okay there is a boy in my class who likes me but i sort of dont like him and i want to lead him on and be nice and so on
he is in all my classes but 1 and he is in debate with me. p.s he likes me cause i am sweet funny and smart. so how can i make him like me more and lead him on ( nothing gross please)
2007-10-27 16:33:04 · 22 answers · asked by haheha! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to lead him on like what u guys think i like him but i want to know like what i should do!
2007-10-27 16:44:53 · update #1
Why would you want to lead him on?
Better idea: Flirt with someone you're actually into!
2007-10-27 16:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to lead him on if you don't really like him? Do you know what you are getting into?
If you are so nice and sweet and smart, you would realize that leading someone on for your own pleasure and gain is stupid and cruel.
This person has feelings and what you do and say could affect them for the rest of their lives. You may not realize that now b/c you r so young, but 10-15 years from now, you will be in the same situation and someone will hurt you the way you are hurting this person. It is called Karma. It's a *****.
Stop and think of what you are doing to people b/f you do it.
2007-10-27 23:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by borntobehermommy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it's a DUMB quest!!! Why on EARTH would you want to lead a guy on if you "sort of don't like him"...are you supposedly going to decide later on whether or not you like him? How incredibly shallow!
Trust me on this...you aren't funny or smart. Anybody who wants to lead another person on is just mean-spirited and cruel-intentioned.
I think you need to leave him alone and focus on somebody you actually LIKE...and, hon, trust me...NObody likes to be "lead on"...honestly.
2007-10-27 23:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK - you don't like him but you want to "lead him on"? that isn't "sweet, funny or smart". If you want to date him just ask him for coffee but don't be a phony so he can help you then you dump him. It is never a good idea to lead someone on - you can both get really hurt.
2007-10-27 23:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be that girl who leads guys on?
thats probably the worst thing you could do
cuz then you sould get a reputation for being a big tease or a flirt
think how u would feel if some guy that u liked did that to you
if sum1 lead me on..i would feel like **** !
i also refuse to help you hurt someone
thats just wrong
plz think about what you do
2007-10-27 23:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by Geena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, why do you want to lead him on if you dont really like him?? in this day and age with violence in the schools, this could escalate into something ugly, or just hurt this guy more then you would ever know. tell him you arent interested but just be his friend. you both will feel better in the end.
2007-10-27 23:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by 3sa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're so smart, then why are you trying to lead on a guy that you don't even like? Doesn't sound smart to me. Stop being immature.
2007-10-27 23:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, yes, this is a dumb question. I am not going to tell you how to hurt someone else, just because you can. Dont you have anything better to do than to try to personally gain by others pain?
2007-10-27 23:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't like him but you want to lead him on?
In other words hurt him. You need to grow up that is just plain rude and wrong.
2007-10-27 23:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is mean to lead people on. Someday someone will do that to you and you will be badly hurt. You say you are sweet, but you aren't.
2007-10-27 23:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋