Family & Relationships - 27 October 2007

I'm not married, yet. But when I do, I want to make sure I never get a divorce, no matter how hard it gets. My family line has been full of divorces and I want it to end with me. Please help I don't want to become a statistic.

2007-10-27 19:24:07 · 24 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, when my husband was going through his divorce with his ex, she gave her wedding band and engagement ring back to him. The engagment ring is a beautiful - 2 carat diamond and white gold....and as terrible as it is to say...I nearly love it more than my engagment ring. I go to it often to look at it and try it on. I don't feel like by doing so I'm bringing myself any bad luck, but I do feel guilty that I'm admiring something that isn't mine. The thing is...I'd love to have it (even though I wear yellow gold), or love to have the diamonds taken out and a new ring designed from it. I have no idea how to approach this topic with my husband though. And even if he'd go for it, he's very conservative. I told him I found the ring and didn't let on I knew whose it was. He told me that he bought it for some other woman in his past and now has no purpose for it. He said he is thinking about selling it. I would hate for him to sell it...what do I do?

2007-10-27 19:18:09 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sate deposit box, oversears account, my girlfriends apartment??

2007-10-27 19:17:54 · 20 answers · asked by KhrisB 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I blame myself for liking all the shy guys..lol Never kissed either but I'm not going to just grab someone...come on people. Its their fault too, they like me back but dont do anything...grrr

2007-10-27 19:14:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About another girl flirting with my boyfriend? I mean I trust him and I know he loves me and would never cheat on me. But whenever I'm not around, this girl tries to put moves on my bf.

2007-10-27 19:14:17 · 6 answers · asked by Princess Purple 7 in Singles & Dating

Hey everybody, I know there are probably a million questions like this but please consider answering.

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Okay, so there's this guy

and during school

we flirt w/ each other a lot

but then I see him flirting w/ other ppl 2!

This makes him seem like a player 2 me!

Well, anyways...

At the football game yesterday

we started flirting which led to holding hands

I avoided his kisses

and succeeded-

was this the right thing to do?

He also says that he likes me and wants me to be his girlfriend

Is this some game

am i justt gonna get my feelings hurt

Or should I trust him

and see what happens by giving him a chance?

2007-10-27 19:10:59 · 26 answers · asked by Sammi 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with my girlfriend and I plan on marrying her in the future. We are both virgins. So I was wondering if there are any precautions I should take on the wedding night. i.e. (lubricant's) I just don't want it to be painful for her.

2007-10-27 19:09:49 · 11 answers · asked by monsoondell 1 in Singles & Dating

How long does it take? Where should I go? How much will it cost?

2007-10-27 19:05:53 · 8 answers · asked by Naomi W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it the good men can never find a forever love the first time around time after time I see good men get cr-apped on by vicious nastey women? I guess the only good thing is the women usually never get lucky 2 times around they end up with a real loser the 2nd time around?

Vise versa it is the same with women the good women always get a jerk the first time around it seems like!

2007-10-27 19:05:16 · 37 answers · asked by LILBITOFKY 3 in Marriage & Divorce

in the past i've messed up relationships by getting intimate too early ): i just recently met this guy, and we aren't officially seeing eachother, but he invited me to a party and he likes to hold my hand and be a gentleman to me and i KNOW he's interested. i really like him so far and i want things to work out. we were in his room alone together and he's really attractive and i wanted to just make out already, but i held back. somtimes it's hard to fight the erges b/c i know he wants it and i want it too, but if waiting a little longer will lead to a worthwhile relationship, it's worth it. how long should i wait to go through each step if i want to start a meaningful relationship?

2007-10-27 19:03:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced from my son's father for 3 years now. He has lived in another state now for most of that time. He's not doing well economically and doesn't pay child support. I've been struggling with our son who has been acting out in school and home since the divorce and I spend a lot on babysitting. I came up with a hypothetical plan to move my ex in so he can cut my sitter costs, by us watching him on opposite work shifts, and also have them bond again and work out some issues my son's been having. We would split rent evenly. I don't have any feelings for my ex since the split, but he often jokes that there's something still between us. Is it possible for an arrangement to work out, or is it only on tv. (Think "All of Us"). If he could be businesslike about it, I think it could benefit us both, at least until he got back on his feet. Be honest, but not mean please!

2007-10-27 19:03:24 · 15 answers · asked by Getsbetterwithtime 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not mad about it, just curious.

1.)What is your sign?
2.)Why do you think people don't like Aries (if you have a problem with us)?
3.)What is your favorite sign BESIDES your own?
4.)What is your least favorite zodiac sign (if any)?

Remember, I am not asking this out of anger. I just want to get different opinions. I don't take the zodiac thing seriously. It's all for fun.

2007-10-27 18:59:11 · 14 answers · asked by ♥♥Sweet Mickey♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Only I do not have anyone currently to share this with

2007-10-27 18:58:16 · 13 answers · asked by harty_2k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why don't more people like Kevin Jonas?! He's my favoriteeeee! lol I mean, he's suuuuuuuuch a sweetheart, and he's soooooo hottttt! I mean, people are so mean... they say he's ugly and gay. and he's totally not! I mean, they thought he was gay because he said he'd rather have two daughters than two sons... I mean, that doesn't make him gay at all. I think it's cute... I mean, does anyone else agree? I mean, Kevin seems like, the sweetest guy everrrr!!

2007-10-27 18:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by DunderMifflin 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 18:51:44 · 17 answers · asked by jenc178 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in this training class for a new job. one of the trainers i find attractive. i am 29 and she is 45 with kid age of 19 and 2. she may be older but she looks like shes only 35 and same with her figure. ( very nice and sexy). she is divorced and have been for a while and she is not dating anyone. problem is i dont want to date her just sleep with her, how do i apporach this.


Single women 45 yrs of age or close to it answer plz.

2007-10-27 18:46:36 · 7 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 18:45:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 18:44:05 · 27 answers · asked by bobby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-27 18:42:29 · 24 answers · asked by belle k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-27 18:38:33 · 6 answers · asked by cody s 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this one girl at my high school we dont talk but she kept on looking at me in the hallway and sometimes even stare at me but when i look back she seems to start looking away. When she sees me in the hallway she start to scream her friends name loudly, one time she even dared one of her friends to say hi to me. One day in the hallway she push one of her friends into me. but when in the hallway with just me and her she started screaming boys name push other guys around and then she turns around as if she was checking if im still looking

2007-10-27 18:35:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my hubby plan to go to visit my family.. already purchase airplane tickets back and fro that cost over $1000 for him as he don't get more leave... we agree and he so happy that he can back to his hometown too and visit my family too.. (his parents move just miles away from our home).. a few hours before we are going to airport.. his father call him and tell him if he going back to see my family.. they will never accept my hubby as their children anymore.. then, my hubby telling me that he's not going along with me.. he like mommy boy too.. they dont have any excuses for that.. my in-laws just want to break my heart. im so frustrated.. what should i do

2007-10-27 18:30:49 · 24 answers · asked by NEILISA **Shane's Mama** 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Why did it come as a surprise that your spouse asked you for a divorce? Were other family members shocked of the divorce? Where did things go wrong?

Please share a story with lots of detail because I got the time to listen.

Please write more than 5 sentences. Please do not answer this question with, "we have been happily married for 7 years now", because if you look closely at the question you will notice that the question if geered towards couples that were given the SURPRISE of DIVORCE. I am doing research on love.

Thank you for respecting my wishes AND answering my question.

2007-10-27 18:26:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't told my husband yet and I don't know how to. I want out of this marriage so bad but I am so scared of all the consequences once I speak my mind and tell him I want to leave. I know this will devestate my children and I am worried about how expensive it will be. I have been in an unhappy marriage for the past 8 years and I just want to get on with my life.

2007-10-27 18:18:14 · 13 answers · asked by aj nosmit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We were married for a year. He was controlling, and had some very orthodox views on women & marriage.

He was recently charged for assault because he slapped me during an argument. However he was let off in court by the judge.

We separated after this incident.

It has been a few months now. He says he loves me & wants this marriage to work.

I have suggested counselling several times. But he refuses to go. I've even tried speaking to his family about our issues, but he dismisses this. Somehow everything I'm suggesting not a good idea according to him.

Where am I going wrong here? And, why is he not taking any steps to work out our issues, if he still says he has feelings?

Many thanks!

2007-10-27 18:16:50 · 19 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-27 18:13:15 · 13 answers · asked by Hearts Set On Ice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what are some body movements he might do?

2007-10-27 18:06:46 · 17 answers · asked by latinagurl0006 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 18:04:31 · 6 answers · asked by Denver M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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Please tell me your thoughts about this.

2007-10-27 18:02:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My horrible mother kicked me out of "her" house and now I don't have any where to go! A good friend said I could stay with her but for only 3 days. Is there any gov assistance I can get? I don't know where my baby and I will be in 3 days.........

P.S.
She kicked me out to make room for her sister and her sister's family.........

2007-10-27 18:01:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family