Hey everybody, I know there are probably a million questions like this but please consider answering.
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Okay, so there's this guy
and during school
we flirt w/ each other a lot
but then I see him flirting w/ other ppl 2!
This makes him seem like a player 2 me!
Well, anyways...
At the football game yesterday
we started flirting which led to holding hands
I avoided his kisses
and succeeded-
was this the right thing to do?
He also says that he likes me and wants me to be his girlfriend
Is this some game
am i justt gonna get my feelings hurt
Or should I trust him
and see what happens by giving him a chance?
2007-10-27 19:10:59 · 26 answers · asked by Sammi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you 4 answerin everybody, i have alot 2 think about
2007-10-27 19:49:47 · update #1
I would give him a chance. Boys always seem like they're flirting with girls to other girls he likes. It's a curse I guess. Give him a shot and if you brake up, it's totally normal. Over half school relationships never last forever. So, just pretend nothing happened. Kiss him! awwww
good luck!
2007-10-27 19:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dated a player once to and let me tell you they are really no good they might like you more then all the other girls he has tried to flirt with but if you guys do break up and you really like him alot he is only gonna break your heart and he is just gonna move on to the next girl down his list of girls to date and i might being to mean but its the truth or he could be one of those players that he might really like you and you guys might even work out for a long lasting realtionship and you could be that girl that makes him stop being a player and realize that love is way more better so i say if he really likes you and has done nothing wrong then just give a chance you never know it might work out!
2007-10-28 02:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by bittersweet_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sammi,
Honey, the only way your not going to get your feelings hurt is if you get married and never separate...what I mean is, if you just trying things out like most young people you are most likely to get your feelings hurt. I say give it a try, only if you're up for it. I think that was smart of you to avoid his kiss because then you'll get sucked into his game deeper and it would have been harder to play it. I say take it slowly and maybe talk to him about him flirting with other girls. Some guy's types are "girl" they flirt with every walking female there is. He probably likes you the best out of all of them, though. Maybe he doesn't realize he's flirting...maybe its just his charm.
Good Luck...
Crystal_XxX
Ps. Loved your question, I'm gonna star it!!!
2007-10-28 02:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm sounds a little fast for one night. That's great that he's interested though! I'd be a little cautious at first...but I'd warm up to him more. If you're not ready to kiss yet, then you did the right thing. You should wait til you're ready. Maybe when you're with him again, get to know him more. Tell him that you really like him too, but want to get to know him better first. I think that's a smart idea. Go hang out together, and see if he's for real. Then, when you're comfortable, maybe you can give him a kiss or two. :-)
2007-10-28 02:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by kawree13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may have yourself a boy friend young lady!!
However, to question his other flirting activity is correct I beleive. I reccommend total honesty in this case. Next time he mentions that he wants YOU for his gf, as if that means he wont flirt with every jane, sue and mary andy more.. No way he can be offended by question unless hes is the sly fox you want to avoid.. Just t ry it, I htink you will be happier for it... Hugs Lin
2007-10-28 02:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by lin4465 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is his history? Does he have a reputation, multiple girlfriends in the past, ect? I mean, at that age, what isnt a game in the dating world? Now that I think about it, what isnt a game in the grown up world besides marriage?... Anyways, be aware of his intentions, and though you make your own choices... Id say dont have sex until you find someone you really care for, and someone you know that cares for you!Dont make my mistakes I did, and im stating this as a 20 year old.
2007-10-28 02:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he did pick you out of all the other girls. Flirting is flirting and it can be contained. I'm not saying to put all your trust and hope into this boy, but just a chance. See what he does.
2007-10-28 02:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Line 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's a good guy that means no harm and you've seen the way he acts in other relationships and the way he handles them then I say go for it.
BUT
If he's a no good dude that has a bad rep and plays with girls heads then Is say it might be a big no-no.
It's your call.
<3
2007-10-28 02:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN as fast and as far as you can! The guy is playin you like a fiddle! If he's trying to kiss you that fast, then it proves that he just wants to score, use you and then loose you so fast you can't even say "oops". You're probably one of like 3 girls to him. Leave him alone blc you'll get hurt.
2007-10-28 02:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u did the right thing
good girl lol
umm i dont kno if u should give him a chance
maybe he'll still be flirting with other girls
talk to him about you two.. find out what he's planning to do
2007-10-28 02:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋