Family & Relationships - 27 October 2007

I got back with my boyfriend after a 2 month break up. He actually wanted to try again and start slow. Everything seems to be fine but a major detail is bothering me. He says he isn't at the same level as me. He feels that I am couple steps ahead of me. He isn't head over heels about me as he was before. It seems like I'm that way now. How do i get him to love me again like he used to? He says hes working on it, but how can I speed it up? Should I play hard to get? Should I not call and let him call me and make plans? Please help me because I really like him.

2007-10-27 17:10:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, well I've always had this problem where most of my friends thing I'm dumb. It's really annoying because if they say something its funny or okay or just oh we all have those moments kind of thing. But when I say something people are like wow, your dumb... or your stupid like seriously your retarded. My best friend will do that to me and it's embarressing when she does it infront of people for just a minor example: the other day in class this boy thats actually kind of cute was saying something and he was lipping it and i was just liek whaat? I really didnt know what he was saying anyone wouldn't he wasnt making sense and my bestfriend was watching obviously knew what he was saying and was like omg! shes SO retarded, like seriously! and not only is she my best friend doing this to me its embarressing cause I make better grades then everyone who laughed at it when she said it. and i dont want to fight with them over somehting like that its just I can only take it for so long.

2007-10-27 17:08:39 · 7 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Friends

Why do guys cheat when they are in a relationship with a woman who gives them sex 3-4 times a day, oral sex without asking for it, rub and massage their feet and back, cooks, cleans, doesn't nag, is pretty, works-out and everything else? What is the woman lacking for him to have to mess around with other women? Does the penis really have a mind of its own? (Yeah right).
Why Do Men Cheat?

2007-10-27 17:03:48 · 24 answers · asked by Cee Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

other than just the record with the government?

2007-10-27 17:02:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so we were at a party. This is the thing, we've been going out for 7 months and we love eachother with all our hearts. We were sitting down,taking pictures,hugging and kissing eachother,being cute basically. Showing off everyone that we're eachothers. A reggaeton song then went on and her friend her friend who she used to like asked her to dance. You GRIND to reggaeton songs. I got really jealous,but i didnt show it. so she asked her,and i didnt say anything. I guess she knew i'd get mad,so she got mad herself.The thing is,she promised and SWORED on her life/god and shes (really religious) she'd only dance with me. And i got really jealous. But she yelled at me publicly for being over protective. I felt like ****,everyone stared in awe. i felt betrayed/disrespected,i just wanted to show people how much I love her. I guess i was wrong,but was i REALLY wrong for being like that?And to top it off,i yelled at her loudly for yelling at me publicly and breaking her promise i wanna dieHELP

2007-10-27 17:01:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, I like this guy. He's my best guy friend and that's making me not want to say anything. Well, I'm really comfused on how he sees me. First, I think he just wants to be friends. You know, ha ha! Yeah, we're friends! But then, I think he likes me, 'cuz he got all nervouse around me. He gave me a 'thank you' hug. You know. THen I think he just wants to be friends again. Oh yeah! Haha! Then I think he likes me, 'cuz he's all shy and stuff. THEN, just today, at my Halloween party, he kinda ignores me sorta, witch hurt and made me think something was wrong. Also, for a wile now he's been all shy with me around people and then gets more relaxed when we're alone, and there was no being alone at this party (which i hated!). Well, boys, I'm comfused on his feelings for me. Friend, crush, acward to be around person? Help! I'm just really freaking out!

2007-10-27 16:57:55 · 1 answers · asked by TimeSpaceWitch 3 in Singles & Dating

the future and dreams that you once were headed towards?

2007-10-27 16:57:43 · 15 answers · asked by greenwich 4 in Marriage & Divorce

First, I'm an adult and I think maybe I'm too old to be thinking like this, somehow this question seems shallow in some respect, but I need other opinions.

Why can't I find someone (a boyfriend) like me? I dunno, I never felt like I ever fit in much.

This is me: I always find out guys like me when it's too late... after months have passed and they are going out with someone else. I get kinda shy, I find it really hard to emotionally connect with people on a romantic level. I guess it makes me seem inapproachable. Sometimes people mistake my shyness or quiteness for conceit. People tell me I'm pretty, but I don't know, I really don't see myself that way, I'm just normal. I'm a light-skinned black woman, I love science & math, I'm a Biology major. I listen to all kinds of music from mostly rock, but also classical, R&B, even some country. I love animals, as one can tell from my dogs, ferret, and snakes (yes snakes, just 2 small ones).

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2007-10-27 16:53:35 · 14 answers · asked by Princess Leia 6 in Singles & Dating

I am going to WA for my brothers wedding in a couple of weeks. I have had no relationship with my dad for 15 years due to choices he made when he met his new wife. They have two children which I have never met (only had a few dealings with them when they were babies) in which one of them is going to the wedding as well (she is now 18). I have four children of my own which my dad has obviously not met and I am not quite sure how to deal with all this. It is only me going over for the wedding and I made the decision to go knowing both my mum and dad will be there. Just interested in peoples views on this and if you think it is wrong if I just treat him more as an aquantence rather then my dad.

2007-10-27 16:52:46 · 12 answers · asked by tneishat 2 in Weddings

2007-10-27 16:52:25 · 1 answers · asked by Tierra T 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend met a man on here thru myspace and been talking to him for about 5 months and he had invited her to go to the Bahamas to enjoy and new place for 2 weeks.

2007-10-27 16:50:56 · 13 answers · asked by hillbillytweetheart 2 in Singles & Dating

I got flowers today. It wasn't my birthday or any other special day. We had our first argument last night. He said a lot of really cruel things that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today. It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day. Last night he threw me into a wall and started to choke me. It seemed like a nightmare. I couldn't believe it was real. I woke up this morning sore & bruised all over.I know he must be sorry because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today and it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day. Last night he beat me again. It was much worse than all the other times. If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids? What about money? I'm afraid of him & scared to leave. But I know he must be sorry because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today. Today was a very special day. It was the day of my funeral. Last night he finally killed me

2007-10-27 16:50:34 · 14 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-27 16:46:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(I want a long long answer)

2007-10-27 16:44:32 · 6 answers · asked by ana_renzel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 16:43:27 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 16:40:06 · 6 answers · asked by BeLLa 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

shes approx 36 years old,graduated from red bank h.s.. she lived in union beach,n.j. she is a long lost friend. ive tried myspace,facebook.i even tried calling 411.her parents, eileen and peter are not listed.my goodness,its fustrating.if this sounds freaky,my name is brian hickman.shell know who i am

2007-10-27 16:38:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There's this guy who's path and mine cross every couple weeks at work, but he's about 14 years older than me (I'm 25, 26 in Feb. and he turned 39 at the beginning of Oct). He's really cute, and we have some things in common. I'm almost positive he's single (no wedding band, no girlfriend mentioned on his myspace or facebook, no pictures in wallet or on his desk, secretary is a friend of mine and says she doesnt know about any girlfriends currently). I've only seen him thrice around our building, so I really haven't gotten a good chance to talk with him aside from work-related stuff. Oh, and our employer has no rules against employees dating, and we work in completely different departments, so I don't think it would interfere. I need help on tips for finding out if he likes me, whether or not i should let him know I like him, if i should send him a friend request on myspace, and what steps to take to start a friendship and possibly more... thanks in advance for all your suggestions!

2007-10-27 16:38:21 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

Check there email constantly hoping for a reply ? like not ALL day but often?
I feel weird doing it alot but i cant help it
does any one else

2007-10-27 16:37:28 · 8 answers · asked by Delena J 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 16:36:37 · 6 answers · asked by Zack G 2 in Singles & Dating

aman was staying in rajpura nw he has moved to some other place and i want to find out tht place and his cell no..can u pls let me know if poss.?

2007-10-27 16:36:19 · 4 answers · asked by RUBY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-27 16:33:40 · 14 answers · asked by Bratty T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who is in desperate need of an answer. She is confused about ending her marriage, her husband has been physically abusive to her in the past. They have 2 young children. Her husband is very jealous and selfish. She recently became involved with someone else because he gives her that emotional and physical connection her husband was and is incapable of doing. In order for her to decide one way or the other, do you think she needs to tell her husband?

2007-10-27 16:33:05 · 16 answers · asked by Ali Cat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay there is a boy in my class who likes me but i sort of dont like him and i want to lead him on and be nice and so on
he is in all my classes but 1 and he is in debate with me. p.s he likes me cause i am sweet funny and smart. so how can i make him like me more and lead him on ( nothing gross please)

2007-10-27 16:33:04 · 22 answers · asked by haheha! 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you be willing to have love over money? Education, career, family, friends..ect.? and why?

2007-10-27 16:32:02 · 5 answers · asked by BeLLa 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

if your mother cheated and your dad is very sick. what would you do? say? please advise me!!!

2007-10-27 16:28:47 · 12 answers · asked by dmx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

some one help me out

2007-10-27 16:28:06 · 25 answers · asked by jackieface33 1 in Singles & Dating

are guys just as nervous as girls when they have a crush? what is going through their heads when they see a girl they like? do they just focus on look or do personalities matter...do they talk to their friends about the girl they like a lot? i am so curious cuz i am so confused right now over this guy i like....he says he wants a relationship but he wants for us to get to no eachother better first so he has no regrets and to a relationship is successful...he is the most amazing guy ever and i am willing to wait a while i just do not no how long to wait before i give up hope....

2007-10-27 16:26:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mk well I'm 15 and I just stared going out with this boy well we've been dating for like 18 or 19 days but anyway I really wanna make out with him but I don't know how to we've kissed before but it was like a one second peck.and I know he wonts to make out cause he like tells all his close friends he wants to make out with me and then they came and told me but I dont wanna kiss him if I dont no how cause I no he no's how to kiss trust me I can just tell he's had way more experence then me but if you have eny advice at all please give it to me thanks.....

2007-10-27 16:26:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and he never calls,or never says anything like he want me to come back or nothing,forgot to mention the fact that we have 2 kids besides the one in my tummy what do you think of that.

2007-10-27 16:23:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships