are guys just as nervous as girls when they have a crush? what is going through their heads when they see a girl they like? do they just focus on look or do personalities matter...do they talk to their friends about the girl they like a lot? i am so curious cuz i am so confused right now over this guy i like....he says he wants a relationship but he wants for us to get to no eachother better first so he has no regrets and to a relationship is successful...he is the most amazing guy ever and i am willing to wait a while i just do not no how long to wait before i give up hope....
2007-10-27 16:26:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I get nervous around my crush, well when im around her I try to not make a complete idiot of myself, but if im comfortable with her ill try to flirt with her. well for me the only people I tell who i like is the people who i can turst and who can keep a secret.well he sounds like a guy who wants more then just sex so if u want more then that keep waiting, im guessing he looking for someone special
2007-10-27 16:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are different, some go for looks, some for personality, others for both(me for example).
I would only talk to my friends about the girl i like if they were really close friends that i could trust with my life.
It's no problem becoming friends first before going out,
gives you guys a chance to know each other better and to see if things will work out between you two.
2007-10-27 23:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sense 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a player to me. I wouldn't hold my breath, waiting for this guy.
And yes, guys get just as nervous as girls do when they're crushing on someone. I don't believe guys focus TOTALLY on looks, but I believe that a lot of them see that FIRST and then find out if they're compatible with the girl's personality later. Girls *can* be just as guilty of this, as well.
2007-10-27 23:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes guys get just as nervous sometimes more
2007-10-27 23:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by chocolateman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont talk to friends about a lady im interested in --- its none of their business ---- and how do you get to know someone without dating??? and a relationship already exists --- it may not be romantic --- i think he is being unrealistic ---- you have to date to get to know each other and then you have a relationship -- what happens then depends on how hard you work on it and how well you get on ---- best wishes
2007-10-27 23:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at "looks" then Personality and then if both check then ill start to flirt and find out if she likes me back
2007-10-27 23:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by winter_ice2113 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different genders, same species.
Things aren't too different between males and females.
2007-10-27 23:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋