MEN: If you were in a bar, out with the guys, etc., and you saw an attractive woman wearing something that appealed to you, say, fishnet stockings... Would you phone your wife or girlfriend and explain what you saw, how much that woman's stockings turn you on and ask her to wear the same thing when you arrived home? (In this scenario, the wife/girlfriend has had a very stressful day, she has received an insult that was particularly rude from a coworker; same day, she also almost quit her job, she's very stressed and overtired. In this scenario you are also aware of her very, very bad day. She very, very sweetly agrees to wear the blasted fishnets.) Would you have done this? Why or why not? Please be as expressive as you care to be.
2007-10-27 15:19:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I wouldn't wear the blasted fishnets. I have had a bad day. I might take a hot bath and chill with a glass of tea. Next I would eat a nice dinner. If hubby comes home all horny for fishnets, and I felt better after the bath, and dinner, I would ask him for a massage and then tell him to put the fish nets on--look in the mirror and see what an idiot he looks like in them. Hopefully you will both have a good laugh or two which may lead to great fun loving sex without the trappings of illusions.
2007-10-28 07:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by belladonna 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope this didn't happen to you. If so, I'm sorry. No women should have to hear her husband say he wants her to do what another woman does. That's foolish, if what you do isn't enough, than maybe you find someone who wants you to be you, not look like some whore he seen at a bar. It's a matter of respect, your spouse should have enough respect for you as a human being not to do such a thing. Once again, I hope you didn't have to go through this.
2007-10-27 16:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by lilamare32 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would call and ask. I feel like this might cheer her up to have an nice orgasm or three. I would be able to tell by her mood if she thought it would be a good idea or not or would hope she would be honest enought to tell me. If she still expressed not interest or turned down my attempt to cheer her up, then I would save it for a rainy day.
Honestly though, if she were in that bad a mood, she would be with me and I would be the designated driver so she could forget the day, get drunk, puke, and I might still get lucky!!!
2007-10-27 16:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, I wouldn't, not because I didn't like the stockings (or the girl) or didn't wanted to see them in my own wife when I return home .........
but because it would be pretty rude of me, its like call her and say "hey I'm checking this really hot girl when you are away" that is what women would hear, face it
If I really want some stockings on my wife, I would left the bar, go buy them and go home with them as a gift for my wife, asking her nicely to wear them, and telling her how sexy she'd be on that
and by the way, keep my mouth shut about the girl that inspired this gift, unless I wanted a very nasty fight!
2007-10-27 15:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mak_time 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
That may be insensitive, but not as insensitive as my X, I had an outpatient procedure, he would go and even worse; instead of coming home and bringing dinner; he went out and got drunk then repeatedly called me throughout the night insulting me; until I finally just turned off the phone.
Its a sign of low character.
2007-10-27 15:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If as you say I was aware of her very bad day I wouldn't be out with the guys to begin with. I would be at home trying to make her day better.
2007-10-27 15:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by wildfire78 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because sex is one of the ways we, my wife and I, escape from the stress of the outside word. And actually we have called each other up because she saw someone wearing something she wante dto see me in or I saw some in something I wanted to see her in. It's a great kind of relationship to have.
2007-10-27 18:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a guy, but obviously his mind was elsewhere. Men get distracted easily. Maybe he thought being intimate would make you feel better - if he told you how great you looked in what he asked you to wear, you'd feel less bad about your day.
You can have a pity party or you can try to be happy, it's your choice.
He wasn't trying to be mean, you're just emotional.
2007-10-27 15:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Is this a joke? how do you know this chick wasnt a payed prostitute?
Never do something a man wants if it is based on another woman's low self esteem which lead her to dress like a sl*t my god how sickening.
I'd remind my damn husband I have self respect and a higher self esteem than some skank sitting in a bar tryna pick up to make herself feel better by looking like trash . Then I'd make him sleep on the damn couch.
2007-10-27 15:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would love it if my man did something like that! That would make me feel like at least he is not trying to take her home, although she is attractive I am the only one who really satisfy him. That would really boost me confidence on a bad day! I think that is sweet. Its not his fault I am having a bad day.
2007-10-27 15:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋