feel every person deserves happiness. Sex is boring, argue and fight all the time, and I am starting to see her as a Snobby B*@#H, she is getting really erogant and rude. So how do you know when or if you should end your marriage and if so, should I do something before we leave or wait till we get back?

2007-10-27 05:21:10 · 4 answers · asked by Soljer126 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 26 and i am getting tired of faking it in bed. I've been with my man for 4 years and I love him. But I hate it that he wants sex all the time but I don't. I don't have interest in it because it don't feel good to me. It's not him because I've been like this since I lost my virginity at a young age. I want to fix it and don't say it's all in my head, I know it's something medical. anyway I'm serious about this and need some help.

2007-10-27 05:20:45 · 10 answers · asked by sjrosario82 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 16, and for the last year, I have been enamoured with a girl I am really good friends with. Two months ago I told her how I felt and she later told me she didnt feel the same way about me at the time. I was fine with it, but I still had extremely strong feelings for her.

Now it seemed we were getting to know eachother more and more and our relationship was eventually going to turn a corner. Of course my best friend tells her he sort of likes her (he knew I felt the way I did about her) and it turns out she has liked him for two months.

My friend is like a brother to me and we have been best friends for 12 years and he kindly told me he wasnt going to go out with her because he felt guilty, and she said the same thing. Of course this make me seem like a jerk so I told them Id be fine with it.

Heres the thing, my friend is going to ask her out any day now and I feel sick to my stomach every day just thinking about it. Im not happy at all. What should I do or say?

2007-10-27 05:18:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay im in middle school and i really really like this boy but he says he doesnt like me? but when i get around him he talks to me and its like we got together when were alone but when people are around he acts shy to say he likes me. Should i just go up to him and say" i like you, do u like me"??????? HELP PLZ PLZ PLZ.

2007-10-27 05:18:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First, I don't wear a shirt doing my Holy Month of Ramatan. Second let's leave out my IQ and stick with the question.

2007-10-27 05:12:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ma sons father is a pimp he hasn't helped me wit ANYTHING.. He stays out of state an childsupport is taking sooo long 2 do anything

2007-10-27 05:03:37 · 4 answers · asked by such a cutie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance for the last month is constantly doing things for everybody. i knwo where he is so i know its not another person, but everytime i mention to him that i just want to see him he gets mad and says he doesnt want to hear it and go and does it anyways? what can i do. we have a son and one on the way. and i am starting to feel there is no need for me to stick around because hes never home i might as well be on my own . and the only time he is hoem is to eat and sleep...

2007-10-27 04:59:05 · 3 answers · asked by miraclebaby_2006 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Explain please!

2007-10-27 04:57:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sisters birthday is coming up soon and I have to keep asking her what she plans to do in order for her to tell me anything. Finally she told me she may have a dinner party at her house but she didn't tell me the date. well this morning i happen to find out that she has set up appointment with her freinds at a spa for her bday and she never even told me about it or invited me. I also found out that she set up a dinner party the day after that at her house and she still hasn't told me she set the date yet. Not only that but she is having it on a sunday and i live in aneighboring state so she knows i will have to drive out there to attend. Why would she set it on a sunday knowing i have to drive back home the same night cuz i have work the next day. do you think i have every reason to be mad that not only is she hiding the spa plan from me but also she hasnt told me the date of the party plus she is having it on an awkward day?

2007-10-27 04:57:30 · 53 answers · asked by Sandra F 2 in Singles & Dating

last night after our football game we were riding back on the bus because i am in band and all of a sudden Aaron my kinda sorda dont exactally no how i feel about crush starts holding my best friends hand when he was being so sweet to me the friday before. he let me lean aginst him and fall a sleep i guess he thought i was asleep when out of Know Where He Holds my HAND! and puts his arm around me . ofcourse my bff didnt know about this i was going 2 tell her last night. so do i confront them both or ignore and move on?

2007-10-27 04:54:43 · 15 answers · asked by Kate P 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 04:53:33 · 15 answers · asked by ilovenerd2003 3 in Singles & Dating

To be friends with a girl you like (I'm talking about true friendship, not just gritting your teeth and bearing with it) if she doesn't want a relationship with you?

2007-10-27 04:50:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do they supress it? It's ok to cry!!!

2007-10-27 04:47:01 · 15 answers · asked by ilovenerd2003 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 04:45:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I brought my fiance over on a visa for marriage. After 8 months into the marriage, he now wants a divorce and wants to return to his own country. Would i have less problems filing for divorce after he returns to his country or should i quickly file for divorce now? He left me after 5 1/2 months of marriage 'to find work'. (yeah, right). Now what? I need some legal help quickly.

2007-10-27 04:44:08 · 16 answers · asked by mgrpupp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a sortta guyfiriend who used to be like my super trusted fried, who I used to tell everything too. I told him my friend liked him, and he just went to her and hugged her all the time. Then one day with my girlfriend, we were talking bout him, and she said she thought he liked her. Then, I told that to my guy friend, and he was like "noooo way, you and some other people told me she liked me, so I played with her, but I would never like her." He's like that, and I hate that about him. Should I even be friends with him anymore?? How bad do you think what he did to my girlfriend is??ps im a girl

2007-10-27 04:42:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

it has all started as a control thing he wouldnt let me go home. i had to move i with his family who hated me. i couldnt talk to any of my friends or go out without him telling me i was a whore and that he was going to leave me. and i would stay.. then he started hitting me but its not really serious usually he'll keep saying mean things about me and i'll hit him then he hits me back. but he's never left like serious bruses or anything. i just love him and he's really the only thing i have. recently we got kicked out of his mothers house (she's an alcoholic who abuses him verbally and when he was little physically) and i went ot live with my mom and he is staying with a not so good friend. now he wont talk to me because he thinks i cheat on him but i havent even left my mothers house i just call him and he doesnt anser then i cry more.. long story short its killing me inside and all i can think is that im nothing and that if he doesnt want me wtf y should i even be here.

2007-10-27 04:42:26 · 50 answers · asked by silent tears 1 in Singles & Dating

I met up with a mate's sister recently, that I haven't seen for ten years; an intelligent, educated, lass in her early thirties. Anyway, we were by the sea about to have a cigarette, but it was windy so she crouched down below below the wall level, then laughed and joked "It looks like I'm giving you a bl*wjob" then recalled an occasion when she'd given someone head in front of a window.
For some reason it took me back a bit, I can't help thinking a) it sounded pretty slutty, and b) wondering why she thought I'd want to hear it?

Or am I just being an overdramatic old prude?

2007-10-27 04:42:23 · 36 answers · asked by SITSC 1 in Friends

I'm just curious. By the way, I'm not an american.

2007-10-27 04:41:00 · 5 answers · asked by ryu_zidane 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

as a single female doctor that just turned 30 there has always been this challenge that what if persuing my passion of continuing training for fellowship would lower my chances of finding the right person and eventually having a family.
its very easy to choose to work like a general MD and have a laid back life with much much more room for socialzing but the job itslef will NOT be satisfying for me.
any input appreciated.

2007-10-27 04:40:41 · 7 answers · asked by me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Cherry was reading the magazine, he found an amazing information " ...in south africa, the woman will pay $10 to the husband each time after having sex..." Cherry was so interesting, he told his wife that he want to go to south africa and to experience the amazing custom. But his wife insisted that she wanted to escort him to south africa. His wife told him " Aslo i am doubtful that how could you stay alive when you only earned about $20 a month" ( the wife complain about that one month they only have two times sex)

2007-10-27 04:39:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i have this friend named joel and i'm not sure what to do... we see each other in the hall all the time and we always joke around with stuff...he told me he liked 3 different people...and 2out of 3 r going out with other guys and the other one is one the went out with in like 4th-5th grade and she likes someone but i dont know who but i'm pretty sure its not him..................................................oh yeah i'm in 7th grade

2007-10-27 04:35:52 · 4 answers · asked by kp.sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my wife for almost 2 yrs. we have a 1 yr. old son and she wants to take him with her to visit her family. But doesn't want me to go what should i do. Should i let her go with my son for a week. or should i take some time off work and convence her that we should all go for just a few days.

2007-10-27 04:34:41 · 41 answers · asked by earthsuit01 2 in Marriage & Divorce