Family & Relationships - 27 October 2007

Are there white girls who are tall that date a short guy. Becuase were I live I see a tall black girl with a short black guy or I see a hispanic girl who is taller and goes out with a short hispanic guy. These girls were attractive! So I don't want to be prejudice but are white girls shallow than minority girls?

2007-10-27 07:31:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the Titanic? The one who is young and loves that girl? Cuz i don't want to watch it if he does.

2007-10-27 07:29:55 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 07:25:35 · 5 answers · asked by Pretty Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

So theres this teacher. He's really cool. But i think hes a little creepy. I think he likes me a little at least. I dont know if he likes ME specifically more or if he just like us girls. Heres my solo evidence-

*Rubs my Back
*Massages my neck when talking'
*Calls me "Jordin Jordin"
*Gets down close when helping me
*Tells me to come in for extra help- when hes like "worried about my grade"
*Talks to me in the halls
*Says hi to me more than anyone else when coming into class

My all-girl evidence-
- Puts arm around others
-Flips girl's ponytails
- He was looking at my friends jeans and stroaked the meterial but also her leg
ETC.....

me or all-girls!??! HELP!

2007-10-27 07:24:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always do the Soulja Boy dance at school. I know im doing it right because I followed the steps on youtube. But this biotch girl at school is like your not doing right. im like yea and then we get in a fight HELP!! well not really a fight but an argument

2007-10-27 07:24:51 · 4 answers · asked by Ali <3 1 in Friends

i play games on xbox live. last weekend i spoke to this guy who i really liked. i want to play again with him. i really liked his voice. how can i get to him again without him thinkink i am gay?

2007-10-27 07:24:39 · 4 answers · asked by brutus 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for 7 months and we are expecting a child in May. We always spend time together , but we don't live together.About a week ago we get into a huge argument over something stupid and now he says we need to slow down things a bit. You know like how many days a week we see each other and that we both need time for ourselves which I totally agree on that one.But he is like before we move in together or get married I need to make sure that im making the right choice and that we won't kill each other. Number one I never said anything about wanting to live together even though I would love it ,and I never said nothing about marriage..he hasn't ever been married to where I have.Do you think that he is getting scared by his feelings and he is now fighting them or do you think that is his easy way of pulling away a bit ? The strange thing is NOTHING has changed , I still see him daily and he still kisses me and everything ~ totally confusing

2007-10-27 07:24:30 · 3 answers · asked by SUNRIZE 1 in Singles & Dating

"NO WAY" , what are you after", and "no chance mate you are not going out with your mates ? Doesn't she love me anymore ?

2007-10-27 07:24:09 · 29 answers · asked by Floppy Dick 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was snooping on my boyfriend's computer. I found pictures of different. Not porn pictures (I could forgive that-what man hasn't looked a porn. I find it somewhat natural)

These looked like pictures you would find on myspace and other sites like that.

I don't know what to say to him. I was snooping through the files on his computer.

What do you think?

2007-10-27 07:21:43 · 21 answers · asked by J'adore 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Can I turn around and smash it into the face of one of my bridesmaids that has been a total *****?

2007-10-27 07:19:17 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was 18 the first time and although I loved him -we were too young to understand.(I still think about him every day).I was 36 the second time- I waited 17 years to get married again-I wanted it to be right. Somehow, I was fooled and lied to and cheated on and then left for another person.I don't trust my judgement now and I said this time it would be forever or nothing. Since I was conned I am not sure whether to follow that now or never "thing".

2007-10-27 07:19:10 · 10 answers · asked by R.Stafford 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-27 07:17:39 · 6 answers · asked by sincere12_26 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think doing a dollar dance at a wedding is just asking for more money. I want to do one and I also would like some suggestions about what song I could dance to. But most inprotanly I would like to know do you think if I do a dollar dance its like begging?

2007-10-27 07:17:38 · 35 answers · asked by marm 1 in Weddings

2007-10-27 07:15:10 · 4 answers · asked by chaz 1 in Singles & Dating

you are not the kind of person who gets too much jealous about your boyfriend.....not really a jealous type but maybe a little...does people see this as not normal or indifference?

2007-10-27 07:11:16 · 15 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok.I am happily married to a wonderful man.He likes to go walking around the mall with me etc.He has a awesome sense of humor and makes even a trip to the grocery fun.My ex never wanted to go shopping or do anything and that's part of the reason that I left.Does any of your spouses/bofriends do the same.

2007-10-27 07:08:40 · 14 answers · asked by what did you say 4 in Marriage & Divorce

even if they used their own cash to do it??

Im asking because me and my husband had a situation arise a few days ago and it got pretty ugly (we're cool now, but i still dont understand why he got mad.... so i need you help)

My aunt came into some money last month and she gave me a nice piece of it (im her favorite niece). I didn't hide the money from him... he was the 1st person i told about it. I gave him some of it, gave my kids some, put a little in our household account.... and still had some change to play with.

Now back in Sept. I told him i wanted a new car for my birthday... nothing fancy. just a charger. He said no. I had 3 vehicles (all very nice) and none of them had a note... so why get a new one just because.

Well last week i went to the lexus dealership with my brother to get his oil changed and fell in love with the 2008 gs450 hybrid. I decided i want one and im gonna get it.

cont. in a moment

2007-10-27 07:07:53 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs Jackson - West 2 in Marriage & Divorce

are nt mine. i have no kids. we've been together for 1yr &1/2. as things got more serious with her the problems started. the kids are hellions, they hit me & don't respect me & they have no bedtime. i tell her this & the fact that they need a bedtime & she tells them to stop but they keep on. we were supposed to save money for a house but she blew her $6000 income tax check. & now she's broke. i was pissed. more & more i wonder why i am here in this relationship. i love her but its too much. i've been thinking maybe i'm nt cut out for this whole dating a girl with kids thing. i didn't expect this to happen when i got into this relationship. i told her about my feelings & she put me through this whole guilt trip thing saying if i love her i wouldn't run out on her. but if i stay in this relationship i feel like i will be very unhappy. now i found out that she has been friends w/ & texting some guy she's communicating online. i'm fed up!! she tells me he's just a friend. am i being used

2007-10-27 07:07:44 · 17 answers · asked by petey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have four child, married 7 years. When we married my husband and I had little money. So the ring was not well made, 3 years ago the stone fell out. i have no idea where it went.

these days he makes a substantial amount of money. and has showed no interest in getting me a ring.He has made no attempts to even look in a jewelry store, or brought up the idea of getting one. He knows how deeply hurt I am.
I am not sure what to think, maybe he has no long term interest in this marriage,and this is the reason he will not get a ring. ?
i cant figure out why there have been many big purchases and none of these in the 3 year coarse a ring,
I told him if year 2008 I start the year with a naked finger. I will have to leave him, this will truly show how valued our marriage is.
this is not like I am a girlfriend wanting a huge engagment ring. I earned this, I have been faithful contributed financially, stayed fit, had 4 kids, now what? is this enough to give the walking papers?

2007-10-27 07:06:44 · 20 answers · asked by no name 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-27 07:02:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating. Then the love of my life moved in. I broke it off with the first guy. However, I felt something with him I didn't expect to and started seeing him again. The guy I was living with kept pushing me to decide. I loved them both (good qualities in each). I didn't decide, so after 5 months of this guy 2 decided to shack up with someone else. Did he do the right thing by choosing for me? Will I ever get over him? Will we find our way back to each other someday(either as friends or lovers)?

They both knew about each other. I never hid anything I was doing. Guy 1 was understanding and gave me the needed space. Guy 2 hid everything including the fact that he was gonna leave me.

2007-10-27 07:01:57 · 3 answers · asked by hljones1169 2 in Singles & Dating

Can a person that has been passive aggressive for 57 years change? Is it passive aggressiveness to cause the other spouse to feel like what their feeling is their fault? I am so tired of always feeling like things are my problem, my fault.

2007-10-27 06:55:50 · 11 answers · asked by okie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok..Me and my bf just started going out yesterday. We have liked eachother for a while but were kind of afraid to go out with eachother. Our highschool isn't exactly the most accepting school for interracial relationships. Plus, my older brother who is very protective of me isn't very accepting so I haven't told him yet. ...I do't really know what me question is just sort of looking for advice.

2007-10-27 06:55:34 · 13 answers · asked by Tati L 3 in Singles & Dating

26 and single.

2007-10-27 06:55:28 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

right now there are just the two of us, but we really would like another adult in our family for numerous reasons. Trick is finding someone else who's interested and compatible.
Any suggestions?
Thanks!

2007-10-27 06:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He hurt me so bad. Ignored me, cheated on me...ect ect.. we seperated 2 times and not the hearing for the divorce is coming soon. I resent the fact he lied to me and manipulated to get what he wanted and is still doing so. He had people following me and playing games on the internet. Of course I can't prove this but we all know things like this go on. I asked God to help me and I decided to not fight him at all because I was hurting so bad and so were our children. I love them enough to just stop the fighting. I signed away all I invested and what I know I should fight for. It's not worth it to me anymore. I feel it would taint me and in 2008 I really want to start fresh. All I can hope and pray is that God knows I tried and wanted to do the right thing by just letting it go. Am I crazy for doing this? I am putting my trust in God for my future. My family and friends think that I was crazy for just letting it go.

2007-10-27 06:54:10 · 8 answers · asked by new life abundant 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have nothing to do and i like getting out of the house. my mom wont want to do it if we have to spend a lot of money.

2007-10-27 06:47:28 · 7 answers · asked by name has been deleted 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Any regrets?

2007-10-27 06:45:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

one of my friends likes this boy...so much..but they have never met properly only talk over msn...and she really does like him..i was at the park with a friend and we was withh him and his mates..genuinleyy justt hanging aroundd nd he came on to me...we made out nd he ended up fingerin me...:( it was a mistake but my friend isnt talking to me as i rang her straight away and told her..it was a mistake i was saying no to him but he just kept doing it and going further and he hurt me...she doesnt no this she just knows that he fingered me and we made out but she isnt talking to me i am saying sorry to her but she is in a mood with me :( please can someone give me advice i really dont know what to do :( or sayy !

by the way i we are 14 !
he was drunk. . i wasnt really
he does this every weekend with literally any girl
she does no about but she isnt talkin to me :(
pleasee someonee give me advicee !! :(
xxxx

2007-10-27 06:43:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has shown signs of cheating with his baby mama. He tells me that there isn't nothing going on between the two of them but she is always texting his phone begging him to come back and how much she loves him. Keep in mind that they haven't been together for about three years and she's still trying trying to be with him. He used to go over to see their son late at night and one time he spent the night over her house because their son had to have surgery. I've had to call her phone to let her know that he has a girlfriend because it was obvious that he wasn't going to tell her. He stated to me that nothing was going on and he never loved her. Someone help me please.

2007-10-27 06:43:32 · 5 answers · asked by yungcoltrane 1 in Singles & Dating