have you ever become really fond , fell in love or fancied someone in your family? like a cousin or step-relative or had any sexy feelings for them. i know this sounds sick, but my friend just said she has deep feelings and feels she is in love with her cousin. she says she sees him on family trips and she feels he flirts with her a bit. she is 18 and he is 23. MAD is it,what your say ?
2007-10-27 06:21:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she just rang and said that he wants to take her on a skiing trip to austria . what would happen if they did get together?
2007-10-27 06:29:09 · update #1
it's her cousins , son , so her 2nd cousin.i guess?
2007-10-27 06:31:38 · update #2
i am laughing my a$s off as some of you guys think this is me ,we are talking about! ha ha..x
2007-10-27 06:39:45 · update #3
well are they 2nd 3rd or 1st cousins? any relations or step? I would think step would be ok - but not on the 1/2/3rd level thats wrong. because they are blood related. maybe admire from afar is ok and dreaming is ok. but nothing further. Tell her to find another boyfriend to be with she may be lonely. Flirting is ok too but lets hope nothing else or can we say trailer?
2007-10-27 06:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by littlemiss-sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i never had that. but maybe ur friend never had guy friends who were older and she's just exploring,it's just a thing she's going through it will be over soon.
Maybe if she hangs out with more guy friends then she won't have this problem.
and i don't think that her cousin flirts back,he probably sees it as playing around like a lil sister, not in a sick way.
If she's single then try to fix her up with someone maybe she's just desperate or something.
2007-10-27 13:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by S.O.S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that had a crush on her cousin when she was like 4. But then she got old enough to realize that was GROSS.
Your friends options: a trailer in Arkansas, an appearance on the Jerry Springer Show or a cameo on Cops.
2007-10-27 13:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay if your from Tasmania, but if their mom's found out it would start a chain reaction.
There are a lot of cultures where cousin to cousin relations are acceptable.
Personally I would class this as incestuous and perhaps verging on the crazy and F'd up.
2007-10-27 13:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing abnormal but depends on the status of cousin relationship; perfect match in terms of age! In fact, in some countries or communities, wedlock between cousins is pretty common!
2007-10-27 13:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Sami V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its kinda nasty well ok its disgusting im not trying to be mean but her cousin is just trying to have fun with her i do it all the time with my cousins....she should get out more and meet some new guys if she feels that way about her family....if they werent blood related it would be ok but if they are blood then it wouldnt be good but if her cousin found out about this he will freak and end up telling someone and that wont be good for the entire family to find out.
2007-10-27 13:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by forsaken49 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it is a bit weird. Maybe he just wants what he can't have. That's kinda sad, they can never be together! Or maybe they could, just try to keep it a secret. But I guess that means no more family functions then huh?
2007-10-27 13:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by alexis_0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually yes and no.My mate fancies my cousin she from denmark im from uk she visits somtimes and WOW is she a hot BABE it would be hard for any guy to say no.Related or not related.
2007-10-27 13:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The definition is incest...Sexual relations between persons who are so closely related that their marriage is illegal or forbidden by custom. The statutory crime of sexual relations with such a near relative.
It is just plain nasty and sick!!
2007-10-27 13:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by 69CANCER69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOve is bigger than anything and you cant fight love if your friend loves her cousin it doesnt matter. Everyone is related to everyone in the world somehow and love is importanat if they love each other they shouldn't hide their feelings!
2007-10-27 13:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋