There's this guy who's path and mine cross every couple weeks at work, but he's about 14 years older than me (I'm 25, 26 in Feb. and he turned 39 at the beginning of Oct). He's really cute, and we have some things in common. I'm almost positive he's single (no wedding band, no girlfriend mentioned on his myspace or facebook, no pictures in wallet or on his desk, secretary is a friend of mine and says she doesnt know about any girlfriends currently). I've only seen him thrice around our building, so I really haven't gotten a good chance to talk with him aside from work-related stuff. Oh, and our employer has no rules against employees dating, and we work in completely different departments, so I don't think it would interfere. I need help on tips for finding out if he likes me, whether or not i should let him know I like him, if i should send him a friend request on myspace, and what steps to take to start a friendship and possibly more... thanks in advance for all your suggestions!
2007-10-27 16:38:21 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any suggestions specifically for telling if he likes me? I can usually read young guys around my age... but I don't know if the same genreral "signs" apply to a 39 yr old?
2007-10-27 17:33:12 · update #1
the best i mean best idea is just say hello --- you are both old enough to see if the other person is interested in you by body language ---- im sorry i think you will really need to make the first move because i know i would never have asked a younger lady out --- by younger i mean over 4 - 5 years younger than me --- she would not be interested i will make a fool of myself etc etc --- ask if you can join him when he goes to lunch --- take or buy your lunch together and just sit and talk ---- have fun
2007-10-27 16:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by doing the friend request,come up with an excuse for it,us women can be very creative when we have our crosshairs on a target,the rest will follow.
2007-10-27 16:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're friends with the secratary, use that to parlay a meeting... like an office get-together. Have her invite you as a guest to a gathering he'll be at too. That's the perfect time to give him your card, and email away!!
Good luck!
2007-10-27 16:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign up for meals on wheels that way you can deliver his food and heart medication and have chat over a cup of tea and shortbread
2007-10-27 16:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by chocolateman 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋