I am deeply in love with this man that I have been dating for three years. We have grown extremely close to each other over the course of these three years. We plan on getting married in the future, but latey...I have been questioning whether or not I want to spend the rest of my life with him...because lately he has been doing and saying things that irritate me. When I am away from him, I miss him like crazy and want to be with him. When I finally get to be with him again, I end up feeling irritated and not wanting to be around him. It's crazy the way that I feel. Any explanations as to why I feel this way and what I can do to change it?
2007-10-27 13:55:25 · 3 answers · asked by **Sparkle** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cannot change men--you can only change how to you deal with them. The reality of course is that when he is not with you, he does not irritate you. You can confront him with these issues and of course like most men, he may get very defensive. These things that he does and says that irritate you are what counselors call red flags. If you are questioning whether you want to spend the rest of our life with him, you probably are thinking that you don't..
2007-10-27 14:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're in a relationship where when it's romantic it's really good but when the romance cools off / fluxuates which happens in all relationships, there isn't much friendship parts there. Without being friends when the romance cools the odds of having a lasting relationship together is practically nill.
2007-10-27 21:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lover of Blue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't rational. There is little hope trying to make any sense out of it. It is what it is. Do what makes you happy.
2007-10-27 21:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Cysteine 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋