Family & Relationships - 27 October 2007

Alot of people keep calling my male friend a show off/flashy.
What do they do this?
He doesn't seem like a show off to me.

2007-10-27 15:41:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so here's the deal...my mother treats me like a little kid, and not in the way where she'll do everything for me, its like she wont let me out for anything, and if i want to go somewhere i have to beg her constantly until she says yes! i always ask her why and she says its because im lazy, and i ask her what does that have anything to do with it, and she says that until im not lazy i cant go out. i dont get it, my job is usually to clean the living room, i have it clean most of the time along with my own room, i do what she says but she always gets mad at me b/c when there are dirty dishes and stuff i just look at them and dont clean them..i tell her its not my job and she gets mad! And then she gets mad whenever i do clean up, she says that it upsets her whenever i clean up only because i want to go somewhere! shouldnt she be grateful anyways? i mean i understand raising me and three other kids by herself, but why doesnt she ever give me a break?

2007-10-27 15:40:44 · 6 answers · asked by Violet 2 in Family

well im in high skool im 14 and im dating this girl...she is also 14...we like each other a lot....she is on the goth side but not u no? anywho i was at her house with her slone and we where making out on her bed...so she tells me to close my eyes...so i do..she says open and she has this costume

http://www.halloweenexpress.com/fairylicious-graveyard-fairy-teen-adult-costume-p-2598.html

she said "if u really love me and want to keep makin out u will let me dress u up" so i let her....and it was ok.....she told me today she likes to dress guys up....and i really like her and i dont want to lose her..should i continue to let her?

2007-10-27 15:40:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it a turn off if you ask a girl what she likes to do when it comes to anything and she thinks for a while and then finally says "welll..i like math wayy more than history and english. math is so concrete its like you either get it right or you get it wrong its like a puzzle but then for english and history ill read it and then 5 minutes later ill forget all of it."

hes in his early 20s and im 18.

and if youre wondering why i gave such a random response, its because i couldve sworn that i talked about what i liked to do for fun earlier! but APParently, i guess he didnt get it!! and it hit me afterwards, after i already gave that weird math answer

2007-10-27 15:39:18 · 18 answers · asked by neffyiffy 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand what is happening to my life. Last month I got fired from my job, this month my car breaks down and every guy that I try to open my heart to, treats me like a hooker and treats me good one minute and like crap the next.

I'm such a good person, not a perfect person, but I don't deserve all of this, at all. I don't understand why this is happening to me. I have never met anyone that has had all of this happen to them in a matter of months. My rent is due in 9 days, I have no money at all, no job, bills up to the ceiling and my family has financial problems of their own and can't help me at this time. I've heard the phrase "Sorry, I'm broke", more times than I can count and I don't know what the hell to do. Then when you turn around and want to make some fast money, doing something dancing or something, people want to judge you for that too. I just can't seem to win in this life.

-Knowledge24

2007-10-27 15:38:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, she was the one who broke up without even saying so! Just left without a 'Bye!' Anyways, monthshave passed and she has a new boyfriend.

Doesnt bother me that much like when I first found out. Anyways, I emiled her saying how she was doing in school, and then she said this...

"Helloooo! How are you? Im doing good in school, only a bit stressed. Look at my pictures! I saw yours already ;) I hope we dont lose contact, Hug and a kiss "

Well, I saw her pictures and she was with her new boyfriend hugging and kissing. Well, first time I saw that, I was a bit angry, but I wrote back saying that the pictures are really good, that she knows how to take good pics.

After that, she writes back all serious, VERY serious. This last email i received from her, she asked me no question, just a 'Take care' to end the conversation.

Do I just brush her out of my life?
I wanted her as a friend, but her attitude is really B*tchy!

WWYD?

2007-10-27 15:32:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this an abusive relationship?


I've been with my husband for 4 years. I'm 27 and he is 60 and we have a 3 year old son. We fight almost everyday over anything, up to the point that if he cooks and I add something to the meal he'll get an attitude and make a big deal out of it. He's constantly telling me what to do or how to do everything, and every time I talk to him about any issue, personal or work-related, he expects me to do and say exactly what he wants me to say. He hates it when I speak my mind out, especially if it has something to do with him. He's hardly ever in a good mood and when he is, he is a good person, he looks like he really cares, but that only happens when I obey him and do what he wants me to do. I've noticed that he feels some type of satisfaction when he makes me cry... well, sometimes, because there's been a few times when he tells me I cry over anything, which is completely false. Even though I have a fulltime job and pretty much cover all of our living expenses, I am not free to invite any relatives or friends over to my house without his permission. He keeps me away from my family most of the time, maybe because he likes having total control over me? I am most of the time afraid of him and his reactions, which is why I am always sucking up to him or pretend to be happy when I'm not, 'cause otherwise it would be complete hell. On top of that, I hardly know his family and friends; I really feel he's ashamed of me because I'm overweight. Every time we visit his hometown he makes up excuses about he's friends and family being out of the country or so, not to mention he always walks away when he gets phone calls from his relatives just so I won't hear his conversations. I know that his son and daughters from his previous marriage hate me and don't like the idea that we have a son together, but if he really loved me the why he says, wouldn't he stand up to them? Especially if they haven't even met me or our son.

One of the reasons I'm still with him is my son. It might sound untrue, but he really is a good father. He takes care of my son when I'm at work and my son adores him. I've thought about leaving him sometimes but the truth is I don't my son to grow up without his father, just like I did. He often tells me that I'm crazy and that I'm the one with issues and I am starting to believe that I really am crazy. I often think that I deserve more than this, I've already been through many horrible things since my childhood and I wish with all my heart that someday I will really find happiness. I just don't want to wind up in a mental hospital or worse. Deep down inside I feel I still love him, but I am uncertain that he loves me, I just hope that with a little from his part, and maybe a miracle, this will work out. I maybe stuck with him until one of us dies, but I don’t want to live that way. I want to have a happy life together. Would it be possible that things will get better? Or am I drowning in a glass of water? I'm in desperate need of advice, I don't know what to do and I really don't have anyone to confide in. Please help.

2007-10-27 15:32:05 · 18 answers · asked by delkings 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Went to this party and saw this girl. She had to leave early, but waited for me to walk her out and kissed me on the cheek.

Do all girls kiss their friend on the cheek for good bye or may she like me?

2007-10-27 15:27:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last night my girlfriend went to sleep, and i text her on her phone saying, i miss you when ur not talking to me and when ur talking to me, u make me happy.. than this morning she text me back, she usually saids something sweet back or saids awww something... but she said, im sorry but i am geting too attach to u and i dont want to get hurt... than i ask her, are we breaking up and she said, yeah i think so... she said, shes afraid of slipping because some guys are hiting on her at work and she's been avoiding it, but she's starting to like the attention.. and she said, when she was lil she never got attention really. anyways, i thought i was geting played, what do u think?? was she playing a mind game with me???

2007-10-27 15:27:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not a big wedding person so I get bored fast, so I don't want to go by just me. Since marriage is a serious commitment and can be pretty costly, I don't want it to just be in an out but I don't want everyone getting bored wondering when its going to end. So as a guest how long would be too long for a wedding ceremony to last?

2007-10-27 15:26:51 · 25 answers · asked by Mekana 5 in Weddings

I like this boy who stares at me in class (I know this for sure because I moved seats, and he still stares at me). On AIM, he rarely starts the conversation. When he does, he doesn't say "Hi" he uses excuses like "How did you find the test" etc... He's not exactly a shy person though... Maybe a little nerdy... When I start the conversation, he tries his best to keep it going. He also recommended his favorite bands to me, and one time I asked him to help me with homework, and I said "but you don't have to" and he replied with "yes I do". lol
When we see eachother in the halls, he always smiles at me. He also teases me sometimes...

2007-10-27 15:25:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I sometimes see him on the staris but i dont say anything 2 him.

2007-10-27 15:25:37 · 9 answers · asked by theunknown 2 in Singles & Dating

after divorce proceedings has been completed. how long do the court gives for maintenance of ex-wife and child support

2007-10-27 15:25:32 · 10 answers · asked by tiger 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he calls me honey bun and i don't have a name for him.

2007-10-27 15:24:25 · 49 answers · asked by bluenecklace 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 15:24:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 15:24:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 15:23:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im confused

2007-10-27 15:21:53 · 6 answers · asked by nane 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres a girl I like, we sit behind each other in one of our classes and when ever we see each other in the hallway we glance at each other, but never talk. I've answered her questions in class but other than that we have not talked. She is a shy person, but if you get to know her she is not so shy. I need some help with how to go about talking to her. I think she wants to talk to me too but doesn't know what to do. Please help me, how can i start to communicate with her.

2007-10-27 15:21:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im really starting to like this one girl and i dont know if i should just let her know right away or wait and see if she shows signs that would help me out. What do you think the better option is and why?

2007-10-27 15:20:43 · 19 answers · asked by Jeff D 1 in Singles & Dating

MEN: If you were in a bar, out with the guys, etc., and you saw an attractive woman wearing something that appealed to you, say, fishnet stockings... Would you phone your wife or girlfriend and explain what you saw, how much that woman's stockings turn you on and ask her to wear the same thing when you arrived home? (In this scenario, the wife/girlfriend has had a very stressful day, she has received an insult that was particularly rude from a coworker; same day, she also almost quit her job, she's very stressed and overtired. In this scenario you are also aware of her very, very bad day. She very, very sweetly agrees to wear the blasted fishnets.) Would you have done this? Why or why not? Please be as expressive as you care to be.

2007-10-27 15:19:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

?_? and who invented the first naked girl?

2007-10-27 15:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by hekinsieden 3 in Singles & Dating

My Husband (then fiance) had an affair a few years ago, but then lied about it saying that he didnt. He finally fessed up to it about a year later, and we just started going to counseling to deal with it. My Husband refuses to talk to me after the counseling. I tried to talk to him today in a calm manner to discuss what we learned in counseling, and all he always does is run away from me. He literally runs out of the house and cuts me off midsentence just so he does not have to face the problem. I just dont know what to do anymore.

2007-10-27 15:16:23 · 40 answers · asked by eliza l 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how often do you spend time with your father

2007-10-27 15:15:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

1. "I'm going to fall in love with you" 2." you got me whipped"3.don't move i just want to hold you for a while" 4."I miss you and I can't stop thinking about you ".5. " I just want to please you".

2007-10-27 15:13:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17. Our 1 year anniversey is coming in December and I was thinking of letting him do it to me on that day. Would that be a sin? I'm confused If fingering would even be a sin. One thing is for sure. That we will NOT have sex until marrige so I dont need to worry about that.

2007-10-27 15:11:13 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife has a stronger sex drive than me- she seems to want sex every day- once every 2 weeks is enough for me, but could without it. Why risk having an unwanted pregnancy? I told her we should only have sex if and when we want to have kids-
Plus Im not interested in some of the perverted activities like giving or getting oral sex, and lay that law down, and she seems all bent out of shape..
I think she'd being really immature and selfish-How can i get her to tackle her sex drive? I suggested she go to therapy...any advice?

2007-10-27 15:10:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there was this really pretty girl in my class last year, and even though she was always looking at me and trying to sit net to me, i never really talked to her, well 2 weeks ago i met her at a party and got her number (she came up to me). i couldn't call her to give her my numbre inside cuz i didnt have service, so i called her like 3 hours later and she was like "kind of a late reaction", i dont know if that means anything, but anyways i called her the tuesday after to do something on that friday and she said she's busy the whole weekend because her friend from out of town is coming, and as soon as i called she said she was busy studying, so she couldn't talk, but she did say we should definately do something some weekend so what i want to know is do i still have a chance with this girl, and also when should i call her again? i'm thinking about asking her to do something for halloween on wednesday, any ideas?

2007-10-27 15:09:11 · 5 answers · asked by wafflehouse 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband has his own studio about 30 minutes from our house. He has been working nights and weekends lately because he is holding down two jobs. Decided to stop by one evening. The door was locked so I opened with my key. He was sitting on the sofa with a woman drinking liquor. She jumped up and left. I waited about 20 minutes, then took his phone and called her. She picked up the phone and said "What the _ ___ is going on!" He has also been talking to his ex-wife but lied about it. Saw the calls on the cellphone bill. How can I believe anything he says?

2007-10-27 15:08:16 · 43 answers · asked by Christine B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he and i have been divorced for a few yrs now and have tried to work things out but sex hasn't change as far as him wanting it all of the time....note : i have two children ...work a full time job have my own home that i've accomplished to get on my own as well as 3 vehicles..promotion at work , my life is non stop , dont' get me wrong we do the deed just not like he would want which would be all of the time ......he says that he cant' help it , runs in the family and in the bible it states that no wife should deny her husband of sex ...? told me last night that other girls are attracted to him ? ok soo........... am i missing somthing here ,,,,,,i do totally understand that we all have some sort of needs whether it be emotional , spiritual or sexual but when is enough enough , is he asking for too much out of me ?

2007-10-27 15:06:59 · 8 answers · asked by hotrodgirl 1 in Singles & Dating