2007-10-27 18:13:15 · 13 answers · asked by Hearts Set On Ice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well.......it's a personal decision and some people feel like they took a vow till death do you part in the good times and bad, and well........it's bad but you're both still alive so you'll work it out. Lots of things can play a role, religion, money, children, families, homes and so on. It seems black and white, but everyone looks at it different. I would not divorce for infidelity. I took a vow and he may have broken a part of his, but I did not so......until death do us part
2007-10-27 18:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some do divorce and some don't. It is according to the circumstances and the way they handle the infidelity. Have seen some grow stronger, some grow weaker and some remain the same. For myself, we were not willing to throw away all the years together over this one incident, even though it was huge. Am not saying everyone should stay together and no one can truthfully say how they will react if it happens; they won't know unless it does occur.
2007-10-28 01:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually when this happens it is a huge wake up call to the couple (and family.) Most couples reconcile because they realize that they had lots of problems that they weren't dealing with but there is still lots of love there.
Most of the time when I've seen this happen it brings the people close together. Only if there is still enough love there.
On the other hand, I've also seen it split a lot of people apart. Sometimes that love just wasn't there in the first place. That's usually why the people cheated in the first place.
Hope this helps.
2007-10-28 01:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kris 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it was just a faux pas and the partner can get past it . Usually though, it indicates a character flaw within the cheater which when exposed, destroys the trust and the relationship.
2007-10-28 01:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by gillemhor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because one cheats doesn't mean the end of the marriage. They have history, kids, financial considerations.business, benifits and of course love. One looses a lot in separations and divorces. Mistakes should be forgiven.More than twice and it'll have to be rethunk.
2007-10-28 01:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by reinformer 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
men and women tend to cheat for diffrent reasons but it is my belief that most have no intention when that started the affair to actually leave their marriage. Some are just bored, some are looking for a more emotional connection. After an affair, working it out can be very difficult. If someone cheats I believe the marriage is already over!
2007-10-28 01:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
1. they have kids.
2. its hell to go through one. custody, child maintenance..its a whole lot of crap.
3. Rather remain to infidel and get caught later.
2007-10-28 03:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Starfighters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called forgiveness.....many times the spouse that was cheated on decides they will try to forgive and reconcile...people don't always cheat because they don't love their spouse..sometimes they have other issues that are resolvable
2007-10-28 03:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by only1sol2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they still love each other.
2007-10-28 01:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by Chiksita 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in time they do when the one who has been cheated on has time to think . my honest opion?
2007-10-28 02:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋