Family & Relationships - 27 October 2007

2007-10-27 06:43:08 · 6 answers · asked by Denissa S 1 in Friends

How do you know when a relationship is worth the tough times?

- Lack of affection - I am very affectionate
- Lack of interest with sex? My sex drive is a lil over the top
- Dealing with blended family
- Have two different style of raising our kids.
He says he loves the chaos. With four children in the house under the age of 6 I think its necessarry to have schedule.

How do you know when theres to much there are to many differences to make it work even if you try to fight for it and make it work.

btw..we currently live together in a to small apartment and looking to move to a bigger place. Is it the space that is making everything amplified or is it the fact that we are too different.

2007-10-27 06:39:41 · 9 answers · asked by me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Besides truth or dare.

2007-10-27 06:39:06 · 32 answers · asked by christine 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been facebooking this guy and have just found out he has a girlfriend?
he keeps on asking me out for a drink!

Again his girlfriend is like a porn star dont really no what he wants with me or why he is asking me out help any reasons!!
Im really conservative and she is taking about the sex they had last night on his wall!!!is this normal behaviour or a little trashy!!

Do men like trashy women or prefer girls who are not so in you face with sex and leave more up to the imagination
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2007-10-27 06:38:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do men look at porn? Is it anything against your woman?
I am in a wonderful relationship, great guy. We trust each other. Sex is great. About once or twice a week (keep in mind we have been together almost a yr, and just like all relstionships, it use to be like 3-5 times a week at first.) I am always "ready and eager" so no prob there. He's isnt REAL kinky, but its still great. THE PROBLEM: He works from home and 1-2 times a week, ALONE, he looks at porn! He likes to mailny watch girls play with toys. BUT he doesnt want to use toys in our "sessions". He also raised cane when I had one, never used it since we been together, so I trashed it so that he would SHUT UP!
Is this a problem (HIM WATCHING PORN ALONE)? Do I need to just chill on it? Let it go? We OCCASIONALLY will watch a "movie" together.

Help me out here. What can I do?

2007-10-27 06:35:16 · 12 answers · asked by calicohottie 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 31 years, and I have struggled for last 5-10. Many times I say and do the things that would be expected out of a nicely or happily married couple but I feel like I am an actress. For example: touching, hand holding, hugging, talking. I don't feel anything for my spouse but frustration and resentment and sadness that things aren't the way they should be. I have heard that if you keep saying and doing the right thing it eventually becomes a part of you and you will feel it. But I don't know how long that will take, if it will ever happen. I always feel that if I had or would do something better or different it would be better. I don't feel comfortable about divorce, but I always wonder if things could or would be different with someone else or would I have the same problems?

2007-10-27 06:34:33 · 10 answers · asked by okie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends are going to the rave this Saturday, its really big... I was wondering if it worth trying E(street drug).. I only have one life live. what should i do..? its gonna be so much fun!

2007-10-27 06:32:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 06:30:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so, I'm married, and before I got married and had my kid, I never had any REAL friends that made an effort to keep in touch after high school. They all kind of drifted away from me and the only time we talk is on myspace occasionally. I met one good friend at my job in 2004, but I was her boss and neighbor at the same time and the work situation killed our friendship. She forgave me months later, while we were both working at different jobs, and we started hanging out all the time and became best friends, however, my husband got jealous of her and almost hit her one night while he was drunk. She has forgiven him now, but she still barely calls or comes over. My husband is alot better now, and we are working things out, but he doesn't understand that I need more than a husband. I need girlfriends too since I never had a REAL friend before I met this girl and now she barely talks to me and I feel like a loser with no friends. Do I HAVE to get a divorce to make friends?

2007-10-27 06:29:52 · 19 answers · asked by Torturedsoul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I am only looking for answers from people that really want to help me and offer serious advice. Well, last night I went to a "Passion Party", during and afterwards I had a lot of alcohol. When I came home I was very horny and really wanting a lot of sex. My husband and I had not been able to have sex for the past 2 weeks so I thought "this is going to be awesome sex." Well, first time was good then we got on the computer and I let him look at porn while I pleasured him. Our relationship has only recently become this open because I have always been raised to believe that while you are married your spouse is the only person that should make you feel that way. Anyways, so I did that for a while and stopped because I was thinking we would be having sex again soon. Well I got tired of the porn and he ended up looking at it for quite a while. Thats when I really realized what he was mainly looking at... young latina, big booty girls. It kinda made me feel like "am I what he really wants?"

2007-10-27 06:27:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the bride or groom?

2007-10-27 06:26:54 · 12 answers · asked by jerseylin732 1 in Weddings

have you ever become really fond , fell in love or fancied someone in your family? like a cousin or step-relative or had any sexy feelings for them. i know this sounds sick, but my friend just said she has deep feelings and feels she is in love with her cousin. she says she sees him on family trips and she feels he flirts with her a bit. she is 18 and he is 23. MAD is it,what your say ?

2007-10-27 06:21:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

jw, jw.

2007-10-27 06:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by ;) 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am behind in child support, the support rate per month is outrageously high, I fear if i dont sign off I will just keep getting in deeper in debt because the arrearage is so high. The kids live in a different state and my ex is happily married and wife is talking about adopting the kids. So thats all good.
But I have no idea how to go about it. And if I do that, i know (think) i still owe arrearage, but wont have to pay the support any longer.
I live in Michigan.
ANY HELP APPRECIATED!
Thanks

2007-10-27 06:14:36 · 19 answers · asked by Kathy H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

slash / went to college? Did they try to get you to stay home / close to home?

2007-10-27 06:13:49 · 14 answers · asked by Rick 4 in Family

2007-10-27 06:13:37 · 18 answers · asked by K.J. 2 in Singles & Dating

few days ago i broke up with someone i loved ;someone for whom i left my entire world or better to say he left me;;;i tried to call him several times ,he answed every time telling me he doesn't want to hear my voice again,,i suffered a lot,,then i came to realize it was time for departure,,but when i started to convince myself he's gone,,two days ago found a missed call of his but was courageous enough not to call him back,n ths morning he called twice too n wonder how i didn't answer him,,he was the one who moked on me n played with my feelings,,,i still want him but my pain is bigger than all that,,i thought for many times to go in an other relationship so as to forget a bit but i'm afraid tu hurt some other people in my way;;;

2007-10-27 06:11:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 14 year old INdian. my parents are not letting me shave since they think i am too young to do that. But once not abiding by what they said, i had shaved my moustache off and my freinds were saying it was luking far better than usual, but my parents won't agree, they want to see me as a young kid. They say that this time will never come again once you are an adult. Also considering a few culture related matters, they are not allowing me. But I'm dying to convince them, what do i do??????????

2007-10-27 06:09:13 · 11 answers · asked by Mr.Mysterious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-27 06:08:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to break up with my husband because I have met somone else. However we have a joint mortgage together and I wondered how it would all work out? I mean does anyone no here whether you jus divide the equity between both parties? I would like to buy him out if I could but if it works out 50/50 then there would be not way I could. I would want custody of the kids as well. Would it be the court that would decide?

2007-10-27 06:07:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you like a lot of stuff happening in your relationship or do you prefer it calm and healthy?? does healthy = boring?

2007-10-27 06:06:00 · 10 answers · asked by j k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 05:56:08 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I have been together for five and a half years. recently, we moved in together. He and I are traditional (old fashioned) in the way of our relationship. I cook and clean; however, he seems to be doing nothing...he has grown up with a mother that does it all for him and I feel less than worthy whenever I can't get things done like how his mother does....yet, i work full time, go to school three nights a week, and am planning this wedding...i am starting to question why he even wants to marry me as i don't see myself being of any real importance in his life...i know that sounds AWFUL...i just don't want to call off a wedding that has already been started with my bridesmaides already having bought their dresses and everything else coming together...I talk to him about what I feel and he makes fun of me...I ask him to help out with certain things cuz I am so busy, and he says okay, but never does...I love him, but i don't know what to do...i need some advice. thanks

2007-10-27 05:56:07 · 22 answers · asked by babylove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-10-27 05:56:01 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband's best friend is having a big Halloween bash tonight in his old town. I don't know anyone and everytime I go, I hardly get to know anyone b/c it is a reunion for him and he forgets that I am there. He wants me to go but I am afraid to go b/c it turns out to be a miserable night as usual b/c he forgets that I am there and will go off to be with his friends - literally. He doesn't introduce me to anyone etc... Would you go? And if you went, what would you do?

2007-10-27 05:53:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im scorpion
my b'day is on 10th of november
im turning 14 this year
i like clothes but that wont be worth for my b'day as i have already decided what to wear>>
im geting moviee tickets>>
but the gift is still not decided>>!
plez help!

2007-10-27 05:51:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like my blue eyes...how about you?

2007-10-27 05:48:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and my mate found out. she doesnt know hiim at all but last night at a party she was flirting with the guy i like and she has done it before. I found out becase the guy told me that he became mates with her and she's really nice...i dont know what to do? ..i know you will say dont tell her in future but i reallly like this guy and im worried he will fall for her instead of me...he has told ma mate that he likes me too tho argghh please help i really dont knwo what to do

2007-10-27 05:42:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 05:42:18 · 2 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

HOW DO I GET RID OF HIM!!!

2007-10-27 05:40:53 · 2 answers · asked by chicagoburbsss 2 in Marriage & Divorce