and he never calls,or never says anything like he want me to come back or nothing,forgot to mention the fact that we have 2 kids besides the one in my tummy what do you think of that.
2007-10-27 16:23:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like it's time to take a look at your situation. I do not believe you have to get married to have or raise kids. I am concerned about the move. Please tell me you did it to make him step up because that almost never works. If it was for the better of your family, you and the kids, then stick to it. If he wants you three let him come to you but don't put your life on hold just for him. Always let your kids know who their real father is and try not to speak ill of him in front of the kids even though it can be hard at times. It will come back to haunt you in the end. You have to do what is best for your kids and their future. If this move was for the best for them then I for one am proud of you. As for him, if you still want him in the picture maybe you might have to reach out first but be strong. Make sure that's what you want. If he doesn't reach back then take him to court for support of the three kids and move on with your life. It might be tough at first but you will soon see it's not the end of the world just a new chapter.
2007-10-27 17:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by hopeyjo88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have planned this better. He's your boyfriend only, and you have 3 kids with the guy?
I don't know. I think you should have seen this coming. There is obviously a commitment problem there.
2007-10-27 23:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a single mother now. Its not as terrible as it could be. Your gov has programs to help you. You'll be fine. As for the father, if he doesnt come forward as he should, let the courts take care of that side of things.
2007-10-27 23:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people dont just know how to handle commitment...i think he's too immature for you. you better move on with your life.
2007-10-27 23:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by bleue77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop bringing children into this world that are not going to have a daddy.
2007-10-27 23:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what either of you are thinking...
2007-10-27 23:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by dontdoubtit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋