If its not for another friend, its for her boyfriend. I know hes more important right now, but she always cancels our plans and its starting to get rediculous. Im not going to go into mass detail but it always ends up being me, left out again. I know that she isnt trying to but it feels like she is. Our school soccer team got to state, and she didnt want to go. I decided id stay with her instead of go. Then the day before the game she called me at 10;30 saying she had other plans. I just dont no if her friendship is worth it anymore. Anyones advise is needed......
2007-10-27 17:23:21 · 8 answers · asked by CSWS♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her before you decide anything and explain how you feel.
if she's willing to talk to you and try to fix it, then it's worth it to stay friends with her and try and put more effort into the friendship
but if she dismisses the fact that you feel hurt then maybe she isnt worth your time, maybe you need to just let her go do her own thing,
2007-10-27 17:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by DaniDannica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that stinks, sorry that you are going through this. You should have a talk with her, that is of course if you can get her alone for 2 minutes, about how she is always with her boyfriend, and that even though you know that he is important to her, and you like him, that you feel like your friendship is disintegrating. If she catches the hint and spends a little more time with you in the following month I would not give up on her entirely. I would plan a few things to see if she ditches, and then if she does I would go friend hunting.
2007-10-27 17:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ledreru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you spoken to her?. you really should tell her how you feel...like how you feel she isn't behaving like a friend to ya. It may be hard, but I really believe that is what u need to do. She needs to respect your time... If she can't do that, then how can she be a friend?
My friends are all over the place...but i like to have time for each and every one of them...not making plans and ditching another. One day I make a plan for one...another day, a different one. She shouldn't be cancelling plans with you for another!!!
talk to her...and if she refuses to take your thought into consideration..I don't think the friendship is worth it at all.
2007-10-27 17:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anya Vincent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you, but she isn't a friend of yours anymore.
She's just using you as a standby, when her other plans fall through.
You are a person, not a library book, she can pick up and put down, just as she pleases.
You are a person in your own right, find another friend, that will be straight and honest with you.
If you did what she has done to you, she'd drop you like a hot potato.
So dump her and move on, you won't be giving much up.
2007-10-27 17:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mmm... I would talk to her about it-- but until she realizes what she's doing, don't change your plans at all (not even a tiny bit) to accommodate her. When her relationship with this guy is over though, she's probably going 2 want to cry on your shoulder, so be prepared....
Good Luck
2007-10-27 17:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time u guys make plans ask her what her pet peeves are and when she asks u tell her people who flake out on me it makes me want to get a bowl of cereal and cry.
2007-10-27 17:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by DVD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop making plans with her! find someone else to do crap with.!. i mean hey if she doesnt wana hang out wit u... its her loss.
watch her and her bf break up in a month or two and then she regrets ever wasting time with him.
dont worry.
be happy! (:
2007-10-27 17:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ LOVES TO DANCE ♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ditch her...it's not worth the stress.
2007-10-27 17:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by Gimmemore 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋