Why do guys cheat when they are in a relationship with a woman who gives them sex 3-4 times a day, oral sex without asking for it, rub and massage their feet and back, cooks, cleans, doesn't nag, is pretty, works-out and everything else? What is the woman lacking for him to have to mess around with other women? Does the penis really have a mind of its own? (Yeah right).
Why Do Men Cheat?
2007-10-27 17:03:48 · 24 answers · asked by Cee Jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not you, its him. this particular guy is a dog who sees women only as conquests.
chin up tho. all men aren't like that. the trouble is, guys like him get around and ruin it for the actual nice guys.
2007-10-27 17:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by wilrycar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lady, if I have found a woman just like you just describe there is no way I will cheat on her!!! sex 3-4 times a day (sweet)!!! that is a gold mine itself and the oral is icing on the cake...but i am sure it will cut back as time goes along that is a given.
Why do guys cheat there are so many reason why, for some of them they think a lady man they have to sample every woman who look hot and sexy to them, don't appreciate a good woman they have, some wants to compare with the one they have at home (sexually), and see if they can do it without getting caught. Sometimes guys cheats because the woman nag alot, cut back on how often they have sex, don't want to try something different (oral sex, different position, and different location), some women just let themselves go (physical and looks). And no, penis doesn't have a mind of it own! that is cute...lol...again its depend on the guy and there are many reasons as well.
2007-10-28 00:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? I think it happens when there are troubles in the relationship, regardless of how much sex they are or aren't getting. If the guy was emotionally happy he wouldn't be cheating. It doesn't matter how "perfect" she is. Matter of fact, it may be that the girl you descibe sounds like more of a doormat than a girlfriend.
Now this is not to say that it's the woman's fault that he cheated. The decision for that is still his & it's a cowardly one at that. If he was not happy in his current relationship he should have tried to work on it instead of cheating. I don't believe that it's a "penis has a mind of it's own" crap. It's still a concious decision. I've been tempted before, but I've never cheated.
You also seem to be generalizing that it's only men that cheat. Women cheat just as often.
2007-10-28 00:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say I have never cheated:) but can give you some good info. Women cheat when they are missing or not getting something from a relationship. Men can have everything, just like you stated. A great looking woman, everything; and STILL cheat! Guys just cheat to cheat, it's all about command and conquer. Sorry to say, but there are men out there that do not cheat, keep looking!!!!!!
2007-10-28 00:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by skurby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm tired of the guy stereotype that most men cheat. I think its about even. In the past 5 years Ive heard more about women cheating then men.
To answer your question. Because some people are never satisfied..
2007-10-28 00:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Iono, u def are a good gf...lol...it depends on the context of the cheating...is it just physical? seems like probably not since ur giving him mad action...so that means it at least a little emotional, so that means you got to figure out what what/why that is. is he enjoying seducing another girl? is he falling for another girl? is looking for some excitement, the kind you get when the relationship is just starting? maybe he thinks you're cheating? maybe he just thought he could get away with it. maybe he was just drunk....so many potential 'reasons'...lots of which girls have too.
Some men cheat because they cheat, that's it. when they claim they are happy bc 1) they really are happy (but horny) or 2) they think they happy but clearly aren't satified with the relationship 3) aren't happy and are lying because they do care for you and are confused.
2007-10-28 00:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's cause they love the chase. They always want a new girl. It's not you. Real men know what's good for them. But lot's of them want a woman at home catering to there every need and then they have to go find someone else too. It's nasty how they can be so selfish. For all the real men here speaking up, thanx for being real men.
2007-10-28 00:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by Honey Bunny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The same or similar reason women do on the down low.Let the record show some women believe they are more crafty.It all boils down to being honest with one another.A honest person would not cheat despite temptation.
2007-10-28 00:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by yp_will_chicago_369 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you give it up to easily. He knows that he can get it any time. Hold out and he might find you more desirable. Men cheat because of the challenge. He already has you but the girl next door he doesnt. So lets see if he can get her.
2007-10-28 01:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by pumper 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there are some things that just cannot be explained and one of them is the reason why guys cheat.some guys cheat because they have no regard for their women while some cheat because they need someone else to give them what their women dont give them
2007-10-28 00:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your guy had it going good for him? I wish I could get my wife to be interested in having sex 4 times a month! I think this guy just was not commited to you. But there are guys who will stay commited in a relationship. Good luck in the future :)
2007-10-28 00:08:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋