If you have any patience please read and help me about a girl I like?

Question

I really like this girl in my class but don't know if she likes me.She laughs at my jokes and when I stare at her,she just smiles.There is no touching yet but she hugs people when she gets"angry".When I call her names she always says"how cute" sarcastically.I usually have to start a conversation then she adds on.I don't really know if she is trying to get closer to me.There is 4 other guys that like her and I don't want her falling for anyone else.Pleadse help a guy here.Gladly appreciate it! =)

O yeah today I just noticed that in oour classes,she crossed her legs and pointed them at me but only in English becuz she sits one seat to the left from me and at others she always sits far away(stupid assigned seats)Does this mean anything?

Answer 1

ok here is the thing show this girl that you are different than all those other guys...show more confidence ask her out on a date and it can be something simple like grabbing lunch together....say hi and ask her how her weekend was...you can do it! Sweep her off her feet and if you need more info on how to do that well email me and I will tell you :0) too long to write it here ya know!

Answer 2

Look here Junior, I don't know how old you are, but apparently the chick diggs you if she hangs around long enough to hear your jokes, and stories, and laughs and giggles with you. If you pick on her and she picks back without slapping the crap out of you... you're in. That's the way things work. You're nervous, she's nervous, and that's how you two are showing your effection is by doing the wierd, neutral, "I don't like you, you have cooties" kinda thing. A wise man once said "Sh*t or get off the pot" and that's what you need to do my boy before the star basketball player comes up and trades her a twinky for the nasty cookies her mom always makes... and the rest is history, and your sitting at home crying with a happy sock and a J.C. Penny catalog.

Be yourself, she is apparently already interested in you or she wouldn't bother putting up with you, find out what she likes, and show interest. invite her to do something she likes but that you will also enjoy so it will be fun for both of you. invite friends if it's too uncomfortable to do alone, chances are she'll want to invite her friends for support anyway, that way if things get awkward, you both have fallback plans and can get others involved until you get your game straight again.... be natural, be yourself... BE CONFIDENT!!! chicks dig natural and confident.... now get off your butt and make it happen!!!!! you can email me if you need more help =)

Answer 3

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Answer 4

i like blessed's answer a lot...

but you could always try something cute, too. girls like when guys do something sweet, or different. use halloween to your advantage. get her a halloween card. in it, say happy halloween. then write "P.S. would you like to get together and hang out this weekend?"

or better yet, have a plan. plan with friends to go to a movie, go bowling, or to play pool (or whatever you kids do in your town). then ask her if she wants to join you guys. this takes pressure off of both of you. it's not a first date or anything, but it will give you two a chance to get to know each other outside of class.

if you guys go together, open the car door for her. whether you're driving of somebody else is. it's for sure to get her attention. hold the door when you go into a building. when time is right, tell her she's beautiful when she laughs or something along those lines. it's the little things girls fall for. the sweet things that not all guys do.

Answer 5

I feel for you - I know what it's like. Can't you get a mate to ask her out for you as you seem shy? Or maybe send her a message asking her out? If she says no it sounds like she already has a lot of respect for you so she won't laugh or make you feel bad and if she says yes it'll be fantastic! If she says no and then falls for another guy then you've done all you can and you'll just have to get over her. Mates are best for that! Good Luck.

Answer 6

It sounds like she does like U b/c she smiles @ U & laughs @ your jokes. I agree with the person who suggested that you ask her to a movie and/or for pizza, especially as part of a group of friends. If she says No wait awhile & try again & if it's still No, move on. You'll meet plenty of other interesting girls & there are probably others in your class U might like if U gave it some thought. Good luck!

Answer 7

You need to tell her. Because no matter how she responds, it is a vital time of growth for you. She is either going to feel the same, and not know how to tell you first, so she'll be relieved, or at worst, she doesn't feel the same. Things won't change, and it won't be the end of the world. You may feel bad at first, but then you'll realize how good it felt to get it off your chest. And if you don't tell her, chances are your heart is going to ache every time you see her with another guy.

Answer 8

Maybe you can try getting close to her like try taking her phone number and calling her sometime to chat... Be yourself, jst be the person u are deep down inside and talk to her a lot show her ur interested, ask her to dance at any party.. Be honest with her so she gets to trust u and make a move.. Like i said, talk to her, dance with her, sit with her at school and talk, ask for homework help ;), or offer to help... Do your thing! Try this for a little while and if shes going with it maybe you can ask her on a date or something..Dont sit and wait or u'll lose ur chance and ur gona regret it so much.. Make a move and quickly! Gd luuuck!! :)

Answer 9

The next time you start a conversation ask her if she wants to go see a movie with you. Tell her "we can get a few people together and after the movie we can all stop and get a pizza or something".
See if that works.

Answer 10

you should just catch her alone in the halls or something and ask if she wants to go to the movies or hang out on the weekend. or try asking for her number. call her and if the conversation goes well. casually ask what are you doing on friday or whatever and if she says nothing ask her out! hope this helps bud.