Ok so we were at a party. This is the thing, we've been going out for 7 months and we love eachother with all our hearts. We were sitting down,taking pictures,hugging and kissing eachother,being cute basically. Showing off everyone that we're eachothers. A reggaeton song then went on and her friend her friend who she used to like asked her to dance. You GRIND to reggaeton songs. I got really jealous,but i didnt show it. so she asked her,and i didnt say anything. I guess she knew i'd get mad,so she got mad herself.The thing is,she promised and SWORED on her life/god and shes (really religious) she'd only dance with me. And i got really jealous. But she yelled at me publicly for being over protective. I felt like ****,everyone stared in awe. i felt betrayed/disrespected,i just wanted to show people how much I love her. I guess i was wrong,but was i REALLY wrong for being like that?And to top it off,i yelled at her loudly for yelling at me publicly and breaking her promise i wanna dieHELP
2007-10-27 17:01:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was a guy she was gonna dance with,sorry for the confusion
2007-10-27 17:19:17 · update #1
She obviously just got "caught up" in the party atmosphere. That is what a "party" by the way.
You are both very young and things like this will happen. She did not do anything "wrong" really. She neglected her promise to you, that was a promise she should not have made in the first place but having made it she should not have put you on the "spot" that way.
That guy she was "grooving with" no doubt envies you. He knew she was there with someone. They were just having fun.
Instead of feeling bad about it....you might have smiled to yourself "yeah dude.....that sweet little thing is going home with me....that is MY baby...ain't she something?"
2007-10-27 17:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by Chaz 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Girlfriend Dances With Other Guys
2017-01-17 17:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right about getting mad! Would she get mad if you made a promise to her and then break it in front of her face? To top it off, bump and grind and to a stupid beat like reggeton!
But lets face it, guys will always get jealous over every thing, try to ignore it and and make fun of the moments you have with her.
2007-10-27 17:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny Lovegood 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 22:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a dance even though reggaeton is close (real close)...its 2007 almost 2008
but dat part on yelling at you publicly ...Sh*t ,(i dont know bout dat)
if it doesnt work out well dont worry
"theres many fish in the sea"
good luck
2007-10-28 08:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OKay so she promised...But you gotta give the girl some freedom. You said you love each other with all your hearts. So you know she's yours. Give the girl some space. Apologize for being overprotective and yelling at her.
The girl needs to breath!
2007-10-27 17:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're suffocating her. I absolutely cannot stand when the guy I'm with thinks he has the right to tell me who I can and cannot be friends with. And even though you haven't come right out and told her that, by the way you acted that night, you might as well have said it.
Being nice to him doesn't mean she wants anything to do with him relationship-wise. C'mon, they were DANCING. Would you want her getting all in a fuss because you danced with another girl that was a friend? Of course not.
2007-10-27 17:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
7 months and in love mmm, not good dude. Saty with her and have fun, forget about love now it will come later.
2007-10-27 17:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by tom p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dancing with another guy isn't gonna kill your relationship. Just be cool next time and say "yea, sure you can dance with him, but next one is with me *wink wink*"
2007-10-27 17:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by *This is how i disappear* 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋