he and i have been divorced for a few yrs now and have tried to work things out but sex hasn't change as far as him wanting it all of the time....note : i have two children ...work a full time job have my own home that i've accomplished to get on my own as well as 3 vehicles..promotion at work , my life is non stop , dont' get me wrong we do the deed just not like he would want which would be all of the time ......he says that he cant' help it , runs in the family and in the bible it states that no wife should deny her husband of sex ...? told me last night that other girls are attracted to him ? ok soo........... am i missing somthing here ,,,,,,i do totally understand that we all have some sort of needs whether it be emotional , spiritual or sexual but when is enough enough , is he asking for too much out of me ?
2007-10-27 15:06:59 · 8 answers · asked by hotrodgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi.yes i really think so.now heres why.all i hear is he is concerned about what he wants when he wants where and how much.when is the last time he just wanted to cuddle?talk about trival stuff?asked how are you really really doing?now as far as the bible goes do not let him pull that crap.it also says things inmoderation so as to not let them become an obsession.such as sex.food gambling.and any way hes your ex.that means he has chosen to be apart from not part of.your a great person who chose him to share all of herself with him hes the one who broke the trust and honesty of the vows not you.tell him what about thru sickness and health hes very very selfish.he is not helping on those issues you talk about.mental emotional spiritual all he sees is physcial we have to nurture all aeras of to be whole.shameon him. set yourself some boundaries do not let him get in your headlike this its a form of abuse MENTAL!!!!!!!!!do not enable him we have to set boundaries.not in a selfish or mean way but in order for us to be able to have a healthy realationship with ourselves other signifacant others and GOD !!!!!!!!!!!ive got plenty on this subject for him and you hay where was he anyway while you were getting the house cars not where he was suppose to bor doing what he was suppose to be.do not let him hold the children over your head as hostage ,PLEASE !!!!!!!!PLEASE!!!!!!!!!! wish i could find someone half as good as you.alklways give him with all power the glory we do the foot work but he lets us get material things LETS US !!!!!!! im not hard to find if you ever need to talk dale YOUR DIVORCED YOU OWE HIM NOTHING DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR HIM!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-27 15:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by jayhawker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, he's asking too much of you! Can I ask...if you're divorced, why are you even involved? Look at all you've accomplished on your own. Be proud of that and realize that you owe him nothing, let alone all the sex HE wants! What does he offer YOU? He sounds selfish and immature.
2007-10-27 15:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by Bree1120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are divorced why are having sex with him? You are not obligated to him anymore. Tell him to find a woman that can satisfy his needs. Because it's too stressful for you.
2007-10-27 15:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sanny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl you are divorced you owe NOTHING to him you BOTH decided to end what you had now tell him to get on with his own life and if you ever have the need for it YOU will be the one calling him untill then tell him to go to the girls that are so attracted to him
2007-10-27 15:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by banuelos-m@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are divorced why are having sex with him? You are not obligated to him anymore. Tell him to find a woman that can satisfy his needs
2007-10-27 15:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!! Abandon that creep and want he's locked up for all times!!! human beings like which will creep decrease back up while they are enjoyed back. human beings like that could desire to be locked up in an institute like the decide Rotenburg Institute the place they use electric powered shocks.
2016-10-02 22:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then just use him as a booty call, until you find yourself a boyfriend. For him to throw at you that other woman are attracted to him, I would have said, "bye", and that would be it.
2007-10-27 15:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he doesnt respect you to be honest, if your trying to work things out though you have to compromise to make it work
2007-10-27 15:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋