I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17. Our 1 year anniversey is coming in December and I was thinking of letting him do it to me on that day. Would that be a sin? I'm confused If fingering would even be a sin. One thing is for sure. That we will NOT have sex until marrige so I dont need to worry about that.
2007-10-27 15:11:13 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not masterbasion. I dont do that its letting my boyfriend do it to me. Its all for love never for pleasure.
2007-10-27 15:16:04 · update #1
When I say 'do it' I mean make me orgasim by fingering me. NOT by sex. Not before marrige.
2007-10-27 15:17:21 · update #2
I DO read my bible. I just dont know what is conserdered a sin in the sexual sense
2007-10-27 15:19:21 · update #3
I'm pretty sure masterbation is a sin if you happen to be Catholic.
2007-10-27 15:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any sort of self-pleasuring or pleasuring in those areas are highly frowned upon in the catholic church dear. Sounds like your not too sure about your own religion/faith if you can't answer this question on your own. It's more than just sex before marriage. Letting anyone touch you that isn't married to you is considered a sin dear. Now go read your bible because obviously you don;t
2007-10-27 15:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion No
I was raised catholic and know the doctrine, however I might interpret differently then many conservatives catholics.
I believe that like you said God only wanted us to save our virginity for marriage. All the other stuff in a way is stopping you from losing your virginity so you should be able to do it.
2007-10-27 15:16:48 · answer #3 · answered by Justin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure any type of sexual act is considered a sin before you are married.
2007-10-27 15:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by iceprincess_12_04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you start down the slippery slope, it's hard to stop.
A sin is doing something your conscience says is wrong.
For Catholics, misusing sexuality outside marriage is wrong.
2007-10-27 15:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is a natural process of the body and how are you going to be able to tell the person you are sleeping with what you like if you dont even know and i'm catholic too and i slept with my husband ( i actually lost my virginity to him) before we got married
2007-10-27 15:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by banuelos-m@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all sinful, thats why its fun. Dont let religion dictate what you and your boyfriend decide to do behind closed doors. You wont go to hell. Just dont murder or rape or steal and you'll be fine.
2007-10-27 15:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Veronica The Great! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a little young to have sex. As for a sin, you could talk to God and ask him to forgive you for doing it. He will, he loves you. :)
2007-10-27 16:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kitana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its a sin, you are looking to get sexual pleasure right? thats a sin.
2007-10-27 15:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be honest I do not think you should have sex, One, b/c you said you are going to let him "do you" Also 2, b/c it sounds like you are not ready for sex yet....
2007-10-27 15:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by lynnn30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋