help! i'm comfused!?

Question

okay, I like this guy. He's my best guy friend and that's making me not want to say anything. Well, I'm really comfused on how he sees me. First, I think he just wants to be friends. You know, ha ha! Yeah, we're friends! But then, I think he likes me, 'cuz he got all nervouse around me. He gave me a 'thank you' hug. You know. THen I think he just wants to be friends again. Oh yeah! Haha! Then I think he likes me, 'cuz he's all shy and stuff. THEN, just today, at my Halloween party, he kinda ignores me sorta, witch hurt and made me think something was wrong. Also, for a wile now he's been all shy with me around people and then gets more relaxed when we're alone, and there was no being alone at this party (which i hated!). Well, boys, I'm comfused on his feelings for me. Friend, crush, acward to be around person? Help! I'm just really freaking out!

also, my sister metioned that the 'christmas bird' (a bird that comes around every christmas) was eaten by a dog. I mentioned, in passing, that I cried. And out of the corner of my eye, I saw him jerk his head toward me and just stare. I didn't look at him back, because I was afraid he'd look away. (All at the party)

Answer 1

Such is the nature of love. A little education is in order. See love is alot like fire, its a raw thing, its primitive, its powerful, its actually the bringer of every feeling you feel, every emotion that drives you. See love is THE emotion. So no matter what if you feel something, its because you love it. Now this compounds itself as we FEEL more for someone, which is pretty hard not to when you add in good feelings from friendship and a history of trust. So be assure the boy loves you, and yep, you love him. The question know is how and what your going to use that love for. Are you going to strength that relationship? Are you going to hide it behind insecurities? All it takes is saying something, but I'll warn against it, friends into lovers is hard2thecore, it runs deeper then the romance of fantasy, to the bitter/sweetness that is reality......but oooooo so much more intense....