I got back with my boyfriend after a 2 month break up. He actually wanted to try again and start slow. Everything seems to be fine but a major detail is bothering me. He says he isn't at the same level as me. He feels that I am couple steps ahead of me. He isn't head over heels about me as he was before. It seems like I'm that way now. How do i get him to love me again like he used to? He says hes working on it, but how can I speed it up? Should I play hard to get? Should I not call and let him call me and make plans? Please help me because I really like him.
2007-10-27 17:10:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's the easiest way to make someone love you?
Be their Best Friend. Do things that are fun together - don't concentrate on making a relationship. Do things that you both like so you can genuinely have fun. Having a girl smiling at you while you're having fun is very alluring.
2007-10-27 17:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by michael_white2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks as if she has misplaced interest in you. If she was still interested, she'd be supplying you with lengthy answers and contacting you again. I suppose this girl has changed her mind about you. What will have to you do? Ignore her for a little whilst. After a couple of days, textual content her again and ask her to satisfy you at someplace (make it casuel and simple... Some thing like: "whats up, wanna go see the good film over their? There's a giant-sized popcorn with your identify on it!" it is no stress and tough to assert no too, so you'll discover for sure.
2016-08-05 22:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by gonser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2. Date multiple guys, even if most are just friendly-dates.
3. Dating multiple will take the hunger off from this guy in question.
4. Now is the time when you require a guy who worships you, not the other way round !
2007-10-27 17:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is taking you for granted. Apparently, he doesn't want to be back in this arena, though he says he does. He's been here before: he should know what you expect from him and if he can't give it, he's got to go. Don't change for him. Let him change.
2007-10-27 17:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by WonderGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is uneasy about the new relationship, let him go at his own pace. playing games isnt a way to begin a relationship. reassure him that you are on his level and that you like him because he's him.
2007-10-27 17:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by meagan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him --- he is not truly looking to get back with you --- if he was he would not have taken a "break" then he would not be spouting this rubbish --- if he wants to be with you he wants to be with you unconditionally anything else is an excuse to break up sooner rather than later ---- sorry and best wishes
2007-10-27 17:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO not Play games!!! seriously.....love isn't a game .....let him work at his own pace.....you wouldn't like it if someone was doing it to you ...have some consideration....
2007-10-27 17:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mr BoBo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time. there really isnt anything you can do but hope for the best. absense makes the heart grow fonder.
2007-10-27 17:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by emilia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time and don't try to control him. He'll come around if it's meant to be!
2007-10-27 17:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your time..get over him and move on
2007-10-27 17:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by I'm afraid of Virginia Woolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋