I am in love with my girlfriend and I plan on marrying her in the future. We are both virgins. So I was wondering if there are any precautions I should take on the wedding night. i.e. (lubricant's) I just don't want it to be painful for her.
2007-10-27 19:09:49 · 11 answers · asked by monsoondell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congratulations buddy. It is very rare nowadays of having a couple wait until their marriage. Don't worry both of you produces lubricants that can ease with each other. It is normal. Congrats once again.
2007-10-27 19:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Raulo 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just take things very slowly! Make sure you have lubricant and try to relax as much as possible. That's easy said than done, but it's quite effective! Also, unless you want to start a family right away, make sure that you wear a condom or she is on some type of birth control. She can get pregnant the first time so talk to her about that and agree on what you want to do as far as that is concerned.
2007-10-27 19:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're not ready for children, then I suggest condomns. You may not need a lubricant. Foreplay is a must do. You can't just jump in bed and think things are gonna start poppin. Remember nice and easy, gentle and slow. Congratulations, on waiting until you're married. It'll be really special!
2007-10-27 19:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by watersign 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? If you don't plan on having sex until your wedding night and you're not even engaged, you've got a while, so calm down hun! You will have plenty of time to think about that tantalizing moment, probably years.
2007-10-27 19:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey, there is always pain for the first time no matter what you do... but yes just relax and don't get into her on a hurry.. wait for her to be properly lubricated.. this means she has to be very, very wet.. so that it won't hurt her that much.. anyway, this also depends on the size of your c***.
2007-10-27 19:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by rainydays 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take it slow.
be sensual.
get some ky warming jelly.(lubricant).
it's going to be a little tight and a little bit of blood..nothing to freak out about..
good luck
2007-10-27 19:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes bring lube. other than that, she should bring an outfit and be very gentle. It's definitely better to wait till married :) me and my husband did too.
2007-10-27 19:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
treat her with respect and make sure you ask that she is ok and if if its hurting stop!!! or go slower. Its a very emotional time for a girl
2007-10-27 19:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go easy. Listen to her.
2007-10-27 19:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by aqua_sentinel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
two words: VERY NICE
2007-10-27 19:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋