Family & Relationships - 27 October 2007

the minute he is left alone for any reason or any length of time he masterbates,i mean its not like he is not getting anything from me,he tells me he is more than happy with our sex life but why does he have to do this everytime i turn my back,or leave the house for a few hours?

im not joking he does this EVERYTIME he is alone,its the first thing he thinks of once i leave the house.

2007-10-27 17:57:59 · 38 answers · asked by Sexy_mum24 5 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14, and im attracted to older men with long hair, tight jeans and tattoos. when i see one i get so horny and i just stare at them. my friends tell me im crazy but i dont care. the upsetting thing is id rather a guy who is like 40 years old then a nice 15 yr old. and even though i know it woudl be wrong if a dated someone that age, i still want to, i get upset because the only type of guy i want i cant have. what do i do???????????????

2007-10-27 17:56:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let me start off by saying that i'm 22 married and have a 5 month old baby.(i moved in with my parents to help take care of my mom who just passed away October 6th of this year)

Ok so i found my dads stash of weed (which i knew he did already no big deal to me) but i also so a baggy that had syringes, cotton swabs, and a spoon in it. but nothing else so i was thinking maybe he is shooting up...but then today i went and checked again and there was a rubber glove with little bags of white powder in each finger. so now i don't know if he is shooting up or doing coke...both bad i know. but i'm not sure if he is even doing them at all...he might be sealing it...doubtful but maybe. so i don't know if i should move out or what...i'm so confused! please someone help me!

2007-10-27 17:54:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm going to go straight to the point.
I was going through my husband's phone ( I was very bored).
& I found a naked picture of a model.
Then i browsed through his pictures, & there was 2 pictures of naked girls, The thing is, it looked like he had taken them from the computer because little lines appeared.Meaning, that he was looking at them online.& took pictures of the naked girls.
After i seen them, i did not mention them.
I feel very different towards him, In a way like he betrayed me.I kinda of feel hate towards him.
Please feel free to give your opinion/advice.Thank you in advance.

2007-10-27 17:52:46 · 36 answers · asked by BB 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do I only attract ugly men?I've only ever attract three guys in my whole life!They have all been short and ugly and have horrible,boring personality's.Now I don't want to be shallow...but I have to have SOME standards...I'm not talking Brad Pitt just something I find attractive in them!
Why don't I attract good looking/okay looking people?!
I'm 16 years old and really shy(which might be part of the problem).
I don't think I look beautiful(pics on myspace) but I don't think I look so awful that I should lower myself to that standard!
PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-10-27 17:50:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I don't do what my husband wants, he confronts me about it everyday until I give in. This is about basically everything- sex, money, health issues, friends, and family.

For example:
He bullied me onto getting off of a medication and when I realized I really did need this medication, he refused to support me taking it. He mentally abused me everyday about it. Saying how "bad" it was and that I was a drug abuser. This was a doctor prescribed medication that I was taking as directed.

He has refused to let me be on his bank account, saying that he feels nervous letting me have access to his money. I have never indicated or done anything that would make him feel that way.

He has even raped me when I refused sex.

I'm not saying I've never done anything wrong in the relationship, but I'm being treated like I'm his possesion to control.

Is he controlling or is it just me? He seems to change for a short period of time only when I threaten to leave. He never changes tho

2007-10-27 17:47:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hes a drugie he hits her hese even hit me but im scared that if i call the cops on him shell hate me forever!
what should i do?

2007-10-27 17:45:00 · 3 answers · asked by Taylor c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 17:43:07 · 3 answers · asked by Emily O 1 in Family

I was sitting in the bleachers today watching a volley ball game when this REALLY HOT senior girl came and sat down behind me. She is really big (Tall and skinny) and her legs kept bumping into my back.

After a while, she leaned foreward, tapped me on the shoulder and said I could lean back on her legs if I wanted. After that, she spread her legs apart, and like put her legs around my arms, so that I was leaning back on her . . .

Then, she kicked off her slipper shoe things, and put her socked feet up ontop of my knees, and like gently squeezed my head between her knees.

After that, she "accidently" kept running her fingers through my hair, and kept "accidently" rubbing my back . . .

It's really confusing because I'm just a freshmen and she's a senior, but do you guys have ANY idea on what she's thinking?

I would LOVE to be her boyfriend, but I really don't know what to do here . . . It's kinda confusing. . . .

2007-10-27 17:41:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister in law and my bro n law got married at 14 and 15 they been together for 13 years she wants to know yalls opinion

2007-10-27 17:40:01 · 60 answers · asked by THE BOSS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so this guy i happen to like stayed with me after school yesterday because my mom was running late and he called his dad to come in later as to not leave me alone at school, (idk if its because he likes me or was being one great friend) but anyways, we were talking and then he wanted to sit on my lap and i was like, ehh why not. but then he like started to move his as* like in circular motions then like dragging it up and down (pretty much grinding if you ask me) haha, ok yeah i REALLY liked it. you think its wrong i enjoyed it???

2007-10-27 17:39:47 · 14 answers · asked by You Don't Know Me™ 4 in Singles & Dating

i recently decided to go off the pill don't want added hormones in my body , i am in a 5 year seroius relationship i was on the pill for 4 1/2 years we started using condoms but using condoms seems wierd to me like i am a whor* , i guess what i mean is i feel condoms are for one night stands and not serious relationships anyone feel the same

2007-10-27 17:38:21 · 24 answers · asked by just me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-27 17:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What signs should a girl give to her husband on their first night?

2007-10-27 17:32:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so there is this guy who likes me and i like him. but we haven't started dating yet and we've liked each other forever. he is transfering schools but he will still be close. from what i here from his friends he talks about me all the time. should i just ask him out or continue waiting to see if he'll ask me out?

2007-10-27 17:31:08 · 15 answers · asked by bubbles2213 1 in Singles & Dating

My daugther's birthday was on October 24 and I totally forgot about it, I remembered it three days later and I cried when I called her to tell her so. She lives with her mom and I work 6 days a week, most of my time is consumed by my work but I love my daugther very much and I would like to make it up to her.What do you people recommend?

2007-10-27 17:30:29 · 9 answers · asked by C. J 2 in Family

My best guy friend insists on watching a scary movie over any other type. He knows that I am easily scared and keeps asking me when I want to see one and if I get scared (even tho he already knows the answer). Is it possible that he wants to cuddle with me? Or does he just like scary movies? He has told me that he doesn't like me but this and other things lead me to sometimes think otherwise. He has slapped my butt multiple times but isn't really physical with me besides that.

2007-10-27 17:30:11 · 4 answers · asked by the mentalist 4 in Singles & Dating

A guy with a beard?
Arguments for and against please.

2007-10-27 17:29:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, this happened really fast(i'm really surpised), their saying that she's probably going to go to the sioux falls mental hospital. Does anybody know about it? Their saying me and my girlfriend should go and stay in sioux falls until she get's admissioned out. But yea, if anybody knows about this hospital, please tell me.

2007-10-27 17:26:03 · 2 answers · asked by Eric W 1 in Family

Mine would miss the spicy omelette I make for him every Saturday morning. He would also miss the back rubs. 10 points for the person who has the most rare and funny answer.

2007-10-27 17:24:18 · 40 answers · asked by Hysteria 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If its not for another friend, its for her boyfriend. I know hes more important right now, but she always cancels our plans and its starting to get rediculous. Im not going to go into mass detail but it always ends up being me, left out again. I know that she isnt trying to but it feels like she is. Our school soccer team got to state, and she didnt want to go. I decided id stay with her instead of go. Then the day before the game she called me at 10;30 saying she had other plans. I just dont no if her friendship is worth it anymore. Anyones advise is needed......

2007-10-27 17:23:21 · 8 answers · asked by CSWS♥ 2 in Friends

I really am mad tonight because I found out my husband has been talking to his ex who he cheated on me with a few years back. To him it is no big deal because they have a child together and I should just get over it. But, to me it is serious!! She calls him only on his mobile, never at home, and only when he is at work. I have asked him several times that if she wants to call and it is innocent, and only about their son she should call the house and he should tell her that he is married and that it causes problems for her to call him any other way. This has been an ongoing problem for a while now. What should my next move be?

2007-10-27 17:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by 2sweet 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is there any way to find out, before you are served with divorce papers, that someone has filed ?? how can you find out ? and also, if they file first and you have a small child together, are they able to get whatever they want since they filed first ? what do you do ? just get an attorney and file against them ? if you want sole custody, not joint, how can you get that and them only get visitation?? the reason i ask is because my sister is going thru this right now. she has a son less than 2 and her husband is jealous of her relationship w/the child and resents the baby for coming between them. he thinks she gives the baby more attention so he told her he'd divorce her if she didnt start sending the baby away to someone elses house because he got tired of him being around. of course she chose the baby and he told her to leave and he'd even help her pack. she's been at my parents the past week and he hasnt been to see the baby or call to check on him in 3 days.

2007-10-27 17:22:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if a girl treats a guy shitty and ignores him.
does it make him like her?

2007-10-27 17:21:22 · 12 answers · asked by Jack D 1 in Singles & Dating

We only dated 2 months over the summer, and it ended because I suffocated the relationship when she left for college because I was scared of her finding someone else. But now it's been over a month and she still the only girl I think about. I wake up in the morning and think about her lying next to me, and go to sleep at night thinking about the same thing. It's the only thing that gets me out of bed and to sleep. There are some days that aren't that bad, but then then there will be days when she is all I think about and it's just like it was the day after we broke up. Why can't I just move on? Is there anything I can do to get over her (besides giving it time)?

2007-10-27 17:18:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 17:18:26 · 17 answers · asked by William M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

his gf lives like 15 mins away from where we go to school (she does not go to our school). she came to a party at our school with a friend of hers and i saw the two of them talking. what are the chances of them getting back together? they have been broken up at least a few weeks now.

2007-10-27 17:18:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that im quiet and shy to people I dont know, which is part of it, but no one ever tries to talk to me or start a conversation. Even when Im with my friends at a football game or something (Im in high school), I can walk away for 15 mins with out anyone noticing. Its not like Im hideous either, so why am i so invisible?

2007-10-27 17:17:19 · 7 answers · asked by Vballer 2 in Friends

2007-10-27 17:13:42 · 26 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We're both 17 and been dating for 2 months. We were watching a movie at one point she laid down, and her feet were near me. I started massaging them and she said it felt good. Do women like this, or was she just saying that to be nice.

2007-10-27 17:11:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating