Family & Relationships - 27 October 2007

Was it as a teen?
In college?
After college?

Or are you simply waiting for marriage

2007-10-27 14:23:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like about people shopping are my bestfriend.

2007-10-27 14:22:29 · 9 answers · asked by Andjoua J 3 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married to my boyfriend whom I love so much. I know i have a lot of bad habits and I know I have an attitude and he has a lot of bad habits too. When we get married, how can I I make it work? How can we tolerate each other? How ca we make this work?

2007-10-27 14:19:44 · 9 answers · asked by Little Older, Much Wiser 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we were together for only 3 to 4 months, however you could say lived toether for 2 months. i know that probably was moving way to fast, but things happen! well my family did not approve of the living conditions and since it was there house i had to respect their wishes. So, I had a talk with my boyfriend and he seemed to understand about slowing things down. then weeks went by I notice that he wasn't calling and coming around like he use to. then one day he called me at work and told me he was going to go see his friend in the hospital and he would be over later, he told me he loved me. then after that i never talked or seen him since. If he truely loved me he could have a least gave me an explanation of why he didn't want to see me any more. However, since I didn't get anything I'm having a hard time trying to get over him and i don't know what to do. I know I need to move on but i don't even know what I did wrong and I'm just totally depressed. I need closure, and I don't know how

2007-10-27 14:19:02 · 13 answers · asked by sweettreats395 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend wanted to go to a matinée movie today so she made plans with me last night. I call around 11 and she is back home (an hour away) getting her hair done, I said well since your home we don't have to go today because I don't want you rushing up here. She said no she wants to see the movie with me today and wants go to the 7:10 show. I'm like okay. About 4:00 she calls me and says her friends wants to catch up with her so we might have to do the 9:10 show. I'm like okay. Now its 9:12 p.m. and I called her and she didn't pick up. There is an 11:20 p.m show but I doubt we will be going to that as her friend is supposed to be coming up here tonight.

So I'm kinda pissed because I already told her it was fine that we could have went tomorrow. I could have made other plans. Now I'm debating going to see the movie with my friends in a few hours. Should I be upset and what should I do?

2007-10-27 14:15:56 · 3 answers · asked by sonyab523 2 in Singles & Dating

my marriage failed coz my ex took a whore mistress and impregnated her..i tired to save the marriage for 6 years to no avail till i HAD ENOUGH!!! anyway that was 7 yrs ago...we are on speaking terms now and MIRACLE he send some allowance for my kids after 6 long years. then last saturday he admitted to me he regretted what he did and suffered for years for it then yesterday he was back to blaming me saying I'M the cause he is the PRODUCT!!! whew a self centered guy would always be that and would never change just hope noone among my 2 kids will get his HIGH and MIGHTY attitude......can attitude be inherited too? hope NOT!!! i raised my kids so differently from the way his parents raised him....i dont want my son to end up breaking a solemn vow when he get married someday...and i dont want my daughter to go through what thier dad did to me too....:-(

2007-10-27 14:14:58 · 5 answers · asked by silly me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So your family doesn't have to make difficult decisions?

2007-10-27 14:14:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband says that it feels better if he doesn't pull out during sex. I always thought that an orgasm was an orgasm. Does it feel that much better if you don't pull out?

2007-10-27 14:14:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 21. i have a bro that is 15, a sis that is 12 and another sis that is 3 . MY mom had me really young. It is weird telling people that i have a 3 year old sister. Is anyone in a situation like me? I mean it is cool having young parents and such cute siblings but...kinda weird

2007-10-27 14:10:31 · 6 answers · asked by SLA 3 in Family

I MEAN EVERY GUYS I TALK TO IS EITHER TO INMATTURE OR HE JUST DOESNT KNO WHO TO TREAT U .,.......

2007-10-27 14:07:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this a turn on for most guys? My last bf loved it, but I'm not sure anyone else I date would.

2007-10-27 14:03:51 · 18 answers · asked by iambic_chatterbox 4 in Singles & Dating

I feel that my whole life my mom has neglected me. When I was a toddler, she would bring me and my brother to a babysitter so she could gamble. Then when I started Kindergarten my uncle and cousin moved in with us and she had them take care of us while she went out on weekends. I moved in 7th grade, and she would leave me and my bro home on weekends while she socialize with friends. She leaves Sat morning and comes home Sunday night but she leaves some food if we are hungry. Her behavior has continued until now and I am now 20. Now I am an adult but I felt ever since I was little I was neglected. Was it neglect that my mom left me and my bro home every weekend while she hangs out with her friends? I feel she was never there when I had problems especially during high school years. In our whole lives, she took us out once or twice. And even then, she would leave to her friends afterwards. Is thsi wrong? What should I do about it? She never changes.

2007-10-27 13:56:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i dont want the nicknames to be pumpkin or muffin cause my other friends already have that :D

2007-10-27 13:56:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am deeply in love with this man that I have been dating for three years. We have grown extremely close to each other over the course of these three years. We plan on getting married in the future, but latey...I have been questioning whether or not I want to spend the rest of my life with him...because lately he has been doing and saying things that irritate me. When I am away from him, I miss him like crazy and want to be with him. When I finally get to be with him again, I end up feeling irritated and not wanting to be around him. It's crazy the way that I feel. Any explanations as to why I feel this way and what I can do to change it?

2007-10-27 13:55:25 · 3 answers · asked by **Sparkle** 1 in Singles & Dating

When I first met my husband, my in-laws were wonderful. You couldn't ask for nicer people. They welcomed me with open arms and I always felt like they cared about me. Well, I got pregnant with our daughter (a year ago) and still, they were wonderful. Well, once I gave birth, things started to change. My mother-in-law became back-biting, mean, and just downright unbearable. It's so hard to explain how her moods swing. I think she's "obsessed" with my daughter. She makes lots of unacceptable and inappropriate comments, but just acts as if she's joking. It's scary sometimes. She's usually fine around my husband, but when she gets me alone, she doesn't hold back. She talks down to my poor father-in-law and he just sits there and takes it. I've discussed this with my man, and he's wonderful about supporting me and has even talked with her, but still it's all at the point where I don't want to see her anymore. They live a half mile away. Now what?

2007-10-27 13:54:57 · 7 answers · asked by MetalMama 4 in Family

My husband is a working hard man. He works from 4am and finishs around 10pm or later. He makes around $20K/m. We don't have problem with financial but we don't have happiness in our marriage life neither. He just can't give up drinking habits. He doesn't like to go out. We never spend a vacation together. He always working almost 24/7. I asked him to get away for just a few days, he refused. Talk about our sex life is very bad. In two years, we have sex about 8 times with unsatified. He likes watching Adult Movie when he drinks. I want to leave him but I feel guilty becuase he's not cheating on me but I'm not happy. I'm getting stress and loosing a lot of weight becuase of his action. What should I do? Please help me....

2007-10-27 13:54:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so a guy i kno said wed hang again and its ben over amonth and he was like sayin hed call to hang the other day and never did! is he even into me..why make plans..

WHY DO I ONLY FALL FOR THE ONES WHO DONT TRY TO CHASE ME!
and the ones that chase me i dont care about!!
its weird!
how do i get over that!
i think i only like guys because they dont try to call all the time like the others!!

advice/story would be nice thanks!

2007-10-27 13:53:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 13:51:50 · 16 answers · asked by casheye 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years. I'm 22 and she is 27. I have never had any girlfriend before she is the first and I love her. About a year ago, we started to fight alot and it got worse as time went buy. We would get into arguments and she would really piss me off, I mean REALLY! She calls me every bad name in the book and yells in my face. I'm trying not to fight with her, so I leave and go outside, but she justs gets even more mad. If I call her names she fights with me more (God forbid if you call this lady a *****, she will attack you), What's left to do? I never really hit her, but I just grab her or push her a little hard. She is just small, I mean I weigh 100lb more than her and a foot taller. She almost left me a few days ago, cause I grabbed her hard. She told me to never touch her, E V E R !! or she will leave me. OK fine, so what do I do when she treats me like ****? I asked her, and she said "we have to work it out" WTF!? after you make me mad?

2007-10-27 13:51:02 · 35 answers · asked by rus_rob1 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my boyfriend and I made a pledge once (before we were dating) that we would save sex for marraige. We're going to get married in a year or a little more (there's no set date yet), and I really don't want to wait. I know that he would do anything for me, but I don't know if we should have sex. What do ya'll think I should do?

2007-10-27 13:49:42 · 19 answers · asked by When Soft Voices Die 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 13:48:27 · 12 answers · asked by Rowena S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this will sound bad on my part but i really need to know what to do. okay theres this guy that i have liked for a long time, and i had my chance a while back but i didnt understand what was going on and i didnt take it (really not my fault he wasnt being clear and didnt outright ask me)! well he found this girl that he really liked and i pretended to be happy for him cause i didnt wanna ruin his happiness. But truly inside im like hurting so bad. Well they had plans to get married the weekend before my birthday and that hurt even worse! but for some unknown reason they didnt get married. well my friends are saying that the reason he didnt is because he likes me and is making it obvious. well I havent noticed anything and people are saying they are gonna break up n stuff and im wondering if i should tell him how i feel NOW... or should i just ignore it again? and also Im scared of rejection so if you say i should tell him.... how do I do it?

2007-10-27 13:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by Jenn [[Rick R.'s Manager]] 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 13:44:13 · 22 answers · asked by Crazy Tequilla Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone suggest something similar to it? I don't want to be so cliche?

2007-10-27 13:43:11 · 6 answers · asked by Leila 2 in Weddings

My fiance and I do not belong to a church so we are having to hire someone to marry us and can't seem to find someone under $300 is it my imagination or is this expensive??

2007-10-27 13:43:09 · 12 answers · asked by tashbemee 2 in Weddings

I am 22 years old and recently started seeing an old flame from when I was 17. I believe he came back ino my life for a reason and I think he's going to ask me to be his girlfriend any day now. Back when I was 17, he and I fooled around (never had sex but came very close).
I don't want him to think of me as the same "slutty" girl I once was, because I'm really not anymore. I will wait to sleep with him until he asks me out officially, but how long should I wait? I want this guy to have complete respect for me... I'm so used to being disrespected because I jump into the sexual aspects of relationships early.
Please help! How long should I wait?

2007-10-27 13:41:07 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I realize both are important but if you had to pick one which would you decide upon and why?

2007-10-27 13:41:00 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that women tend to look at the outer appearence of a guy,instead of what's inside. Can looks pay bills or will looks keep a relationship together?? Ladies let me know something.

2007-10-27 13:39:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife hates going to Las Vegas. Whenever the chance comes up for the two of us to go, she reluctantly goes and complains about it the entire time. 3 months ago, I was activated and deployed to the Middle East. My wife recently decided to go to Las Vegas with friends for a bachelorette party. She even took 1/2 day off work to do it. Should I be worried? I can't stop thinking about what is going on and how I can keep myself sane!!! HELP!!!!

2007-10-27 13:39:11 · 16 answers · asked by Worried in Middle East 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl in my class but don't know if she likes me.She laughs at my jokes and when I stare at her,she just smiles.There is no touching yet but she hugs people when she gets"angry".When I call her names she always says"how cute" sarcastically.I usually have to start a conversation then she adds on.I don't really know if she is trying to get closer to me.There is 4 other guys that like her and I don't want her falling for anyone else.Pleadse help a guy here.Gladly appreciate it! =)

2007-10-27 13:36:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating